Ack! I've been dumped! I hate men!

[David__77]

All I get is "my feelings changed." That's it, nothing else!

Am I crazy for thinking that more explanation than that is required after being with someone for 8 months and telling each other you were in love?

It's what I get for being with someone several years younger - he was 20. I guess I've learned a lesson!

Bah! I'm bitter! Tell me something encouraging!

[Rabrrrrrr]

1. Something encouraging: Shrubbie only has 497 days left!

That's the best I can come up with right now.

I'm sorry to hear you got dumped. That always hurts!

Best wishes to you!

[David__77]

4. That does make me feel better!

I've been too inwardly focused. Time to be out in the world! Good things are happening. The country's moving left!

[Clintonista2]

8. actually, that just made me feel worse :(

500 days...

[Bucky]

15. At current rates, only about 1700 more Americans should die on his watch

I get this figure by adding the totals from New Orleans, 9/11, and the military deaths in Iraq--about 8300, then dividing it by the 2423 days he's been in office. So only about 3.42 Americans die needlessly each day Bush wanders the corridors of power picking his nose and wiping his boogers on our national treasures.

1700 dead Americans from now, he'll be gone. Hoo-fuckin-ray. I don't have it in me to convert Bush days into dead Iraqi rates just now.

[IndianaJones]

2. wasn't meant to be. you'll do better. nt.

[supernova]

3. Just means there's somebody better for you

and you're one more closer to him! ;-)

[dembotoz]

5. other fish in the sea

Its hard now, be happy it is only 8 months.
Better that then suffer thru over 15 years of pain and misery.
Wait damn---this is supposed to be encouraging!!!

[skygazer]

6. Getting dumped sucks no matter the reason given

I'm sorry and I guess the only thing I've got is realize how much better to learn it now than later when you might have a lot more invested in it. :hug:

[YankeyMCC]

7. Well at least you found out now...that's all I got after 14 years of marriage nt

[David__77]

10. I'm sorry... that's perspective.

Why are people so emotionally irresponsible?

[YankeyMCC]

12. Figure out that answer and

you'll be a happy person :)

[David__77]

16. ...or a very sad one?

I'm not sure there's a solution. I think our lifespans are WAY too short to sort through all the emotions and life experiences in order to best achieve happiness. I'm trying to do so in overdrive lol... Seriously, some people just don't want to deal with anything "heavy," and so at the sign of potential trouble, they flee inward or away.

[xchrom]

9. now you can find someone better!

hotties galore out there looking for you!

[David__77]

11. Thanks! That's a great perspective.

I must say, I've never looked better, so it's a good time to be single, I suppose! lol...

[Bucky]

13. Dude, you're a dude.

I'll bet your next guy'll be a man. So there's that to look forward to.

[CatWoman]

14. I still love you, David

:loveya:

[wildhorses]

17. anything more than that is just

blah, blah, blah bs anyway. face it, the fucker was boring! onwards and upwards, dude :yourock:

[mtnester]

18. Maybe I can set you up with my son and you can get him THE HELL OUT OF CINCINNATI!

I have tried until I am blue. Stubborn as a mule he is. Hell, we live near Columbus...a MUCH more friendly town for him but NOOOOO..does he want to live near BORING Columbus?

OK, so he and I have had a fabulous week...I love him but this week he is driving me BATSHIT crazy. A mule AND he is being wishy washy.

Again, let me say I LOVE my son, but there are days....