If true love is not possible, would you settle for an affair with a married guy?

[XemaSab]

What if he's super hot? :shrug:

Uh this is a copycat... sure... :hide:

[some guy]

1. no.

Nor an affair with a married woman, even if she was super hot.

[qwertyMike]

2. NO

Ask him if he wants to leave his wife first

Otherwise you are a piece of ass on the side

[grasswire]

3. Helen Gurley Brown...

...because of the shortage of single mature men for single mature women, recommends that each man be a partner with two women. The shortage, of course, is because women live longer than men and tend to take partners below their age group.

[Omphaloskepsis]

4. Oh, hell yeah..

Fuck it, I need to get off too.

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[Richard Steele]

5. Nope. Dick Steele don't SETTLE!

Every time I find true love, it's worth the lonely years it took to find it!

[Oeditpus Rex]

6. Not if he rides a scooter

:P

[lost-in-nj]

7. no

I have been on the other side of this..

:(


lost

[LeftyMom]

10. What she said.

No fucking way, not even if I was desperately lonely and he was the coolest guy evar.

[zingaro]

15. I'll second that.

For the same reason.

[SOteric]

8. Notsomuch

[TommyO]

9. If he and his partner had a truly open relationship, yes

Otherwise, absolutely not.

[lizziegrace]

11. Nope

been on the other side of that one too.

No one involved gets out of that situation unscarred...

[La Lioness Priyanka]

12. not unless he was in an open marriage.

[supernova]

13. No, No, 1000 times No!

I think better of myself than that. And the guy who cheats is a manipulative asshole.

[Tektonik]

14. No

Not unless I really loved him, and we would divorce his SO right away, but then again the only way I'd touch a married man would be if I had not known about the marriage at first. If someone lied about that in a relationship, and if I found it out, I'd have left him ASAP.

[I Have A Dream]

16. No. n/t

[AnneD]

17. No!!!!!!

I am worth a full buffet....not table scrapes. Know your worth and don't settle for less. I don't care if that married man looks like Mel Gibson (or your fav eye candy) and is hung like Johnny Holmes-he isn't worth it. It cheapens you and is disrectful of your sisters.

[DarkTirade]

18. That depends. How big is his...

bank account?

[RetroLounge]

19. No...

eom

RL

[Shine]

20. Absolutely not.

why set oneself up for heartbreak and disappointment? Life is too short to "settle" for anything...especially when it comes to Love.

[hisownpetard]

21. No. And a second "No," if he's super hot.