otherlander
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Wed Jun-11-08 01:33 PM
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Am I being a bad girlfriend for this? |
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I'm going out with this guy but there's another guy, two other girls, and several dead poets and revolutionaries who I still have crushes on. :dilemma:
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Carnea
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Wed Jun-11-08 01:36 PM
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1. Invite the two other girls and the dead poet to bed with him. |
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Chances are good he won't object.
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Wed Jun-11-08 01:56 PM
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2. leave out the dead poets. Trust me. It'll work that way. |
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Wed Jun-11-08 02:02 PM
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but then, I am one of those evil pansexual free-love polyarmorists. Or something.
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Wed Jun-11-08 02:28 PM
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you give it up to dead poets, et al.
Or won't give it up for him.
(please be 18, or disregard this post)
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otherlander
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Wed Jun-11-08 03:37 PM
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Let me try..... ....
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It's working it's working! Get back to me in a few months.
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Dogtown
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Wed Jun-11-08 03:46 PM
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:scared:
I'm really old and harmless. I don't even *have* a Myspace account...
PLEASE don't tell your folks...
:cry:
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Wed Jun-11-08 03:47 PM
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Edited on Wed Jun-11-08 03:48 PM by otherlander
:rofl: Rolf waffle:
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Wed Jun-11-08 03:51 PM
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So long as they're only crushes that you aren't going to act on. If you not just want to, but actually would do something about it, yeah, you're being a bad girlfriend and should be single. I've gone out with the sam girl for years, and I still get crushes, but I'm not going to do anything about it.
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Wed Jun-11-08 06:37 PM
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9. Not at all - it's pretty normal to have crushes, and I'm sure your boyfriend does too |
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My rule of thumb would be not to do anything that I know would hurt the other party, and don't do anyting that would hurt me if I found out they had done it. (Caveat - nobody should be hurt by their partner having innocent crushes. Caveat caveat - I'm assuming that the word "crush" means approximately the same thing to you as it does to me.)
Off topic $0.02: having crushes on "revolutionaries" is too old to be cool anymore, and not old enough to be retro-cool. IMO...
:)
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Wed Jun-11-08 07:04 PM
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10. Is there any reason you couldn't invite your current bf to join you? |
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If you are bored or otherwise un-attracted to your current bf, and wish to dump him, I would recommend settling that business first. And before you strike up something new with another.
Just my 2 cents, and I don't know your situation.
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