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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:06 PM
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I just got asked out...
I know...that doesn't seem strange to some of you. But...but, I'm a guy; I just got asked out...by a woman. That never happens. :woohoo:
It's like she actually gets why that is hot, swoonworthy, and sexy. And I find her interesting.

This is like the high point of June thus far. :party:
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:14 PM
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1. Congratulations
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:18 PM
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2. Can't use that "never" again.
This isn't the email chick, I take it?

The high point of June thus far and it's only the fourth. You have nowhere to go but up. Well, or down. :evilgrin:

She obviously has excellent taste. Hope you have fun. :)
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:29 PM
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4. Yes...although
First she turns me down. (Actually...she ignored the question.) Then, like 10 days later...she asks me out? Color me confused. Happy though.

And as un-superstitious as I am...I'm weary of the fact that my sig-line freak flag has been taken from me.

And she loved the "bee's knees"

Drat...One more thing I'll have to drink to in games of "I never" :evilgrin:
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:42 PM
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6. oh hello
A little game of hard to get. A little bit of I'm unpredictable. I love it that she's messing with your head a tiny bit. It makes me smile almost as much as the bee's knees did. She's going to be fun, I think. :)

And let's change the focus of your anti-superstitious self, shall we? Perhaps the cyberFreak Flag has to vanish so the real life one can fly for now. Yeah, you roll with that one, OK? At least for now.

Let's play "I never" some day. We'll have a 12%er party and play. :rofl:
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Cant trust em Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:19 PM
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3. I got asked out last week too.
I was blown away when she asked me too. Very cool.

Congratulations. I hope your date goes well.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:34 PM
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5. Good luck to you.
It's almost as if women have figured out that we like being pursued too.
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Cant trust em Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 12:08 AM
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10. It's actually already gone awry.
I had the first date with her on Sunday and we were out for five hours. We went to a museum first and then got a drink. Great date.

I called her yesterday to confirm the date we had for today and she didn't call me back.

Really weird since she asked me out the first time and the second time. She's a doctor, so maybe she got pulled into something and couldn't call. Either way, the ball's in her court now.
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1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:43 PM
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7. this is a good thing...
much preferable to the "NO! pfffttt! are you kidding? get away from me." response i normally get. :)


you go, boy...
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:45 PM
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8. Can I watch?
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

:hi:

Congratulations
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 08:54 AM
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11. It depends...
am I your VP?
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-04-08 11:54 PM
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9. My dear Chan790!
Congrats!

And enjoy!

And June is just getting underway...;-)

:hug:
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 08:55 AM
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12. Nice!
Hope it goes well! Good for her!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 08:57 AM
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13. Can't say I'm terribly surprised.
You're a sweetheart.

Have a great time!
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 08:57 AM
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14. Is this the woman that you made the Dawkins faux pas with?
Edited on Thu Jun-05-08 08:57 AM by turtlensue
Or someone different. FYI, if I think a guy is interested but shy I have no problem asking them out...I'm definitely a Carpe Diem kind of woman...
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 09:41 AM
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15. The same one.
I asked her out, she ignored the asking, stopped talking to me over that, and then out of the blue...asked me out. Over the span of two weeks. I'd written her off.

I haven't said "yes" yet. I will, but I really need to think first. I'm outside my comfort zone, I'd like it back because I'm prone to weirdness when I'm uncomfortable; my best friend says "It's adorable" but I don't like it.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-05-08 09:45 AM
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16. Aw... it happens!
EVERY guy I've dated, I asked out. Okay maybe with one or two exceptions. Not even kidding.

I think this will become more and more common as time goes on, as it should.

Hope ya have a nice time on your date. :)
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