Its her birthday today

[UndertheOcean]

the ex , and I feel like I am back to zero , like I'm in a wake ... like my mother died, its horrible.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

1. My dear UndertheOcean...

OK, it's her birthday.

You are not back to zero.

She is gone from your life, and you need to get out and do something good for yourself!

I know it's horrible...:hug:

Take care of yourself, OK?

[JoePhilly]

2. Interesting ... today is the birthday of my very first really serious girlfriend.

I remember because it's 2/22 each year.

She was the girl I was supposed to marry. Everyone said it. And we were almost married. Ready to get engaged. And then, within a few weeks of my father's unexpected death, it all fell apart. I was never completely sure why ... but she needed "space". It was a very very bad year. But it was not the end ...

And, what's really ironic is that my current wife's birthday is 11/1. I'm not kidding. 2/22 and 11/1.

But even better ... I've been married to the same wonderful woman (11/1) for almost 19 years. And still going strong.

So hang in there ... maybe 3/33 is out there ... ooops, ummm ... ok, let's see ... ok, the number thing may not turn out ... or I guess you could start looking for a Scorpio born on All Saints Day.

But the POINT is that you can get past it ... and then find THE REAL ONE. Maybe its a girl born on 1/23 ... that would be good ... or maybe one born on 12/3 that works.

Or skip the number thing ... just go fine your own 11/1 ... whatever her birthday is.

Good luck.