bittersweet sucks

[lost-in-nj]

Went to look at my daughters venue for her wedding/reception.

the main house has 6 rooms
bridal suite
MOTB room
MOTG room

and 2 other unnamed rooms
then they have a detached building that has 24 rooms and they are affiliated with a hotel for the overflow

we went to dinner after and were trying to figure out rooms..

she said I could have the MOB room and we would need another one for dad......
told her I would move to the outer building and her father would to so she could have her wedding party near her... nope wants us.. I said not for nothing we will probably be divorced before the wedding... but we both agree that this is SO important and there are no ill feelings.... there is a HUGE chair with an ottoman in the MOB room.. said I would sleep there (it was REALLY comfy) and dad could have the bed or vice a versa... she said no she didn't want us sleeping in chairs....

phew... this is going to be harder than I thought

why does my 25 year old daughter have to worry about where her parents are going to sleep... on her wedding night :( :(


:shrug: :shrug:


the happiest day of her life


and this is what she has to worry about??????

:cry: :cry:


lost

[MilesColtrane]

1. The most important factor in a successful wedding reception:

...a live band.

(In the interest of full disclosure, I'm a musician.)

[SPKrazy]

2. She loves you...

and would worry about it no matter what

and sadly, it is life on life's terms right now.

It sucks.