what do you think about having multiple partners behind your SO's back

[datasuspect]

?

if what they don't know doesn't hurt them, does that make it acceptable to you?

[Deja Q]

1. Even if the SO wanted an orgy, it's wrong, dangerous, and stupid.

Even if both SO and I wanted to have an "open" relationship and circumvent any heartache (in theory), the risk of STDs will always be there and condoms aren't a panacea either. Neither is Zovirax.

[JVS]

2. Completely immoral, which means it is totally awesome and sweet

If you can swing it, do it, if your SO has problems then maybe they need to become and ex-SO

[datasuspect]

3. and stop being such a stick in the mud and shit

i am evil incarnate

[JVS]

4. Drink, smoke, be evil!

[datasuspect]

5. more than 50% of marriages end in divorce

[JVS]

6. If she's busting your balls now, it means that she never really loved you anyway!

The kids probably aren't yours. Run away, never let her know where you are, and by no means should you EVER send a check!

[datasuspect]

7. I went to sleep last night, I work as hard as I can-a

I bring home my money, you take my money, give it to another man
I should have quite you, baby-a, oh, such a long time ago-ho

[JVS]

8. So I guess the coclusion is: go for it, sleep around

[skygazer]

9. Is that an offer?

:P

[JVS]

10. Yes it is. An offer from me.

[datasuspect]

11. there's plenty of datasuspect to go around

i saw your heart before you were born. i am love.

[JVS]

12. *mutters* damn he's smooth. I bettter stalk up on wine-coolers and champale if I'm to compete

[skygazer]

13. Well, it said "multiple"

Why do you have to compete?

[JVS]

14. ooohhhh, I believe we have a "brazen hussy" on our hands

As Mr. Burns would say: Excellent!

[skygazer]

16. Yeah, but I don't drink those crap wine coolers or champale, buster

Good bourbon or vodka only.

[crim son]

15. Perceived morality aside, it is sad

especially but not only if the partner believes that s/he is in a loving, monogamous relationship.

[Rabrrrrrr]

17. It's what being a family-hating flag-burnin' liberal is all about!

[TOhioLiberal]

18. Immoral and unethical...

...who knows what you'd be bringing home with you.

Edited cause I can't speel gud.

[BarenakedLady]

19. Ahhh you said "multiple"

...

:evilgrin:

[Bryan]

20. Highly unethical

...not to mention callous, selfish, and risky from an STD communicability standpoint. Ongoing dishonesty is destructive to relationships.

Now, having multiple partners that your SO knows about and always taking precautions with them-or safely partaking of multiple partners and having no SO whatever-is a whoooooole other kettle of fish.

[triguy46]

21. Seems like you would need to redefine "significant' to mean something like

just another piece of ass.

[Redstone]

22. I would not do it. Not even ONE "secret parter." But that's just me.

Redstone

[MrsMatt]

23. Cheating is cheating

it doesn't matter what your partner knows or doesn't know. It diminshes you as a person.

[Nikia]

24. I think it is a bad idea

Immoral and too much work.
On the otherhand...No there is no other hand.