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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:04 AM
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My Stepdad Just Died
He was on Omaha Beach 6June,1944 D-Day, went back and forth 3times from the ship to the shore
piloting the landing craft.
He was a Captain in the Eugene Fire Department for many years

I am glad we went down to Eugene yesterday to see him for the last time ,as
he had asbestos poisoning,was laboring with every breath, and was on morphine.
He was more of a Father to me then my real dad
My main man
33years
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:





http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLH87XreH64
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Txh4rzNxiUA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DJAXqaFiBU



:patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot:
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:10 AM
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1. Deepest Condolences, Parche.
:hug:
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:19 AM
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2. I am sorry for your loss.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:19 AM
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3. I'm sorry Parche..
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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blueraven95 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:21 AM
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4. I'm so sorry for your loss
:hug:
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Freedom Knight Donating Member (125 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:24 AM
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5.  My condolences.
The loss of someone so dear is never easy. Please take care of yourself during this time of sorrow.
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Lady Freedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:30 AM
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6. I am so sorry, Parche!
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:38 AM
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7. I am so sorry
for your loss, Parche :hug:
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fight4my3sons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:41 AM
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8. I'm so sorry.
My thoughts are with you. :hug:

I also lost my step-father this year. :cry:
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:42 AM
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9. I'm sorry for your loss
Your family has my sympathy.

:hug:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:08 AM
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10. Oh, Parche, I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.
:hug:

May he rest in Peace.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:18 AM
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11. I'm so very sorry.
:hug:
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brook Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:19 AM
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12. I'm so sorry, Parche...
though I'm glad you had such a wonderful man in your life. All that he has been to you will
always be there for you through the years, giving you strength and hope. Right now though, the loss is visceral and raw.:hug: :hug:


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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:20 AM
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13. Oh, I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:20 AM
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14. My deepest sympathies to you.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:22 AM
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15. Aw, I am sorry.
:hug:
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:23 AM
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16. I'm so sorry, Parche
I'm glad he's not suffering anymore, but I know it's hard for you. Peace. :hug:
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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:28 AM
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17. I'm so sorry Parche
I'm glad you were able to see him yesterday. :hug:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:09 AM
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18. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
:hug: :patriot:
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erinlough Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:35 AM
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19. I'm so sorry,
We are losing our history in the passing of the WWII vets. My father passed away in December he was in the Battle of the Bulge and in Patton's third army as a machine gunner. I got the chance to ask him lots of questions in those last few months. Passing on the great things they did is what I feel we can do for them. I'm glad you got to see him. Again I'm so sorry.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:37 AM
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20. I'm sorry for your loss, parche.
Best thoughts to you and his loved ones.
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otherlander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:40 AM
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21. I'm sorry, Parche.
:cry:

:hug::hug:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:46 AM
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22. my condolences to you.
:hug:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:55 AM
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23. I'm sorry for your loss, Parche.
How fortunate you are to have had him in your life.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:56 AM
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24. My condolences to you & your family
Sounds like an amazing man.

:hug:
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Erva Donating Member (178 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:56 AM
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25. Oh, Parche
I am terribly sorry. His service to this country was commendable and there are many grateful US citizens out here. Sending hugs and deepest sympathy.
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:24 AM
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26. Please accept my condolences.
may the pain of your loss be as brief as possible and may the memories be blissfully long and pleasant. :hug:
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Bullwinkle925 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:27 AM
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27. The only thing I can add to this long list of condolences is . . .
a candle to warm your heart . . .


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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:28 AM
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28. I am very sorry for your loss
You have my deepest condolences.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:29 AM
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29. i am so sorry, parche
my deepest condolences to you and your family and safe passage to your stepfather :patriot:
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Eurobabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:34 AM
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30. Condolences Parche
My hubby's dad died from the same thing in 1999, :hug:

Sorry you are hurting.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:36 AM
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31. My dear Parche...
Oh, sweetie...

I am so glad you were able to be there with him when he died...

He will live in your heart, forever...

Safe passage to him, down that ramp into the unknown...

And hugs to you and to your entire family as you go through this painful time...:grouphug:

That which is remembered, lives...

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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 11:55 AM
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36. My Dear CaliforniaPeggy
"Where are we going? Life, the timeless, mysterious gift, is still evolving. What wonders-or-terrors-does evolution hold in store for us in the next ten thousand year? In a million? In six million?

