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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:49 AM
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A cute little fat girl has expressed an interest in me.
From an internet dating site. Which is cool because I think I'm a cute, little, fat boy. I've talked to her for a while now. We've exchanged many e-mails. Should I go for it? I think I'm going to.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:51 AM
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:54 AM
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3. I'm laughing uncontrollably.
But I think we should do it in the conventional way. I don't think she would go for that and I'm not sure I would either. :)
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Political Heretic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 04:41 AM
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9. dude...... LOL
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 06:57 AM
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11. ladies man!1!
Dinner and a movie? With a little Covossier?

http://ladiesman.jt.org/cast.shtml

:rofl:
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 08:59 AM
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14. aww, it's gone.
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 09:02 AM
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15. You can't say butt in that context.
However it was funny taken in context. :7
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:43 AM
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26. damn! I missed it.
someone pm it too me please? I need a good laugh.
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 07:51 PM
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40. Me too. I bet it was hi-freaking-larious, though
nt
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orleans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:54 AM
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2. depends. are you both over 21? n/t
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:56 AM
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5. Most certainly
I'm 35 and she's 37. I think she's cute as hell.
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orleans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 03:20 AM
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8. well then...PERFECT! just be a nice guy. and be careful. n/t
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 06:13 PM
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36. That means you should definitely go for it!
You don't want to wonder later on, "what if?"
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:54 AM
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4. Nothing better than a cute little fat girl...
For all us slightly overweight guys...
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:57 AM
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6. Certainly
They made them little fat girls for fat guys like me.
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classykaren Donating Member (127 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:15 AM
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23. Judge someone for what they are inside its the democratic way
There is a good site democratic singles
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lligrd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 02:59 AM
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7. She Sounds Great
Think you should meet her before you got for it though. lol
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 04:45 AM
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10. go for it!
you were going to go for it anyway, which is great, but a little cheerleading can't hurt! :bounce:
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Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 07:13 AM
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12. What do you know about her?
Have you Googled her? Run her name in the registry of sex offenders? Done a COREY check? How about fingerprints and blood tests?

You know, you can't be too careful with these internet sites...just look at this looney bin!;)

Seriously, go for it but meet her somewhere public for a defined period of time for the first date.

I have a friend who met the love of her life using one of those dating services. They've been happily married for 25 years.

We expect a report!
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 09:32 AM
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16. my daughter met her current squeeze on EHarmony and was very impressed
with the screening she had to complete just to use the site.
He is a very nice young man and we like him a lot even though he is whisking her off to a location two states away while he finishes school and I will miss her like crazy.

meet the lady for coffee or dinner, with no other plans just to sit and talk and then go your separate ways; maybe do that for a few meetings. Hey if I were being set up on a blind date by friends I trusted I would handle it the same way. Or check out interesting stuff in your area, meet and enjoy it together, and learn about one another

interesting things to do on a first meeting/date with a person you met on internets:

the park/botanic gardens
the zoo
a museum/art gallery/major exhibition
bookstore

these things not only provide entertainment and activity they provide something to talk about that is neutral yet allows you ways to find out what makes the person tick. Seriously, if you are wandering through the art museum, and you stop at a painting and you both make the same smartass remark about the work of art you know you have some potentially great compatiblity there..or you are both awestruck by the same thing.

Plus you get to people watch in situations like that and that is tons of fun .
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 08:46 AM
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13. Absolutely.
And don't forget to make her feel beautiful, because from another little fat girl, not too many people have made her feel that way, I'm sure.
GO FOR IT!
Duckie
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 09:34 AM
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17. Is there any reason NOT to go for it?
If you like her, what's holding you back?

Are either of you two married? That might put a damper on things... but, other than that, why not?
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Wabbajack_ Donating Member (669 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 09:41 AM
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18. NO DON'T
she might have the :applause:
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skater314159 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 03:22 PM
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33. I'm sure there's a PP Clinic
where you guys can go and get tested... that's what I did with my spouse - we were both clean of course.

"Going for it" doesn't mean jumpin in without a raincoat either!
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DemReadingDU Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 09:47 AM
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19. Sure, both my children met their future spouse on the Internet
Not sure how or where, but son has been married 2 years, and daughter has been married 1 year.
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Omphaloskepsis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 09:51 AM
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20. Don't refer to her as "The cute little fat girl."
Trust me on this.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 03:06 PM
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29. "La bonita gordita"
sounds much better. ;)
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skater314159 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 03:19 PM
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31. I have a friend whose hubby calls her "Gordita"
as his love-name for her... its cute. She has a name for him too - but it's dirty :9

But in Spanish, you can use "Gordita" and it won't have the negative connotation that "fat" does.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 03:21 PM
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32. how about "a pretty plumper"
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:04 AM
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21. its a first date, no need to thnk about it so much. just go
have a good time, if you dont, dont make a second date.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:08 AM
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22. I don't see what her being fat has to do with anything.
Cute, however, does have a big bearing on the situation. :P
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:15 AM
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24. Obviously you're not a Spinal Tap fan.
;-)
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:19 AM
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25. If you refer to the full-figured women you date as cute little fat girls,
don't be surprised when they start referring to you as the guy with that adorable little penis.
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Ikonoklast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 10:45 AM
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27. It's an inside joke with truckers
Don't know where it came from, but I hear it on the radio every day.

"Driver, you need to find yourself a cute little fat girl and get off the road for a few days."

:shrug:

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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 04:06 PM
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34. in fairness he described himself as a cute little fat boy. nt
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 06:17 PM
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38. Best...Response...EVER...
:rofl:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 12:44 PM
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28. Love is in the Air! Go for it.
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skater314159 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 03:14 PM
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30. Go for it!
I found my awesome spouse on the 'net.. We are happily married, and we are so much alike, it's sometimes freaky.

I turned to the internet site after trying and failing other forms of IRL dating... and I found someone that I had been looking for right away. The ironic thing was he found me and I found him on the SAME DAY - and we both were really picky in our criteria... his search turned up only me and mine turned up only him. Another freaky think was he worked only three blocks from where my apartment was, but we would have never met if it wasn't for the internet, as we were in a big city, and likely passed like ships in the night previously.

If you've found someone you click with and who makes you happy, I say TOTALLY GO FOR IT!!!

Anyone who tells you otherwise is just jealous of your hapiness over finding someone to be happy with... so tell 'em to fuck off.

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GoneOffShore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 04:41 PM
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35. You better not cross post this in GDP
Or someone will call you out as a sexist.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 06:17 PM
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37. Go for it. Does she live nearby?
Perhaps in the nicer weather we can have dinner as a foursome!! :woohoo:


seriously, .. good luck and do go for it, you never know.


aA
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dembotoz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-09-08 07:50 PM
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39. go for it
who know-you could end up happy
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