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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:00 PM
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Am I gay?
My first girl kiss.

<a href="http://s289.photobucket.com/albums/ll216/gpatrick3/?action=view¤t=Photo32.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="" border="0" alt="32"></a>
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Bicoastal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:02 PM
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1. I'm not sure...
...you should try it at least 5 more times so we can be positive. Be sure to PM me the pictures!

:evilgrin:
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:08 PM
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5. I could get to liking this girl kiss thing
<a href="http://s289.photobucket.com/albums/ll216/gpatrick3/?action=view¤t=Photo27.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="" border="0" alt="27"></a>
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Bicoastal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:15 PM
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12. BTW, did you know Hollywood's making a feature film based on the music of tATu?
Starring Mischa Barton and a lotta Russians?

Iz true! Here's a trailer!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shGgyPvGa4U
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 06:52 PM
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57. totally wrong spot
Edited on Thu Jun-26-08 06:52 PM by Inchworm
:blush:
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:03 PM
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2. If that makes you gay, then I'm going to have to do some
explaining to my husband, I have this weird girl kissing thing when I get loaded....
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Elidor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:04 PM
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3. O, my
:popcorn:

moar!
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:06 PM
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4. I'm pretty certain that is a question only you can answer.
One kiss doesn't make you a lesbian...any more than having a navel makes me an orange. It's all about how you feel about it...did it make you warm and tingly...or did it leave you cold and feeling awkward? More importantly...do you feel attracted to women or men or both or neither?
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:10 PM
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7. warm and tingly....
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:09 PM
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6. Lurking Freepers may be torn between your destruction of marriage
and how sexay the destruction of marriage can be.

;)
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:12 PM
Response to Reply #6
9. Well I did break up with a bf
last week. Haven't given him a second thought...
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:12 PM
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8. I somehow don't think kisses count if you decide to take a picture of it NT
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:52 PM
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25. pretty much ...more like an exhibitionist
:boring:
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 08:41 AM
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39. Right??
ITA. :eyes:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 02:32 PM
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50. Yup.
It's too similar to the drunk girls in clubs doing crap like this to get attention from... yup, men. Seems pretty damn un-gay to me.

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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:12 PM
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10. Isn't that your decision?
whether you prefer women over men?


:shrug:

I think that you at some point get to decide if you feel more attracted to one than the other.

Personally I'm more attracted to women. That doesn't mean that there haven't been a few moments that I've thought hmmm... that was a pretty hot looking guy, and wondered, but not enough to pursue it. Not a fear of trying just not enough interest.

I'm pretty comfortable with my sexuality, and what I'd say to you is that it's your life and your sexuality and you get to do with it as you please! so enjoy!

:hi:
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:16 PM
Response to Reply #10
13. I want her
But she's my neighbors gf.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:20 PM
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15. Well damn
take her away :D
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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:15 PM
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11. "I kept asking myself. Am I gay? Am I straight? Then
I realized I'm just a slut. Where's my parade?" -Margaret Cho after having sex with a woman and liking it.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:18 PM
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14. That's my credo...
and I really do want the parade.
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Labors of Hercules Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:52 PM
Response to Reply #14
26. ho.
*nod*
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #26
29. I prefer manwhore...
although I concede the redundancy of the words "man" and "whore" in the same compound word. (Kidding...somewhat.)
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unpossibles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 05:22 PM
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53. my problem is
I want to do the parade
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orleans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 12:50 AM
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32. that's hysterical! n/t
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:26 PM
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16. Gay, not sure. Exhibitionist, definitely.
nt

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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:27 PM
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17. *yawn*
You're straight, and trying to get a rise out of DU men. Nothing more, nothing less. In fact, this picture is probably stolen off a random myspace profile.
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:29 PM
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18. My first thought too.
Glad you said it. :thumbsup:


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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 07:00 AM
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35. Somebody had to say it
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:32 PM
Response to Reply #17
20. Not stolen
And not trying to get a rise out of anyone...
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 06:58 AM
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34. Then, what is the point of this photo?
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Shakespeare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:35 PM
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21. Ay-yup.
My thoughts exactly.

:hi: :loveya:
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 07:02 AM
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36. It looks like most of the facebook photos of Haruka's sister & friends
And they're straight.

:loveya:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 07:16 AM
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37. .
:thumbsup:
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Dogtown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 01:05 PM
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47. LostinVA
You are so cool...

:applause:


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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 07:26 PM
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60. ....
:applause:
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Rhythm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #17
61. Yeah... what i thought, too.
Been listening to that "i Kissed a Girl" song to much, i guess...
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 08:02 PM
Response to Reply #61
63. the original was very sweet. this remix represents everything that is wrong...
with painting bisexuality as a mere fashion trend aimed at heterosexual male titillation...
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Rhythm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 08:18 AM
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70. The 'original' is a different song, isn't it?
I remember it from a few years ago... thought it was cute.

That Katy Perry noise that's on the radio "every hour on the hour" has flatly annoyed me since the first time i heard it.
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:30 PM
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19. How would we know?
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:35 PM
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22. Thought police maybe
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:37 PM
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23. you kissed a girl and we saw the picture, that's all we know. It's difficult to make any
kind of judgment based on that and it would be wrong.
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Labors of Hercules Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:51 PM
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24. Do you really want an answer?
The picture's got shit to do with it... did kissing her make you want to keep on kissing her?

