Five Questions. Snooping.

[Maddy McCall]

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

[flvegan]

1. Okay

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

Absolutely not.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

Nope.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

No, never.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

Good Lord, no.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

The sheets? You mean the bed sheets? No.

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

The kind with the D O Double G.

edited cuz I can't spell on Sunday.

[ok_cpu]

9. Dude, Who is this "Doog" you speak of?

:hi:

[flvegan]

10. This

Not this

[ok_cpu]

21. ...

[Madrone]

2. NO x 5.

I have "privacy issues" thanks to my dysfunctional childhood. Because I must have my own privacy I extend that to others.

Bonus question: Although I don't regret it - I *did* do a small amount of snooping when I had the recovering addict living with me. I read some of her instant messaging conversations. There were things that led me to that, though. And I didn't do it continually. Only during a particular period.

[SeattleGirl]

3. Answers:

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email? NO

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet? NO

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see? NO

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last? NO

5) Have you ever checked the sheets? NO

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had? Read something of my daughter's that I immediately felt bad about. What I read wasn't bad or anything, but I should not have done it.

[lost-in-nj]

4. ....

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?


no and I would hope they wouldn't either




2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?


I used to

but no more

:blush:




3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?


no



4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?


unfortunately yes..... after months of suspicion

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

NO EEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWW



Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

I have no answer

:shrug:




lost

:hi:

[Lil Missy]

5. Answers

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

No. (However my ex used to do that to me)

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

No

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

No

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

No

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

No (LOL! Took me a while to figure that one out!)

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

I can't think of any instance. I think I am rather boring and aloof like that.

[zanne]

43. Yes to the glove compartment and medicine cabinet.

But I'm very un-nosy in other situations. If a couple I know is fighting within earshot, I make it a point not to listen.

[littlebit]

6. ......

Yes, yes, yes, yes, and no.

[Maddy McCall]

7. My answers.

1) Email - no.

2) Medicine cabinet - no.

3) Glove box - no.

4) Redial - no.

5) Sheets - no. Boxers - yes. :blush:

Bonus: Found out that a relative had a drug dealer on speed dial by checking his cell phone. :(

[PeaceNikki]

8. .

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?
No

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?
No

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?
No

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?
?? Maybe??

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?
No

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?
This one is a bit tricky. I've been in a couple VERY dysfunctional relationships. We both did "snooping" that we shouldn't have. The relationships themselves were awful because they turned me into someone that I didn't like AT ALL. Abuse, control, addiction, stalking... all of that fucks with a person on a very deep level. I do know NOW what red flags to watch out for and to run like the wind if I see them. I don't want to ever be in a relationship like that again and I *NEVER* want to become the person I was while in them.

[NewEnglandGirl]

11. Answers.....

1. Never
2. Never
3. No but I might do that.
4. No
5. No

Asked people to tell me things that other people have said or done. Then I realized I didn't need to know that and was better off not knowing.

[NewEnglandGirl]

17. I have to truthfully add that

although I really don't do those things part of the reason is that I would never want to be caught. :blush:

[Runcible Spoon]

12. answers

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

big-ass no.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

No, not a neighbor but I casually open medicine cabinets at friends/relatives house. I don't see this as a biggie, and I even organize my cabinet with the expectation that people will look in mine. I've also just helped myself to a tampon without asking and it was never a problem when I told that person later. I leave that kind of stuff in semi-obvious places for guests.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

Not with the intent of snooping, but I have had people leave me in their cars while they ran time-consuming errands during which I couldn't tag along. If you leave me in your car for more than 10 minutes, I'm going to be looking for some source of reading material, even if it's your car's owner's manual.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

No, but I've looked in call logs when I was 95% sure he was cheating on me, and that made me 99% sure. :cry:

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

Checked them for what? If I'm sleeping in them, I'm going to examine them. Beyond that, no why would anyone?

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

Nothing really. I'm not snoopy but I don't understand people who get upset about others looking at certain things. Overly secretive people just make me think they really have something to hide. I don't tend to get along with people who have trust issues and don't open up easily.

[mopinko]

13. i think you people are fibbing.

i am a snoop.

[Runcible Spoon]

15. I think they are too >:D

c'mon, the medicine cabinet seems pretty benign and I thought that was universal. I mean, if you had genital herpes would you REALLY keep your Valtrex in a commonly used bathroom medicine cabinet?!!?! :scared:

[Maddy McCall]

28. Hey, I admitted to checking boxers...

If I'd admit that, why wouldn't I admit to the other?

:D

[mopinko]

32. hey maybe snoops are quiet about it.

a self selection bias.
the boxers seem like something anyone would understand. they are great dogs.

[Haole Girl]

14. Five answers:

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email? No.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet? Maybe. If I needed something!

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see? No.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last? No.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets? Um.. no!

