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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:35 PM Original message |
I think I want a divorce...after 19 years |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think you might be my aunt n/t |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
2. I hear ya |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:42 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. ... |
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soleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
3. Is the 16 year old your youngest? |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. our only |
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soleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:47 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Beyond the point where counseling would help? |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:42 PM Response to Original message |
4. Welcome to my world. |
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Biscottiii (106 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 06:17 AM Response to Reply #4 |
33. Have you checked out Sam's Club, if looking for a job? |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 07:43 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. I have a good job...I am a teacher |
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Biscottiii (106 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 08:06 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Actually, I was responding to the lady @ #4, Not sure how to do this all, I'm a Newby |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 07:23 PM Response to Reply #38 |
52. you did it right, Biscottiii. Welcome to DU! |
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Biscottiii (106 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-07-08 05:17 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. Thank you for the welcome, PLUS the explanation. I thought maybe OP stood for 'Operating Procedure. |
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tishaLA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 06:02 AM Response to Reply #33 |
75. hi bisc! |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
8. Don't worry about bills if you are miserable. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 07:25 PM Response to Reply #8 |
54. Amen. I'm a teacher and a single parent. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 11:44 PM Response to Reply #8 |
67. I agree. I'm single and have over 30k in medical debt |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
9. Everytime I get feeling all depressed because I'm not married, |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:55 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. really? |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
10. I wish it were easy |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
12. he is so insecure |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:00 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Can you talk about it at all? Tell him you don't like the pawing and groping? |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 11:37 PM Response to Reply #12 |
66. Wow... |
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qwertyMike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
13. Dear God |
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NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
15. if you need any advice or have any questions that a private investigator could help with |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:05 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. other than is addiction to porn and his visit to smut bars |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:06 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. GB, i hope you can figure a way to get out or get him out, it's no good for your |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. but I feel bad because he loves me...he just doesn't know how to love |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. i understand but you can't make him better you know, i know you want to |
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NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. take care of yourself and get to a better situation |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
21. I hope you find the inner strength you need... |
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Mike03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
22. Your post really speaks to me. |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:18 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I am sorry |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
23. My advice would be to get out now |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:19 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. I second Al-Anon. nt |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:20 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. she is our only |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
27. I gotta go for now... |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
28. :^( Here's some clarity to help you think things through and some strength to |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
29. Maybe it all stems from the drinking. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
30. Sounds like the love is gone and you don't respect him anymore |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 03:28 AM Response to Original message |
31. You've got a job, |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
32. time to fly. n/t |
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Biscottiii (106 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 06:22 AM Response to Original message |
34. Wish I could offer you something more, but GOOD LUCK! |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 06:44 AM Response to Original message |
35. You must have been thinking about this for awhile..... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 11:17 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. This is good information. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 07:03 AM Response to Original message |
36. Sounds like a sad |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
39. the only advice i have is this -- life is too short to suffer like this. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 11:31 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. I second that... |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
42. Oh dear I'm sorry you're so unhappy |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
43. Given your lovely description of your hubby, why did it take you this long? nt |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
44. It might be an idea to talk with a counselor and an attorney. You need a plan... |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
45. Emotional abuse |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. pretty much |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 04:18 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Just push him down a hill and drive away. |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 04:34 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. thats kind of funny |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. And taking a note from Sequoia.... |
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trueblue2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
49. I think I want a divorce after 20 years. |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
50. sorry to hear this |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
53. What's the G word? |
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Tess49 (606 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #53 |
70. I was wondering the same thing. Figured if I had to ask, that |
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Random_Australian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 06:35 AM Response to Reply #70 |
76. From context, I presume that it refers to a racial slang against asian people. |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
55. so now he has decided he doesn't want me to watch politics on TV |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-06-08 10:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. yea cause he would rather watch heff in bed with a bunch of bimbos |
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shaniqua6392 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-07-08 05:48 AM Response to Original message |
58. Emotional abuse slowly kills your spirit. |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 08:48 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. I think he would go because I know he loves me |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 09:21 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. It sounds to me like there's a chance |
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shaniqua6392 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 09:23 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. Sit him down and tell him how much you love him |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 01:00 PM Response to Reply #59 |
79. Then go. |
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movie_girl99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
62. been there, done that. it sucks so bad |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
63. If you are that unhappy, get out now. Won't get any easier |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
64. emotional abuse is abuse |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 02:37 AM Response to Reply #64 |
72. grasswire, how right you are! |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-08-08 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
65. If I didn't know better I'd say you married my ex |
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GOPBasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 01:24 AM Response to Original message |
68. I'm sorry. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
69. If it truly is this bad.... |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 01:44 AM Response to Original message |
71. The marriage we wind up with is never the one we envision when we start |
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SoCalDemGrrl (786 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 03:30 AM Response to Original message |
73. I don't know, but it seems as though he loves you and is maybe going |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 05:02 AM Response to Original message |
74. ...if money's the only problem... |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
77. Dear God, sweetie. Are we married to the same man? |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-09-08 12:14 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. that is the definition of "liberation" |
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