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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:47 PM
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My husband is trying to...
...bait me & I am exhausted.

All I said was, "I am sooo tired." He snapped back, "Then go to bed...I hate whiners."

Ya know, I should just fucking go to bed and wake him up at 4 a.m. when I would wake up.

:grr:

Or, drink. Heavily.

:beer:
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:48 PM
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1. Have a nice glass of red wine and go to bed...
enjoy being alone for the moment.

If he is baiting you, then do your best to ignore it.

:hug: for you my friend...

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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:50 PM
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3. Omg... I would give anything to be able to drink...
but I just remembered I took 2 Motrin for one of my many aches. dammit. And I did make that promise to God after that one time... lol

Thank you for the hug. :hug:
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:55 PM
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6. Then just go to bed and read or watch TV....
just get yourself into a peaceful zone....

There is plenty of time to unpack tomorrow and if it MUST be done today, he should do it...

More hugs ... :hug::hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 09:15 PM
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8. Thanks
He seems to be more preoccupied with the game now, thank god. :hug: :hug:
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theredpen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:50 PM
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2. The question is: What is he REALLY mad about? n/t
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:51 PM
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4. Easy
Me not being The Energizer Bunny and unpacking and putting everything away the very moment we returned from vacation. (sigh)
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:54 PM
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5. And HE can't do it because.....???
I hate that shit. If you're not willing to do it yourself, don't expect anyone else to do it, and don't bitch if no one else is not doing what you're unwilling to do!!

Sorry you've got drama, KC2. :hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 08:57 PM
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7. lol!
Drama does seem to find me, doesn't it?! lol

No, really, he has gone non-stop since we returned this afternoon.

HOWEVER, he was not sitting by the 29 year old woman who wanted to talk about her bf on the over night flight & HE got some sleep! I, truly, cannot move off of this f*ing couch! Thanks for letting me rant.
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 09:45 PM
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11. Well, okay.
I'll take back *some* of my bitching about him then. ;)

Sorry you're so tired. Hope tomorrow is better!
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 09:20 PM
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9. My dear KC2!
How really unpleasant of him!

I mean, really!

He can unpack his stuff whenever he wants......

And you can do yours whenever you want!

Unless it's all comingled in one suitcase...

He needs a good kick someplace...:grr:

You might remind him that you didn't get any sleep on the plane...

Good grief...

Hope it gets better, sweetie...

You do not deserve this sort of treatment!

:hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-03-08 09:24 PM
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10. Oh Peggy!
I'm sure I'm just being a drama queen. He's already left me alone... while he makes a pineapple upside down cake, no doubt! lol! (just what I need, huh?!)

Actually, I did remind him who I sat by on the plane & how she talked all night. He replied, "That's not my fault... you chose to sit by her." Which is the truth. I had a choice of sitting by a thin attractive woman or letting my husband sit by her! Maybe THAT is what he's angry about, huh? lol :hug:
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