Haole Girl
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:47 PM
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My husband is trying to... |
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...bait me & I am exhausted.
All I said was, "I am sooo tired." He snapped back, "Then go to bed...I hate whiners."
Ya know, I should just fucking go to bed and wake him up at 4 a.m. when I would wake up.
:grr:
Or, drink. Heavily.
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:48 PM
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1. Have a nice glass of red wine and go to bed... |
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enjoy being alone for the moment.
If he is baiting you, then do your best to ignore it.
:hug: for you my friend...
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Haole Girl
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:50 PM
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3. Omg... I would give anything to be able to drink... |
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but I just remembered I took 2 Motrin for one of my many aches. dammit. And I did make that promise to God after that one time... lol
Thank you for the hug. :hug:
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:55 PM
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6. Then just go to bed and read or watch TV.... |
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just get yourself into a peaceful zone....
There is plenty of time to unpack tomorrow and if it MUST be done today, he should do it...
More hugs ... :hug::hug:
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Sun Feb-03-08 09:15 PM
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He seems to be more preoccupied with the game now, thank god. :hug: :hug:
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:50 PM
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2. The question is: What is he REALLY mad about? n/t |
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:51 PM
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Me not being The Energizer Bunny and unpacking and putting everything away the very moment we returned from vacation. (sigh)
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:54 PM
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5. And HE can't do it because.....??? |
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I hate that shit. If you're not willing to do it yourself, don't expect anyone else to do it, and don't bitch if no one else is not doing what you're unwilling to do!!
Sorry you've got drama, KC2. :hug:
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Haole Girl
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Sun Feb-03-08 08:57 PM
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Drama does seem to find me, doesn't it?! lol
No, really, he has gone non-stop since we returned this afternoon.
HOWEVER, he was not sitting by the 29 year old woman who wanted to talk about her bf on the over night flight & HE got some sleep! I, truly, cannot move off of this f*ing couch! Thanks for letting me rant.
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Sun Feb-03-08 09:45 PM
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I'll take back *some* of my bitching about him then. ;)
Sorry you're so tired. Hope tomorrow is better!
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Sun Feb-03-08 09:20 PM
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How really unpleasant of him!
I mean, really!
He can unpack his stuff whenever he wants......
And you can do yours whenever you want!
Unless it's all comingled in one suitcase...
He needs a good kick someplace...:grr:
You might remind him that you didn't get any sleep on the plane...
Good grief...
Hope it gets better, sweetie...
You do not deserve this sort of treatment!
:hug:
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Sun Feb-03-08 09:24 PM
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I'm sure I'm just being a drama queen. He's already left me alone... while he makes a pineapple upside down cake, no doubt! lol! (just what I need, huh?!)
Actually, I did remind him who I sat by on the plane & how she talked all night. He replied, "That's not my fault... you chose to sit by her." Which is the truth. I had a choice of sitting by a thin attractive woman or letting my husband sit by her! Maybe THAT is what he's angry about, huh? lol :hug:
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