lightningandsnow
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Wed Jun-18-08 03:42 PM
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Some of my old friends have grown up to be utterly depressing. |
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I had one friend, when I was younger, who really struck me as kind of a free-spirited, artsy, non-conformist type of person.
I found her on facebook a bunch of years later, and she's turned out to be a somewhat boring conservative who's part of an anti-Obama smear group. Really.
Sigh.
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Shell Beau
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Wed Jun-18-08 03:44 PM
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Chan790
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Wed Jun-18-08 05:00 PM
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2. Sometimes your friends are not who you think they are. |
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or who they're comfortable being perceived as in the eyes of the world.
One of my friends is a hardcore RW (fiscal and social) Republican and outwardly presents herself as a morally-conservative. She's actually really into having kinky anonymous trysts with strangers (men and women). Ever seen Cruel Intentions? She's Sarah Michelle Gellar's character to a tee, minus the mean-spiritedness.
Another has 90 tattoos and piercings including ones in naughty places which she talks about candidly, has a lithograph of the "Piss Christ" hanging in her living room and supplements her income as a non-nude bondage model. She is also training to be a minister and was the source of my best quip in the last week when someone got on her for her pro-gay-marriage position. "WWJD?: Cater."
A third is the mousiest, quiet, sweet, innocent-seeming girl you'll ever meet. Teaches ballet. Tells corny jokes, talks about how she wants to find a guy just like her daddy, brings me food at work "just because", cries watching Bambi every time when Bambi's mother dies and is a prolific hugger. She's also a pro-domme.
These three people are best friends to the amazement of everybody who doesn't really know them. Also, I have really strange friends and I love them just the way they are. People are complicated...uncomplicated people scare me; it means they're complicated in ways they don't feel they can share.
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Arugula Latte
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Wed Jun-18-08 05:03 PM
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I had a sort-of friend/acquaintance in college who was a free-spirted super feminist. She turned into a Christian conservative wifey type. Gag.
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