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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:07 PM
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So, I wrote my "husband"
Edited on Sun Jun-15-08 07:34 PM by lost-in-nj
a shit or get off the pot email the other day....
no word...

today I wrote


a
please respect my feelings

I am tired of thinking of my "husband" with some one else

I would rather it be my ex husband

don't you agree???


I know he won't answer cause he's an asshole

but I put it out there.....


I just wish it was over



:hi:
:hug:

lost
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:08 PM
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1. ...
:hug:

I know how that feels. Closure is a good thing, no matter how cliche that sounds.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:15 PM
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4. thank you
:hi:

:hug:


lost
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:08 PM
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2. you done good
Sometimes people need a kick in the ass to get things going. I hope it resolves itself soon.

:hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:17 PM
Response to Reply #2
5. Hi sweety!!!
he has ignored all my communications...


I'm ready


:hug:

:hi:


a kick in the ass...
:)



lost


you doing ok???
keep me informed...

ok??

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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:31 PM
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17. Doing okay, but a little overwhelmed right now
I've got a big work project due to launch July 1. And I'm in the middle of buying a townhouse (getting my initial offer together as we speak). Oh, and the ex-gf from last summer is chasing me again, too. Yeah, I'm just a tad overwhelmed right now. :)
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:33 PM
Response to Reply #17
19. you know I am here
if you need me!!!!

i will listen... :)

:hug:

lost
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:11 PM
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3. Hang in there!
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:18 PM
Response to Reply #3
6. What a GREAT picture
Thank you


:hi:

lost

I am hanging


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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:19 PM
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7. you said
please...??

you are too nice.

the last state I got divorced in, they try 3 times to serve papers to the person, then you cna file for a divorce inabstentia (forget what the true legal term was) anyway...he was declared a "deserted" husband and my papers went through. It was all over in 6 months.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:22 PM
Response to Reply #7
8. I said please
because I have learned anger gets me no where....
and it's wasted energy


I didn't want to have him served.
but it's looking that way.....

he cooperates to an extent...

well I have reached my limit....



:hi:



lost
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:29 PM
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15. there is plenty of room between nice and angry
I just wanted to get the job done and move on down the road. Simple as that. No more time to waste ANY emotion on my Ex.
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:23 PM
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9. Why is he NOT granting you what you need?
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:27 PM
Response to Reply #9
11. I don't know
I have the papers all written out
all he has to do is read them
get a lawyer
approve
(we came to an agreement months ago)
and finalize.......


I don't know........


:hug:


lost
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:27 PM
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12. Just to be spiteful, it seems like.
You can have three hugs.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:29 PM
Response to Reply #12
14. thank you
:cry:


lost
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:29 PM
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16. aww...
:hug:
you feeling that bad?
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:31 PM
Response to Reply #16
18. yeah
for a lot of reasons


I am feeling

that bad


lost
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:34 PM
Response to Reply #18
20. drop me a pm if you want to vent about anything, k?
:hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:36 PM
Response to Reply #20
21. ok....
thank you


lost
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Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:24 PM
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10. hi lost --
sounds hard. :hug: I"m sorry you're having to go through all of this, especially with someone who is making it more difficult than it already is.

And thanks for the info re Chanel! I'm going to have to call around and see if I can find it... :hi:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-15-08 07:28 PM
Response to Reply #10
13. Thanks
I hope you find the color!!!!!
its a great polish!!!!


:hug:


lost
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