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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 09:54 AM Original message |
Are "drop-off" birthday parties for children a thing of the past? |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
1. This is the same generation that doesn't let their kids on a bicycle without a helmet. |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:13 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Well, my partner is living with a brain injury, so a helmet is a MUST for him, and family as well. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:15 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Helmets are a must with us, too. |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:41 AM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Yeah, the helmet thing may have been a bad example. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
28. I know what you mean. We used to leave the house and return for lunch. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 09:08 AM Response to Reply #28 |
64. I blame the media |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:51 PM Response to Reply #10 |
47. My kids don't wear bike helmets. I would prefer that they do but hubby |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 09:56 AM Response to Reply #47 |
65. It is the law in California -- I think until the kid is 16. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
15. The flip side is when "boys willb e boys" turns into bullying |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:30 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. i think i get what you mean |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 02:46 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. There's a big difference between letting kids be kids... |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #24 |
43. Heck! |
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Danmel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 02:32 PM Response to Reply #1 |
23. Gotta argue with you on the helmets |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
73. I never wore helmets, but then again, I never rode on hard surfaces. |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
2. Dropping off your child |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
3. As far as I know, it's still usually drop off. |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:15 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. This place was an indie, and my partner had to sign a release form (which wouldn't hold up in court, |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:00 PM Response to Reply #5 |
27. OT, but why do places make you sign off on injuries |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Several reasons: |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:37 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. LOL #4. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:40 PM Response to Reply #5 |
40. I don't think most of those releases would hold up |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:47 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. In many states, a parent can't sign away their child's rights BUT |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
7. My wife and I have had our children surgically grafted to us |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:17 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I'm the evil (almost) stepmother...so I'm doubly horrible. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:31 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Is that "evil (almost)" or "(almost) stepmother?" |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 11:39 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. I'm the (almost) stepmother, but I'm already evil. |
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Jade Fox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
11. You might appreciate this..... |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
13. I would never leave my child |
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Miss Carly (296 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:15 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. I agree |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I don't think people are actually significantly different now. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:01 AM Response to Reply #14 |
53. News flash: There were plenty of pedophiles and kidnappers |
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meow2u3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 08:36 AM Response to Reply #53 |
61. I know firsthand about the presence of pedophiles in the 1960's |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 11:22 AM Response to Reply #53 |
67. I guess |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:23 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. I'm not referring to caution about leaving kids with strangers |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:51 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. They are adorable!! |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 01:07 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. I agree with you on all counts. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 01:35 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Yes we see a lot of brainless parents |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #18 |
50. But I would |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:00 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Darn |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 11:17 AM Response to Reply #51 |
66. and they say |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
37. See, this is one thing that seems to have changed |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:02 AM Response to Reply #37 |
54. Right, I think a lot of birthday parties today are all about status |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
19. My son lives with his dad |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 01:03 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. That's similar to how it works at my stepdaughter's mom's place. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 02:56 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. That's crazy. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
26. I think it depends on the age of the child as well as how well you know the parents. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
29. A thing of the past, yes. Parents and siblings stay at parties in our area but |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. I think some of it may be geographical. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:26 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I live in a village of 700, so I am sure it is very different than it might be in a city. Oddly |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:36 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Unfortunately, it wouldn't have been a chance to visit with the "other mommies." |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:39 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. Heh, in this town we've had parents divorce and marry each other's former spouses. Gets |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:43 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. Well...right now, the aforementioned stepchild is at a baseball game with her dad, |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:49 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Does make for interesting gatherings. :^) |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
33. Helicopter parents - fucking dispicable. |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
34. I wonder if there's such a thing as parents being too involved. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
38. no. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
42. I think it depends on how little the kids are. |
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Reverend_Smitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
46. I don't know exactly when things changed... |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 01:48 AM Response to Reply #46 |
56. Your childhood sounds exactly like mine.... also born in '84 |
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Reverend_Smitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:32 PM Response to Reply #56 |
70. I was discussing this with a friend a few weeks ago |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
48. When I lived in NJ |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
49. In the case of a public place, I'd definitely stay. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-27-08 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
52. I think 5 is a perfectly fine age to drop a kid off at a party |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 07:29 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. I got left behind at Showbiz Pizza when I was 5 or 6... |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:58 AM Response to Original message |
55. The simple answer is that today's kids are being raised by |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 08:20 AM Response to Original message |
58. I haven't stayed at a party since the kids were toddlers. |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
59. The parties my kids have attended, it's been the complete opposite. |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
60. Pretty expected that if the party is in a public place |
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annonymous (850 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
62. Depends on the age of the child |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 08:52 AM Response to Original message |
63. My daughter has been to both kinds - |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
68. I used to ride my bike to little league games, play them, and ride back |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
71. I think so. |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
72. I have a 6 yr old. The vast majority of parents do drop off. |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 01:05 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Fair enough--I don't think you or anyone else is a hoverer just for sticking around. |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 01:19 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. I knew you'd think I had a good reason, and no, I don't generally stay within a step |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
74. about a year ago, our then 4 year old went to a mostly drop-off party |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
75. You were dropped off when you were five? I wasn't. |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
78. My daughter is about to turn ten |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
79. Jan had his 4th birthday today. |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
80. That's why I could never have children |
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oregonjen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
81. What ever happened to house parties? |
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Miss Carly (296 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-28-08 05:47 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. It's parental peer pressure I think |
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