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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:37 PM
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That sure seemed to come easy for you!
just a "hey, I met someone" and it's all over in a flash...

well, lotsa luck!

No matter where you go, there you are!

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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:40 PM
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1. What?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:41 PM
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2. Just a
"hey I met someone" and its over

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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:42 PM
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3. what's over?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:43 PM
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4. well
just a year of putting my heart out there for someone

taking a chance with it again

and poof, all done

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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:47 PM
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5. just like that?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:52 PM
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8. yes
just like that

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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:54 PM
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11. was it worth it?
:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 11:34 PM
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13. It seemed like it
but at many times it didn't

so all in all, I dunno, time will tell

worth... the heart is a strange thing

We helped each other through some tough times.

We listened to each other.

I still dunno the answer to your question. Would I do it again knowing what I know now? No. Too far, too much to deal with, too many obstacles to it, and just when I thought we were maybe gonna break out of the sand trap, kicked in the eye with sand...

Sad I feel, just sad

and pissed

:hug:
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 11:52 PM
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15. it does seem like a remarkable lack of respect...
to drop you so readily, so quickly.
maybe in the end...that's a good thing?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 06:37 AM
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16. maybe so
:shrug:

not much I can do eh?

let go

move on
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:20 PM
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46. definitely I've decided
a good thing
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:48 PM
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6. Aww SPK...
:hug: :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:53 PM
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9. ...
:hug:

thanks
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 11:21 PM
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12. I sure as hell know how that is...
...:hug: If you need someone to talk to, you know I'm here for you, right?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 11:37 PM
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14. Yeah I know you are...
I'm feeling pretty down right now, but I have been on a roller coaster, and this is just like one of the big dips, except it throws you off instead of letting you keep going.

Letting go, I guess that is what this is about. I let go, and this is what happens. What do I mean by that? Not completely sure, but I let go, turned this over to my higher power, and this is the answer I got. So I'm going to have to go with it for the moment.

If I can stay awake I'll PM, but I am seeing double right now.

thanks friend :hug: :hug:

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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:51 PM
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7. ...
:hug:

I wish something could be said to make you feel better.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-14-08 10:54 PM
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10. Thanks
:hug:

sometimes words, are just words. I can feel that you truly care though, and that means something to me. thanks

:hug:
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 06:39 AM
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17. I'm sorry SPK
There seems to be way too much of this going on around me right now......:hug: :-(
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 06:41 AM
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18. yeah
know what ya mean :hug: :hug:

sorry
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insanity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:07 AM
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19. weak sauce
Edited on Sun Jun-15-08 07:07 AM by insanity
I've been there before and it sucks hard, but from my experience getting rid of someone who cared that little is a good thing for yourself and you will be better off for it.

In every shitstorm lies a nugget of hope
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 08:15 AM
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22. a nugget of hope
thanks
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:10 AM
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20. Just remember the good
times and the good feelings and forget the rest! And don't let this experience sour you. I know, easier said than done. *sigh*

:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 08:15 AM
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21. I will try
:hug:
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 09:01 AM
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23. Awwww...... sorry it didn't work out for you.
Edited on Sun Jun-15-08 09:03 AM by femmocrat
Was this a "rebound" relationship? You know... sadly, those hardly ever last.

Hope you are doing better today, SPK. And tomorrow, and the day after that....

:hug:

P.S. Happy Father's Day, SPK. Hope you are spending the day with your son.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 09:04 AM
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24. Thanks
yes he's here with me

gonna go out and eat I think shortly.

:hug:

I guess it was a rebound. :shrug:

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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 09:15 AM
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25. I think I feel bad, but I'm not sure.
You ok?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:24 PM
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27. ...
not really ok

but will survive

:hug:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 09:34 AM
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26. Ouch.
Sorry, SPK. You deserve better than that. :hug:


I hope you have a good day with the kiddo. Happy Father's Day.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:24 PM
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28. Tryin to
he gave me a new Wii game Lego Star Wars :rofl: he knew I'd love it :rofl:


:hug:
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otherlander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:25 PM
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29. ...
:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:49 PM
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31. ...
:hug:
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:27 PM
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30. Sorry, SPK. Wish I could do more.
There is this: :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:53 PM
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32. that is nice
:hug:

thanks
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 02:57 PM
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33. I think you should have Skittles
kick some "hey, I met someone" ass. That's what I think.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:03 PM
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34. Oh Well
no one can control the heart of another

Skittles can kick his ass instead :D
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:06 PM
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35. Sounds like a plan!!
:thumbsup:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:10 PM
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37. ...
:rofl:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:06 PM
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36. oh and she said it didn't come easy for her
it was the practical decision
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 08:32 PM
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42. And that's supposed to make it better how?
People. :eyes:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 08:54 PM
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43. Dunno
could have just said... it's over I just can't do this anymore or something, maybe waited until tonight to have done it so I wasn't dealing with it all night long and all day long with my son over here, going up to my room to well, cry, and then pulling it together to go back down. That was very tiring and stressful to do.

People is right

:eyes:
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 08:56 PM
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44. I'm so sorry. I wish your Father's Day could have been better.
Skittles. That's the only way to deal with it.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 03:25 PM
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45. Skittles it is then
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:20 PM
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38. i'm sorry, my friend
:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:22 PM
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39. ...
thanks

:hug: :hug: :hug:
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BeachBaby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:28 PM
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40. Yo babe.
You're kinda freaking me out with your recent turn of events being very similar to mine.

It wasn't a year for me, but it was a few months of wonderful.

And then.....*poof*. :cry:

PM me if you need to gab. :hug:

Love.



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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 03:30 PM
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41. thanks
:hug:

thanks :loveya:
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TK421 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:25 PM
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47. Sorry man....my sympathies
:(
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:26 PM
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48. yeah, thanks
it'll be okay

I'm better than that

:pals:
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