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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:30 AM
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Pet Peeve: People saying, "What?"

In RL, when people didn't catch what you said, and say, "What?"

People, that is so tacky! Can't they say something with a little more politeness? "What did you say?",
or "Excuse me?" or something.

Unless the speaker is very young, I just find this tacky, especially in a work or professional situation.
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arcadian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:32 AM
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1. Worser: "Huh?"
n't
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 11:47 AM
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9. Twice as worse: "Hmm?" (n/t)
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 03:58 PM
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12. An old girlfriend of mine used to say...
"Your what hurts?"

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NewEnglandGirl Donating Member (602 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:37 AM
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2. I usually say
"Yes?" :)
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Crazy Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:45 AM
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3. Reminds me of "Pulp Fiction"
"What country you from?"

"What?"

"What ain't no country I ever heard of, they speak English in What?"

"What?"

"ENGLISH MOTHER-FUCKER!!! DO YOU SPEAK IT?"

"What?"

"SAY WHAT AGAIN! I DARE YOU!! I DOUBLE-DARE YOU MOTHER-FUCKER!!! SAY WHAT ONE MORE MOTHER-FUCKING TIME!!!!"

:rofl:
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:51 AM
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4. I usually say, "I'm sorry?" or "Pardon?" I HATE "Huh?"
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:53 AM
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5. I agree.
I have a friend who does the same thing all the time and it drives me NUTS. I swear she hears me correctly, but just wants me to repeat what I said b/c she's power-tripping.

Of course, I'm probably completely wrong about that, but it still drives me crazy. :crazy:
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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 11:00 AM
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8. "I didn't stutter nor stammer, your ears flapped." That was what this boy in
my high school used to say Really! :rofl:
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LoveMyCali Donating Member (694 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 04:03 PM
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13. Sometimes I ask people to repeat themselves
and then I realize I did hear them, there was just some kind of disconnect between my ears and my brain and it took a minute to sink in, I'm really not on a power trip.
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 10:54 AM
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16. Yes you are.
LOL! just kidding. :rofl:

I suspect how you describe it is exactly what happens with my friend, too. I've noticed she processes things a bit more slowly than I do, and I sometimes get impatient with her responses....which really isn't fair to her....it's just her own unique way of being.

I basically need to remember to be more patient and compassionate with people sometimes, and not assume that everyone thinks as quickly as I do...which isn't, in any way, to say my way is "better than", or theirs is "worse than".

We're ALL on our own perfect schedules. :D

:hi:

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unpossibles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:56 AM
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6. in Cincinnati, we say "please?"
and everyone hates that too.

"Come again?"
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kentauros Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 10:56 AM
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7. Que?
Was?
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 01:00 PM
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10. Mr. AF says "How Many?"
Drives me nuts.

:P

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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 01:37 PM
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11. What?
What's wrong with, "say again?" It works for radio.
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Fox Mulder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 04:04 PM
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14. What?
:)
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Bake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-09-08 04:25 PM
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15. Can I get a what what?
Better than "baking powder."

Bake
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 10:58 AM
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17. My dad used to get mad at us for that... but I still say it all the time.
Edited on Thu Jul-10-08 10:59 AM by redqueen
:blush:

Then again, he wanted us to say, "I beg your pardon" instead... so...

My pet peeve is saying "oh" instead of "zero". It's a number, not a letter.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 10:59 AM
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18. It's a professional oddity, but...
at work we have to say "recall" (being a barista means calling drinks, that in-turn requires a stable common language and terminology). It's infected my subconscious and I say it constantly and without any thought. I also say "venti" and "grande" instead of "large" and "medium" with some frequency.
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AlGore-08.com Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 11:24 AM
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19. No, no. What is on second base.
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 11:26 AM
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20. I prefer, "WTF did you say, Moran!!1!!"
:rofl:

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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 11:30 AM
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21. Huh? What? Speak up I can't hear you.
I usually say I'm sorry I didn't catch what you said. What's awful is when it's repeated and I still don't hear it clearly.

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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 11:36 AM
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22. I've had people say what/huh when I know they heard me
It is like a habit with some people.

After about 3-4 times I usually say, "How the hell can you respond to what I said after saying "what" unless you heard me, dumbass!"

:hi:

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MilesColtrane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-10-08 02:05 PM
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23. It gets worse.
In Texas you hear a lot of , "Do what?" or "Do what, now?" when someone wants you to repeat what you've said.

It comes out, "Dew Whaaaht?", and it stirs homicidal rage in me every time I hear it.
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