Women of DU: You want to know what's sexy? I'll show you.

[Guaranteed]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8GxeZXG7FA

That's sexy, right there.

And she isn't even the prettiest girl in the world. It how she's using what she's got...

[Tuesday Afternoon]

1. I will give you...if you will give me this ---

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7A_bJFZNXE

[Guaranteed]

2. LOL you got it.

I have that in spades.

But can you dance? ;)

[Tuesday Afternoon]

3. hmmmm....can I dance???

:blush:

to be humble, let me just say that I am not bad for a white girl :D

and you? :P

[Guaranteed]

4. Oh, I'm bad.

Even for a white guy.

Wait, though- you were talking about dancing, weren't you?

Yeah, I can do that too. ;)

[Tuesday Afternoon]

6. ~

:rofl:

what did you think I was talking about ...


































the horizontal bop? :D

[Guaranteed]

8. Well, I'm not sure if you know this, but it doesn't HAVE

to be horizontal.

It's the bop that matters. :9

[Tuesday Afternoon]

18. ~

:eyes:

[zanne]

23. I was watching that, thinking...

"How can he drive like that"?

[JVS]

5. No way. This is much better

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FY4Y1gTO9HE

[Guaranteed]

7. Don't know what those fellas are doing wearing tutus

but I like mine better. :P

[Manifestor_of_Light]

9. You, sir, are immature.

Yes, you are.

Oh, and you are quite shallow, as well.

That is all.

[Guaranteed]

10. Well, I'm not quite shallow enough to judge someone, whom I don't

even know, after seeing a few of their posts on the Internet.

But, you know, I beg to differ anyway. You're mistaking sexual playfulness for immaturity.




Never seen a 12-year-old talking like I am.

Thanks for your input. ;)

[Manifestor_of_Light]

20. PIcking up a woman for a lap dance is just cheap and sleazy.

I wouldn't do it, and no man I would respect would pick up a woman for a lap dance, or for paid sex.

I'm not talking about picking up a date socially at a party.

I know exactly how to be "sexually playful" as you say, without being involved with immature guys--you know, like fraternity jerks or the ones who go to Hooters and think they're macho.

I could write a book on flirting, for that matter.

The men that like me like me for my brains and my personality and my body. It's a whole package. It's not about being a stupid but horny woman.

[Guaranteed]

25. I think you're reading a little too much into my post.

It's just a movie. You realize I'm not Kurt Russell, right?

And I didn't entitle my post "Here's what makes a good girlfriend or wife." I said, simply, this is sexy.

That's what it was. You opened it, that's what ya got.

[skygazer]

29. News flash - sex can be fun, yes - even for women

And yes, even women can enjoy sex for the sake of sex. And, shocker of shockers, I don't see anything wrong with that, nor do I see anything wrong with giving some guy a lap dance. Just because you feel like it.

Why do people feel the need to inflict their morals on other people or judge someone as "stupid but horny" just because that person may enjoy something they don't?

Oh, and I doubt many people would enjoy your book on flirting nearly as much as they'd enjoy my lap dance. :P

[Genevieve]

38. . . . . .

:thumbsup: :toast:

[RainDog]

31. that's good for you, but you aren't everyone

and you really are out of bounds to tell someone what or who they are by a video post.

but, here, maybe you think I'm a disrespectful man, too. --except I'm a hetero female...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BrhnMC-kc_g
Extra Action Marching Band

opening for David Byrne. EAMB are a "punk drum corp" and this video does not offend me in anyway... I'm not interested in lap dances, but that means I don't get one. As far as I know, and I've never been with a particularly dishonest man (been with a particularly self-centered one, but that's another issue...)

anyway... how do you know the man you're with wouldn't get a lap dance? Cause he's respectable like Ted Haggard? Or that politician from Louisiana who liked to dress in diapers with his favorite pro?

If you are so adamant about this other person's behavior and condemn all people who do something you dislike, do you think that would make your partner more likely or less likely to be honest with you?

People are a lot more complex than many would like to admit because then life wouldn't be so paint-by-number. Me, I like art.

[Manifestor_of_Light]

44. You just confused respectable with "uptight" and "Republican"

I wouldn't date anything but a liberal Democrat. My guy wouldn't date a Republican either. Dating a Republican or religious person would be out of the question for either of us.

No, my honey is not like Ted Haggard nor does he like to wear diapers.

I wouldn't give Kurt Russell the time of day.

I am not interested in giving a lap dance and my honey is not interested in getting one.

If you want to get a lap dance or give one, knock yourself out. I'm not trying to control anyone's behavior. I was just expressing my opinion.

[RainDog]

45. me too. and it doesn't mean I want to give anyone a lap dance

however, it does tell me something else I want to do, because some things just aren't worth it. so, I'm out of this conversation.

btw... in communication theory, when you say "you are" to someone it's a statement that you take as fact. when you say "I think" or "I feel" it's an expression of opinion.

both the op and the replies maybe should consider this if it's an issue worth bothering with. to me, live and let live. I'm done with this thread. not my fight.

(I could have used democratic examples, btw, but didn't... hyprocrisy or dishonesty isn't just a republican trait.)

[SPKrazy]

11. Wow, I mean

WOW

that is HOT

HOT HOT HOT

:P

[Guaranteed]

12. ....

Yup.



LOL



It's in her smile.

[TreasonousBastard]

13. Vanessa Ferlito? She was...

the only reason I watched CSI:NY. Then she was gone.

That girl's got attitude!

