Need help quickly.....

[Maine-ah]

my sisters ex is supposed to come over to the house to fix some stuff outside that needs to get done in order to sell the house. She doesn't want him in the house, nor does the work require him to be inside the house at any point. He's requesting inside access to "House access would be helpful for such things as: hose, ladder, bathroom, cat patting, etc.." ( this is from email)

So, hose will be outside along with ladder....

what say you o' lounge about house access?

got her on the phone right now....

[laylah]

1. Let him know

everything that is necessary will be at his disposal on the porch/step/outside the house? Just a thought.

[Maine-ah]

2. trying to do it nicely as well

because said man has, um, "issues"....

[SPKrazy]

3. i take it that it is still in both of their names

and he is doing the fixing

i agree that she needs to tell him to stay out.

boundaries

:hi:

[mainegreen]

4. 'cat patting'?

Why not tell your sister to clean or pretend to clean. Stick a mop in a bucket in the corner of the room and move the chairs in a line or something. She can tell him 'you can't come in!! I just cleaned! What do you need, I'll get it..' if he tries to come in.

:shrug:

[Maine-ah]

5. lol that's what I said "cat patting"? wtf...

very creative Mainegreen! Thanks :hi:

but she has to be at work tomorrow when he's at the house.

[Maine-ah]

6. ok, if any more suggestions,

would be great...I have her looking at this thread from her computer....:) I can't respond anymore 'cause I'm going to be while BB is sleeping or else I'm not going to get any sleep my self.