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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:52 AM
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I'm always freaked out when my husband isn't here. Keep me company.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:54 AM
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1. learn to enjoy your own company, helderheid
it's not that hard
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:56 AM
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3. Oh just indulge me one night, okay? I enjoy the days alone but I am freaked at night.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:00 AM
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5. oh alright then
coming over to kick your ass - hey, that's company :D :hi:
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:01 AM
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6. if I offer you a glass of wine will you refrain from hurting me?
:P
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:07 AM
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9. sorry my sweet, I absolutely detest wine
it all tastes like grape juice gone bad to me :D
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:10 AM
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16. LOL! My hubby took the jack daniels!
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:10 AM
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17. funny you mentioned Jack
the only bottle I have in my apartment is Jack - yes INDEED :D
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:47 AM
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22. I have GREAT taste.
Edited on Sun Jun-08-08 01:51 AM by helderheid
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littlebit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:08 AM
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11. How was your trip?
Did you enjoy NC?:hi:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:10 AM
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15. aw NC was AMAZING!
a unique combination of HICK and HIP - and so very green!!! AWESOME!
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littlebit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 02:06 AM
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23. Tha's great
Glad you enjoyed it. I only get to see it for about six days a month. But I love living there.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:55 AM
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2. My dear helderheid...
Of course, I'll keep you company, sweetie!

I used to be that way too...

But after I spent a number of years working nights, my fear went away.

I'm not sure just why, either...

I hope you'll get over it someday too!

:hug:
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:57 AM
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4. Thank you - I hope I can in my lifetime overcome this fear.
:hug:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:02 AM
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7. I not only work nights
but except for a couple years I have lived alone since 1975 so you could learn from me :)
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:07 AM
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10. Teach me, oh great one! :P
I unfortunately suffer from panic attacks. They've become less and less prevalent in my life, however, as a mother of 2 small children and a smoker husband (I smoked until I became pregnant), I am like mother hen on steroids. Having them out of the house has me extra nutty. I wish I could enjoy it. Like I said, I do in the day but at night I get weird.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:09 AM
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13. stay up very late a few nights
leave all the lights on and watch TV or listen to music or read.....take the quiet as a PLUS - I love the night, being away from the herd - wouldn't have it any other way :D
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:09 AM
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14. I was an insomniac for many years
Edited on Sun Jun-08-08 01:10 AM by helderheid
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bluesbassman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:05 AM
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8. Here's some company...
and protection! :hi:

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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:09 AM
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12. GORGEOUS! Both of you! My baby German Sheperd is also out of town
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bluesbassman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:16 AM
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19. Thanks for the compliment, but...
that's not me. Well I do sorta resemble the dark haired one, but the blond, definitely not.
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:40 AM
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21. OMG! Is that really a dog??? Or a moose?
My theory with dogs has always been that the bigger they are, the bigger babies and more lovable they are IRL. I'd have no qualms about approaching this one for a big snuggle and lovin'.

But Holy poop on a pretzel, can you imagine feeding that beast? Or the poop? Not to mention, you'd have to rent a van to take that pup to the vet!
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:12 AM
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18. oh, hey - by the way - thanks. I love DU.
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:36 AM
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20. Getting brave and going to bed. Thanks y'all
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 04:35 AM
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24. My mom is like that
my dad travels a lot and she totally freaks. I have to stay with her. She's afraid a serial killer will get her. I've told her I won't be much good. I'll just say "She's in the bedroom. Now I'm going home. Where did I put my car keys?"

But now he's retiring and mostly works from home and that is driving her crazy. She'll be on the computer and he'll come in and say "Watcha doin'? Watcha been doin'? Watcha goin' to be doin'?" "Can't you see I'm baking a cake!" At which point I get a call or an email to come over and distract him before she kills him or files for divorce.

Khash.
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