[Guaranteed]

14. So many views, so few replies...

Tee hee!

[ChoralScholar]

15. I might should rent that....

in the beginning, she looked a bit like Cro-Magnon man... but later on... damn - that was something else.

[BarenakedLady]

16. Oh thank you, thank you, dear sir

I was so at a loss at what was sexy. Thank you from the bottom of my taffeta heart for showing me what is, indeed to the weaker sex, sexay. I am forever in your debt.

[DarkTirade]

27. Hey, I need some help roasting marshmallows...

can I use some of the heat from your searing-hot wit? :P

[Jamastiene]

17. I think the Women of DU already KNOW what's sexy.

I have yet to meet a woman on DU who does NOT know what sexy is. It's the Women of DU, of course. :)

[Rhythm]

19. I remember seeing the trailer for Death Proof a few months ago...

Thought then that i might just have to rent it...

[RainDog]

21. that's hot.. but hey, I knew that...

as far as "the prettiest girl in the world?" What do you mean?

She's absolutely gorgeous in a hundred different ways - who in his/her right mind would find something to complain about with that woman's looks?!?!? honestly.

I've never seen a lap dance in real life, but of the ones I've seen in movies and tv, hers has got to be the best -- maybe because she's wearing more clothes than I've usually seen, so you concentrate on her moves rather than her breasts -- those are usually front and center, so to speak, in movie lap dance land. But also no doubt because she's so talented.

[zanne]

22. I do that stuff all the time...

You should see me at the supermarket!

[RainDog]

24. lol- yeah, I miss those parent-teacher conferences for that same reason..

:)

[Bucky]

26. Sexy is Sigourney Weaver. I thought all mankind understood this.

But I digress.

[DarkTirade]

28. You wanna know what's sexy?

[TZ]

30. Whats wrong with being sexy?

:)

[crim son]

32. Yes, she seems very funny and smart.

:eyes:

[RetroLounge]

33. Sorry. I have to disagree.

of coure, I am NOT a woman of DU, but I would venture to guess that THEY have a FAR better idea than you do of what makes something sexy. Perhaps you should ask them. They might be happy to provide examples.

That lap dance? Not sexy in the least. Nope, not even close.

Slutty, yes.
Skanky, yes.
Boring, yes.
Subtle, no.

Perhaps you are confusing Sexual with Sexy. Big difference.

Now go watch that Alan Rickman video up there in the beginning of this thread.

The man has more sexy in his little finger than most of us will ever hope to have. But we strive, and examples like HIM are what is needed.

Not sluttly, skanky ass lap dance 12 year old fantasy jack-off videos.

YMMV

RL

[RainDog]

34. the disagreement goes both ways

I can break down the rickman video and find that it is as disgusting as the lap dance.

younger female and older man - now THAT'S an original concept for a sexual trophy.

he's rich. he's the trophy fuck for the female who rides gets to ride around in the limo after their one night stand... there is everything to imply a one-night stand and nothing to imply a long-term relationship... so if they're in a rolls it's okay?

the music is geared toward the "lifetime-oxygen" mindset which some ppl find annoying in the extreme... vapid, devoid of honesty, not worth listening to. why should a female think that song is sexy in any way???? it's just like too much other 'easy listening crap.' one person's opinion versus anothers, and in the area of sexual appeal, one size doesn't fit all. nor does one visual or one sound.

just like with the original post - it's a matter of what someone likes. to call a lap dance for a movie slutty... how is that different than the gas station "tango" when he bends her over?

all much ado about nothing.

[RetroLounge]

35. Apparently you didn't watch the whole thing...

It's HER limo, he talkes his bag out of the trunk and she dumps HIM off...

But hey, don't let facts get in the way.

RL

[RainDog]

36. facts? in a music video? come on, RL...

apparently I did miss the part about it being her limo... since it's never stated whose limo it is, is it? there is a limo driver? but she pumped the gas so that makes it her limo?

okay. the basic issue still stands.

sorry if you don't like that someone doesn't agree. there was nothing personal about it. just an observation that one video isn't "good" while the other is "bad."

[RetroLounge]

39. Yeah, okay.

I'll go out and get a lap dance tonight and lecture DU women on what is sexy later...

:hi:

RL

[RainDog]

43. just as I said before, like the op, you have your idea of sexy. so does he

so does everyone else on this board. don't see that any of us has to lecture any other. I agree his "I'll tell you" should have been better qualified as his opinion, but I would highly doubt that most men do not respond to female body parts that wiggle, whether intentionally or not.

:shrug:

I sort of got the impression he wasn't really posting it for females anyway.

[RetroLounge]

48. "he wasn't really posting it for females anyway"

I think you might be correct.

and about the wiggle too. :D

:hi:

RL

[Guaranteed]

37. That's even worse.

So she's just using his pretty face and sturdier frame for the night. To her, he's a twink. Not even a self-made man.

I think you were more right the first time.


As far as your first post, I don't see how women can make the determination what is sexy in a man's mind. That's patently absurd.

[RetroLounge]

40. Who's talking about a man's mind?

Your post was lecturing woman as to what was sexy.

Man's mind? Or your mind?

RL

[Guaranteed]

41. Me, yes, and yes. nt

[NMDemDist2]

42. whoa

:yourock:


and I haven't even clicked the OP's link

:hide:

[mitchum]

46. I'm staying out of the whole sexy vs sexy debate, but that song SUCKS

sorry, but that's just pap

[lildreamer316]

47. Pffft. Easy.

:P