UrbScotty
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:07 PM
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Why do women care what we guys think of them? |
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Edited on Thu Feb-05-04 04:13 PM by ih8thegop
We're men! If you have a problem with that, then go to www.MenAreSmarterThanWomen.com (not a real website; I checked)
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:08 PM
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1. sometimes I think women care more what women think of them |
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:08 PM
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2. Why do men care what women think of them? (nt) |
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:13 PM
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5. Why do women care that men care what women think of them? (nt) |
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:09 PM
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and probably comments regarding their looks/body from less-than-enlightened men growing up.
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:10 PM
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4. When people say they don't care what others think |
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Edited on Thu Feb-05-04 04:19 PM by Loonman
It's kind of a half-fib.
Everybody cares about what others say or think about them, especially if it's behind their backs.
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:15 PM
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6. well I sure don't care |
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:19 PM
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:25 PM
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8. I think it's a much lower level than that |
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Despite our efforts to convince ourselves otherwise, there is something very basic about the perception of beauty and what drives us to seek a mate.
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:33 PM
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I just wanted to be PC..
Women has always wanted to look pretty..
And here's a secret..
IT IS SUPERFUN TO DO MAKEUP, SHOP CLOTHES, AND DRESS PRETTY/SEXY
/hides from the feminist mafia
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Thu Feb-05-04 05:00 PM
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12. -- feminist mafia approaches, stage left -- |
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The problem is that "society" encourage women to be self-conscious at the expense of self-confidence. If you have your self-confidence mastered -- that is, you realize that you are You, with or without your female "costume" on -- then no harm comes in playing the role. In my experience however, this is rarely the case. Women are encouraged to play the demeaning role of sex object before they even know who they are as individuals.
/feminist mafia exits, stage right:D
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:29 PM
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9. The same reason that we care what they think of us. |
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Thu Feb-05-04 04:34 PM
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11. Enough of all this caring! |
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Thu Feb-05-04 05:06 PM
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13. I think it goes both ways I think |
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Thu Feb-05-04 05:48 PM
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14. Most of the time, I don't |
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The opinion of people whom I don't know, or particularly care to know, is of very little interest to me. I DO care what a select handful of people think of me, because the opinions of those I care about matters to me.
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