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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 02:57 PM Original message |
My marriage is in jeopardy |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
1. Oh, I'm so sorry. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:02 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Thanks |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
2. I can do a hug |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Thank you Billy |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
3. Sorry |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. The more he withdraws, the angrier I get. |
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fleabert (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
4. i am so sorry. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:05 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. The insurance will cover individual counseling. |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:51 PM Response to Reply #10 |
37. Many counselors will "work with you" on this |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 04:58 PM Response to Reply #37 |
44. Thanks for the tip...eom |
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DeposeTheBoyKing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. Oh, I'm sorry to hear this |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:06 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Thanks DTBK |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
6. Did you vacation alone or together? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. The vacation thing was his doing... |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
12. I hope he comes out of his depression and starts |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Thank you friend... |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
13. ... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Thank you .... |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. Heres a hug |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:11 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. Thanks lost.... |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
19. This remark is not meant to be cruel even though it will sound like it |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:20 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. It does not sound cruel, and I ask myself that all the time |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:29 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Three bottles of wine a night is a LOT of alcohol |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:33 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. He does not think it is alot. I try to tell him that |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:41 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Al-Anon is for the partners of those with a drinking problem. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 04:59 PM Response to Reply #31 |
45. Thanks - I did not know that. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #45 |
102. There are Al-Anon chapters all over the world. Membership is anonymous. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 07:47 PM Response to Reply #45 |
108. I went to al-anon for a while, it helped. Hugs to you malta blue. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 02:01 PM Response to Reply #45 |
116. Remember that Al-Anon like all 12-step groups... |
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TheDoorbellRang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-09-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #116 |
131. Actually, AlAnon does NOT depend on religious faith at all |
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TheDoorbellRang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-09-07 03:12 PM Response to Reply #45 |
132. See my post downthread., maltablue. |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:45 PM Response to Reply #27 |
34. Al-anon would be for YOU. Not for him. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #34 |
46. Thanks so much.... |
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Zoigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:50 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. Hey, this guy needs help |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:01 PM Response to Reply #36 |
48. His best friend recently quit drinking |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:54 PM Response to Reply #48 |
78. Unless and until HE is ready to get some help |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
21. He needs to get his ass to counseling. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:30 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. He asked me for the insurance information over two |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 04:03 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. Good luck. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
22. ... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:31 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Thank you redqueen. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
23. Sorry to say this, but it sounds as if he's not interested in keeping the |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:34 PM Response to Reply #23 |
28. He moved to NY from California when we got married and |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:37 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Maybe that is what he needs, a change of scenery for a bit. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:38 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Perhaps I will suggest it. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:42 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Thanks, mb. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
33. *hugs* I hope it will improve |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #33 |
50. Thank you. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
35. I'm sorry, malta blue |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #35 |
51. thanks friend. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
38. ... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:04 PM Response to Reply #38 |
52. I just can't believe that I have another |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:00 PM Response to Reply #52 |
64. except -- you didn't do it. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. You are right, and I know that. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:20 PM Response to Reply #66 |
75. you betchya -- |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 07:51 PM Response to Reply #52 |
109. You sound like you see the good in people, are a kind caring person. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
39. My dear malta blue... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:05 PM Response to Reply #39 |
53. Thanks Peggy. |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
40. I've been there sweetie, with a depressed spouse. It's hell. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. that is one messed up therapist.... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
42. Hug. And... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:09 PM Response to Reply #42 |
56. I felt so horrible. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. Um, it sounds like his problem is depression. Drinking makes that worse, by the way. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:24 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Thank you BlueIris. |
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Bombero1956 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
43. he should see a regular MD first |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:11 PM Response to Reply #43 |
57. He has not been inclined to discuss it with the MD |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
47. I'm not qualified to give advice |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:11 PM Response to Reply #47 |
