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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:46 PM Original message |
A dating question for the men of DU: |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
1. Fancy: Le Bec Fin or Olive Garden? |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. A mixture of the two, but usually fancy as in |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:51 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Um, I think you're dating. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:54 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Well, it's a long story, but at any rate right now things are |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. Minimally, I think he wants to be. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:05 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. I think I'd like to date him, or at least give it a try. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. I don't think you are reading it wrong. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
3. I don't think that really says something one way or the other |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. What if he always extends the invite? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. I wouldn't but that's me. n/m |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:57 PM Original message |
You know some guys like to eat out, but don't have a dinner companion |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
12. Yeah, but he has loads of friends, male and female that share |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:01 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Well like I said in the other post, if you want to gauge his interest |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. Either he's a real gentleman or he sees you as more than a friend or both |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:57 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. He is very |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:00 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. You know even if he sees you only as a friend |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. I did once |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Well what do you two talk about? |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. It's 50/50 as far as conversation, though he talks more than I do. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Look at it this way- One of two things can happen |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:20 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Yeah, I'll bring it up eventually. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:23 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. That's a mistake I have made more than once |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
66. This happened to a friend of mine once. |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
67. This happened to a friend of mine once. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 10:08 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. Had he ever been at all physical with her? |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-16-08 08:09 AM Response to Reply #68 |
74. No, and this person (my friend) wasn't looking for anything physical. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
9. If I were single and had the money, and my female friend didn't, sure. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. He knows I'm not "much poorer" than him. Also, he won't let |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
10. Depends |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. He is well-off, |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. OK, now at the end of your next dinner |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Elated. n/t |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. well |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:36 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. also, to add |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-16-08 12:20 AM Response to Reply #30 |
72. True. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:23 PM Response to Reply #25 |
34. Then he may just be shy |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
21. to be honest |
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HERVEPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
22. Good Grief! Ask him how he views the relationship. (nt) |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Really? |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:18 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. I would say something like |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:22 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. i agree with nomad |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:12 PM Response to Reply #26 |
44. the good grief... |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #44 |
58. You're like me? |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 08:00 PM Response to Reply #58 |
65. LOL |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
35. Not very likely. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
37. well, it depends |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 10:09 PM Response to Reply #37 |
69. Girl. n/t |
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geardaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
38. Not likely. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
39. And nothing's happened yet? |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:53 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. probably a good move |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 03:59 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. That's VERY subtle for me. |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:20 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. LOL |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 05:16 PM Response to Reply #41 |
49. man |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 05:19 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. where, 20 years ago? |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 05:39 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. 20 years ago? |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:20 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. ok, 15 years ago then |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:32 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I was married by then. |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:41 PM Response to Reply #56 |
61. no, dear |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. true |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 07:45 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. Howard Johnson |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-16-08 08:37 AM Response to Reply #64 |
75. HoJo |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
42. Depends on the ages... |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
43. Very likely "just friends" |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
45. chances are practically zero |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:25 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. LOL |
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Tektonik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
48. It depends |
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Boudica the Lyoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
51. He's a gentleman so don't scare him off. |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:08 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. I like this approach best of all. |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #51 |
60. ... |
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YDogg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 07:14 PM Response to Reply #51 |
63. I read the entire thread, and this is about what I would have posted. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
54. Some of those types of guys are so socially inept that they can get into the |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
55. depends. thomcat has taken me out to several dinners and paid |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
59. I hat to even mention it, but is it possible that he's gay? |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
70. You mean as opposed to only a whore? |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-15-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Well, by "only" I meant "exclusively". Sorry. n/t |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-16-08 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
73. Sounds like some kind of stealth dating to me. |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-16-08 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
76. this thread has been very helpful to me |
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