Does thinking about her arouse you?
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #24
27. I was just feeling majorly confused
because yes it did-and being a 55 year old female without ever having those kinds of feelings it threw me.
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Labors of Hercules Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-24-08 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #27
28. not confused any more?
Edited on Tue Jun-24-08 11:00 PM by Labors of Hercules
*smile* She's definitely sexy.

edit to say: from my lesbian point of view.
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orleans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 12:54 AM
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33. you don't look 55. (i clicked the link and saw the other two pics)
careful with the younger girls--they are (we were)heartbreakers.

i say not gay: it wasn't an open mouth kiss.

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Fox Mulder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 12:13 AM
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30. I'm going to need to see more to make an informed decision.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 12:21 AM
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31. I'm thinking
an orange shirt :)

:hi:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 07:32 AM
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38. i doubt it. more than likely you are a straight girl, kissing girls for male attention
which is certainly your prerogative but doesn't make you gay
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #38
65. .
:spray:


word.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 08:21 AM
Response to Reply #65
71. word to your mother.
:P
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Carnea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 10:40 AM
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40. No but I think I've just decided on Striaght.......
:yourock: :yourock: :yourock: :yourock: :yourock: :applause: :applause: :applause: :applause: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :hide: :popcorn: :hi: :spank:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 10:56 AM
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41. If you don't know then how the hell am I supposed to know?
:shrug:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 10:59 AM
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42. First thing I did when I first kissed my husband
was take a pic and post it on a message board.

Give it a rest. :eyes:
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 11:01 AM
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43. And she's 55.
:wtf:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 09:20 PM
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64. Of course she is!
If the person posting is 55 years old, I'm Mother Teresa.
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taterguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 11:33 AM
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46. Is that when you realized you were gay?
:hide:
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 11:02 AM
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44. I dunno...was it good for you too?
:D
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 11:12 AM
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45. don't know, but you're quite possibly a cougar. nt.
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pdx_prog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 01:18 PM
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48. For men, it is quite simple to find out....
Just bend over.....if you see 4 balls, you're gay....lol
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Zuiderelle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-25-08 02:24 PM
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49. Wait ... You're 55, and she's what... 18 (maybe)... and why the fuck post a pic of it?
Edited on Wed Jun-25-08 02:26 PM by PelosiFan
If you are gay (HIGHLY doubtful), then you are more importantly also an attention.... seeking person.

If you really are the person in the picture and you are just now coming to terms with something about you that may or may not be gay, you certainly wouldn't be posting a picture like that. Unless you just don't take our issues very seriously. Wait... never mind, it's clear you don't.

Enjoy the attention. Please don't post this in the GLBT forum.
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 04:43 PM
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51. I think you're being too serious for the lounge
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 05:17 PM
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52. No she's not. She IS gay, and probably doesn't appreciate
your trivializing her entire life by saying you're gay just because you posted a photo for the express purpose of getting yourself some attention in the lounge. Well, it worked. A lot more people know who you are, and think less of you, than before. Well done.
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 05:31 PM
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55. Not
I can think of 100 better ways to getting "attention" then in the lounge. Shouldn't assume a motive when there isn't one.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 06:40 PM
Response to Reply #55
56. The best way is by going on a troll suicide run
I highly suggest it.
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Zuiderelle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 07:50 PM
Response to Reply #56
62. Now THAT would be entertaining.
:thumbsup:
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Genevieve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 05:30 PM
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54. Gay , no - Was posting this pic immature and silly? Yes.
nt
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 06:53 PM
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58. I'm buck nekkid
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Seedersandleechers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 07:23 PM
Response to Reply #58
59. Beautiful Video
Or am I just being silly? Check this one....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFF8bubMc40
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-26-08 11:38 PM
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66. this thread would have gone over much better if the chick was homeless and/or mentally unstable...
and you were beating her instead of kissing her.
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last_texas_dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 04:03 AM
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68. Good point. haha
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 08:23 AM
Response to Reply #66
72. lol
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 09:39 AM
Response to Reply #66
75. THAT would depend if the OP was one of the lounge "kewl kids",
my dear IndianaJones.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 12:55 AM
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67. Go back to MySpace...
geez. You're an attention whore, that much is for sure.

and you're extremely disrespectful to those here who are gay.

You're 55? Then time to grow up...

RL
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 06:28 AM
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69. Gosh...then Dennis Quaid, and Matthew Broderick and Michael Caine...
and Susan Sarandon must all be gay. Among others. Since they've all done a same-sex kiss. :eyes:

This is stupid. This is a fucking insult to people who ARE gay.
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Sugar Smack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 08:33 AM
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73. I like your avatar.
Edited on Fri Jun-27-08 09:01 AM by Sugar Smack
It's original.
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BreweryYardRat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 09:34 AM
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74. Trying for attention much? n/t
Sheesh.
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-27-08 02:54 PM
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76. I just want to know
why you would be making out with your neighbor's gf, since that is whom you said she is.
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