58. MissMillie |
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Maestro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
49. So sorry to hear this. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:12 PM Response to Reply #49 |
59. That seems so drastic, but in a way you may be right |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
55. Does he know your marriage is in jeopardy? |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:14 PM Response to Reply #55 |
60. He is open to marriage counseling, so I suppose he is aware that |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Keep us posted... |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
65. Oh, honey, I'm so sorry |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. Thanks friend.... |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
68. I'm so sorry |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:11 PM Response to Reply #68 |
71. thank you ... |
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bluethruandthru (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
69. Get a book called "Getting the Love you Want" |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:13 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Thank you for the suggestion. |
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bluethruandthru (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:28 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. This book was better than counseling. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:45 PM Response to Reply #77 |
84. We just spoke for 2 hours and I emphasized the |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 07:09 PM Response to Reply #69 |
80. An important book about couples and depression.... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:45 PM Response to Reply #80 |
85. Thanks Zanne... |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
70. First off |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:14 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. Hey there... |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:17 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. Communication is key |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 07:44 PM Response to Reply #73 |
107. Good luck. {{malta blue}} |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
76. You know..well...you may not know...marriage counseling is much cheaper than divorce... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:47 PM Response to Reply #76 |
87. I have been through one divorce that cost me over 30k |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
79. Slow down. No need to escalate. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #79 |
88. I am trying. I managed to get him to talk for 2 hours tonight., |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
81. Malta, don't worry about how it will look to your child... if you have to split up. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:51 PM Response to Reply #81 |
89. Radio Lady |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 06:05 PM Response to Reply #89 |
103. Hi Malta. Thanks for your kind comments, on a day which has been particularly trying. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 06:37 PM Response to Reply #103 |
104. Oh Radio Lady... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
82. sorry malta blue |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:52 PM Response to Reply #82 |
90. I have learned that in this thread |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. one day at a time |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:56 PM Response to Reply #92 |
97. ... |
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Hawkeye-X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:28 PM Response to Reply #82 |
128. I concur with everyone else here - marriage counseling helps |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
83. I'm so sorry, MB. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #83 |
91. LIW |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:56 PM Response to Reply #91 |
96. ... |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
86. I don't have any advice to give |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:54 PM Response to Reply #86 |
94. I need as many as I can get |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
93. I'm really sorry |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:55 PM Response to Reply #93 |
95. Right now the lounge is my only source of sanity.... |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. I hear you... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-04-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. Misery loves company I suppose.... |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
100. Oh, wow! I am so sorry! |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 06:39 PM Response to Reply #100 |
105. Rhiannon - my friend....I could really use an IRL get together |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 01:25 PM Response to Reply #105 |
113. I would love to see you, as well, but am not sure what my plans are yet. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
101. I'm sorry |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-05-07 06:40 PM Response to Reply #101 |
106. Hugs are really good right now... |
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greymattermom (680 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-06-07 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
110. get out |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-06-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #110 |
111. He has agreed to go to therapy and quit the solo drinking... |
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Dervill Crow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 02:22 PM Response to Reply #111 |
117. Those are huge! |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 05:11 PM Response to Reply #117 |
123. I am so pleased with his choices! |
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mduffy31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-06-07 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
112. I haven't seen or talked to my wife in 17 months |
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Dervill Crow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #112 |
118. I'm so sorry . . . |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
114. Got a question... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #114 |
120. We vacationed separately because his boss would not |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
115. I'm so sorry to hear about this. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 05:09 PM Response to Reply #115 |
121. He is depressed and will be going to a therapist on |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
119. Sorry MB, hope things get better |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 05:10 PM Response to Reply #119 |
122. Ain't that the truth! |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-09-07 05:42 PM Response to Reply #122 |
133. We all struggle with two competing concepts: FREEDOM and SECURITY! |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
124. I feel ya. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
125. You can't afford to NOT get some counseling. Find a way, OK? |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
126. Hi, Malta Blue |
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Pushed To The Left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
127. Hug is on the way |
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jeff30997 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:38 PM Response to Original message |
129. Well...I was going to say :Just shoot Alex Trebek but... |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-09-07 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
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