:cry: :cry: :cry:
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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Dr. Strange Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:38 AM
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32. Sorry to hear that, Parche.
Hope the family is well.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:42 AM
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33. oh parche......
:hug: :hug:

I am so sorry ......

He sounds like a wonderful and caring person.....

I really am so sorry....



lost

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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:46 PM
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49. Oh Gorn
The stories are out there

There will never be another person like him

He fought till the end

:hi:
:hug:
:cry:

found gorn
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:46 AM
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34. I'm so sorry. What a brave man he was. To fight in a war and then to become a firefighter.
He fought the good fight that is for sure.
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:56 AM
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35. I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:32 PM
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37. My Deepest Condolences
May he rest in peace
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:41 PM
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38. I am sorry for your loss.
:hug:

I am grateful for his service.

:patriot:
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:48 PM
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39. I'm so sorry, Parche.
:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:54 PM
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40. My Condolences, Parche...
:hug:
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kentauros Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:55 PM
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41. I'm sorry to hear that, Parche
I don't know what it's like (yet) to lose a parent, so I offer my deepest sympathy.

:hug:
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:58 PM
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42. My condolences.
I'm glad you had the chance to say goodbye.

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RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:58 PM
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43. condolences
I cannot begin to know what it must have been like to land on the beach that day. I'm glad he survived.

From PBS, a photo gallery of the D-Day landing and other WWII photos from photographer Robert Capa.

http://www.pbs.org/weta/reportingamericaatwar/reporters/capa/photo5.html

L.A. Marshall, combat historian, recalled the Omaha Beach landing in The Atlantic in 1960.

http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/196011/omaha
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 12:59 PM
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44. I'm so sorry. nt
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Bombero1956 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 01:11 PM
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45. my condolences
at the passing of your stepdad. He was a hero in war and he was a hero in peace and most of all he was a hero in life. I salute him as he answers the last call. In the tradition of the fire service we toll the bell 3 5 5 signify companies in quarters.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 02:41 PM
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46. Sorry to hear that
my condolences
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 02:42 PM
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47. my condolences to you and your family
:hug:
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 02:43 PM
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48. Oh, Parche, i'm so sorry to hear this

My condolences to you and your family. Your stepdad sounds like an amazing person. :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:50 PM
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50. Lost my stepdad recently, too.
Edited on Mon Jun-16-08 09:50 PM by Elrond Hubbard
:hug:
All my sympathy to you and your family.
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:57 PM
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51. I am so sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:37 PM
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52. I'm sorry for your loss Parche
I'm glad you were able to see him one last time. He did a good job with you. :hug: :cry:
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Brigid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:50 PM
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53. So sorry to hear this, parche.
:hug: for you and :patriot: for him.
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sicksicksick_N_tired Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 11:14 PM
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54. Find peace,...in his peace.
:hug: no more struggle :hug:
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 11:17 PM
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55. I'm so sorry.
What a terrible loss - he was a hero many times over.
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puerco-bellies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 12:45 AM
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56. I am very sorry Parche
Nothing can be said to ease your grief, but I do wish you and your family peace.
:patriot: :grouphug: :patriot:
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:26 AM
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57. My condolences to you and yours, Parche.
:hug:
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 10:29 AM
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58. Parche, I'm sorry for your loss...
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:02 PM
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59. I'm so sorry...
:pals:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:05 PM
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60. Aw, man! I know how much it hurts *hugs*
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Dinger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:05 PM
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61. Parche, Many Hugs To You My Friend
I am so very sorry for your loss. My stepdad is doing better. His cancer (prostate) is being treated. He and Mom are coming over for supper tonight. Nine year anniversary for them, and 6 year anniversary for Mom's heart surgery. I am so thankful for each moment.

:grouphug: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot: :patriot:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:13 PM
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62. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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kineneb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:22 PM
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63. I'm so sorry, and hugs. n/t
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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:25 PM
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64. I'm very sorry for your loss
:hug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:32 PM
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65. So sorry to hear this, Parche
Sounds like he was an outstanding guy.
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dark blue Donating Member (10 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:40 PM
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66. how sad to hear
and it sounds like you will miss him very much. my heart goes out to you!
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 06:43 PM
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67. My deepest condolences Parche
May he rest in peace

:hug:
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