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Thu Feb-14-08 12:02 PM
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Are you friends with any of your exes. |
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I am very good friends with two old flames. Others,not so much.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:06 PM
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Edited on Thu Feb-14-08 12:07 PM by CarolinaPeridot
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:07 PM
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:07 PM
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3. yes, we used to be great friends for a while. we are not so close anymore |
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some of my exlovers i am good friends with though
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:08 PM
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4. kinda friends with one |
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the others I just want to avoid. forever.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:09 PM
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they all could have dropped off the face of the earth for all I know.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:11 PM
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6. My ex-wife and I are friends. |
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It makes arranging our time with the kids so much easier. I am getting a little tired of giving advice re her new relationship... I mean really, am I the best person to ask?
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:16 PM
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7. All my exes live in Texas |
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And Texas is the place I'd dearly love to be But all my exes live in Texas That's why I hang my hat in Tennessee ....
George Strait
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:16 PM
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8. Good friends with the last one |
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Decent guy; we were just incompatible on the basics.
The one before that no, airhead jerk who whined about having a seven yo son to car for. (Never wanted to be a parent and felt trapped).
The ex husband was emotionally abusive so no. I tried the friends thing with him in the beginning, but it wasn't possible to be "friends" with him. He doesn't understand simple relating on an equal level. He only understands power and the exercise of very firm boundaries.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:19 PM
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9. I have one ex - and I cannot be a friend to a poison |
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:20 PM
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10. Hell, no. I don't wish them any harm, but it would suit me fine if I never saw them again. |
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Fortunately, I haven't seen them in decades. :-)
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:21 PM
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11. Fuck no. You've seen me naked and we're no longer together, YOU DON'T EXIST. |
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:25 PM
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12. One of my exes and I tried it for awhile... |
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..but it didn't work (for me.) I stopped returning her phone calls and emails, and after about a year, I guess she took the hint. Sad, too, because she's a nice girl, and we were friends before we got together, and she wanted to go back to that. I just couldn't handle it.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:35 PM
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13. They all became an "ex" for a reason. |
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Once they became an "ex" they were pretty much out of my life. I can count on one hand the ones that I stayed in contact with. One lives in another state now, the other lives over 60 miles away. Works just fine for me.
Hubby, on the other hand, is still good pals with a few of his prior partners and they are part of our social circle. It was kind of strange when we first started dating because we'd go someplace and he'd introduce me to a friend who turned out to be an ex. They were all telling me what a great guy he is--and it got to the point I wondered why there were so many EX girlfriends! It was kinda like buying a used car!
Turns out they were telling me the truth--he really IS all that. Still married and happy after 15 years.
Laura
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:35 PM
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14. friends with all of them |
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but we've gone our separate ways and I don't see any of them anymore.
parted amicably.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:37 PM
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15. I'm friends with my ex-husband. |
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We were together for a few years when we were very young. We still like each other and we have alot in common.
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Thu Feb-14-08 12:38 PM
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One of them I wish no malice towards. I just am not capable of going backwards, especially once there has been an emotional connection.
The other one can die for all I care. She is scum.
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Thu Feb-14-08 02:08 PM
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And I'm constantly trying to fix him up.
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Thu Feb-14-08 02:08 PM
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I am pretty good friends with my ex-boyfriend. Now. It took awhile.
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Thu Feb-14-08 02:13 PM
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19. Most of them, yes. Couple of them are very good friends. |
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Thu Feb-14-08 02:14 PM
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20. All of them except for the one I married. |
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Thu Feb-14-08 02:17 PM
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21. My ex fiance watches my animals |
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when we go out of town. We're still very close.
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