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had? I once read a roommate's journal (I was in college). I really wished I hadn't, after I did, too. :-(

[Runcible Spoon]

16. oooooo that journal snooping just negated everything you answered in 1-5!

:rofl:

[Haole Girl]

18. Hey...

I had good reasons! :blush:

[Mutley]

19. Guess I'm worse than I thought.

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email? No.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet? Probably.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see? No.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last? No, but I have looked in my now-ex's cell phone.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets? Ew, no.

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had? My parents' room when I was a kid. I didn't need to know they had sex toys and porn. Who wants to think of their parents as sexual creatures when they are kids? :scared:

[Sheets of Easter]

20. What kind of rotten shitbag goes through someone's personal messages?

That's low.

[Chan790]

25. Apparently me.

But I have a personal responsibility for him and he's been in trouble since he was just a shoplifting 6 year old and dealing in middle school. I feel justified.

[Sheets of Easter]

31. Well, that's a different circumstance.

I'm talking about going through someone's e-mail or messages just out of sheer curiosity.

[Crabby Appleton]

22. No * 5 nt

[Chan790]

23. answers.

1.) No, however I snoop my youngest brother's email because he lives with me and never leaves the house, yet always has money, an active WoW subscription, and cigarettes. Thus I suspect he's either selling his possessions on Ebay, whoring himself or dealing drugs.

2.) Come on. yes. I think most people have done this.

3.) Nope.

4.) Yeah.

5.) Why? Every major relationship I've ever been in has been open and non-informing. (That is, we were free to do what we wanted and we didn't have to discuss our bedmating.) I'm personally done with that now...but I don't care who they sleep with. Carte Blanche.

Bonus: I thought my roommate was hiding a gun under his bed, instead I found a vial of his gf's (or his...I didn't ask) blood. They were active vamp-players so it wasn't unexpected...just ewwww.

[harmonicon]

24. no, yes, no, no, no

[Zuiderelle]

26. Good questions... Here are my answers:

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?
Absolutely not. Never. That would be unforgivable.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?
No. I might open the medicine cabinet if I was desperate to find a bandaid or a q-tip or something, but then I would feel very guilty about invading their privacy.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?
Nope, never

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?
Never. But... I would have in a couple of cases, with someone who I already found out had been cheating on me. But that was before redial existed.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?
What? No. That would never even occur to me.

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?
None. The only snooping I ever did was with the two people referred to in number 4. Then it was more like masochism to find out how long the cheating had been going on. I'm glad I did that snooping, because I found out that it had been going on a long time in both cases.

[Deja Q]

27. Fair Q's

1. Only if they said I could.
2. Of course! They might get Pepto Bismol at a cheaper price!
3. Like plaid colored gloves?
4. No.
5. For dust mites?

B. None.

[Guava Jelly]

29. k

1) no
2) no
3) yea
4) no
5) no
Bonus q: the desperate kind

[Pierre.Suave]

30. NO

To the first 4, and about 5, does checking my own sheets before "activity" count?

:rofl:

[Withywindle]

33. I'll play

1) HELL NO. (Probably not that interesting anyway)

2) Well...I have on occasion when I needed an aspirin or something like that BAD.

3) I've looked in their glove compartments but because I was looking for tapes/CDs or something like that. Not for suspicious reasons.

4) Oh HELL no. What would I say to that person when they answer?

5) Frak no.

I eavesdrop on conversations on occasion but I DON'T snoop through people's personal stuff. EVER. I've had it done to me, and I know what a violation it is. I never forgave the person who did it to me, and I had trust/privacy issues for years afterward.

[Skittles]

34. !!!

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email? I wouldn't "snoop" but I would definitely send inapropriate email to a mutual relative/friend, using their email - yes INDEED

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet? NO and I don't understand people who would do this

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see? HELL no

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last? NO

5) Have you ever checked the sheets? NO

WHAT THE FUCK KIND OF GUYS ARE YOU DATING, MADDY? DO I KICK YOUR ASS OR THEIRS?

[Maddy McCall]

41. Ha!

I promise that this isn't about me!

:rofl:

[Skittles]

42. alright then

me, I'm the kind of gal who if I even begin to suspect someone of something I am IN THEIR FACE about it, not snooping around like some coward. But then, you knew that already. :D

[Kali]

71. ...

"I would definitely send inapropriate email to a mutual relative/friend, using their email - yes INDEED"
:spray: :rofl: :thumbsup:

[bigwillq]

35. Here goes:

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

NO

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

YES

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

YES..but just to look not really looking for something stashed

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

NO but I do go through the caller ID

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

NO


Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

Nothing that I can think of

[ThomCat]

36. I guess I'm not very curious.

1. No. I really have no interest in reading anyone else's e-mail. If I had their permission to use the computer and they accidentally were still logged in I'd log them off before doing anything else.

2. I've done this once when I was a teen for some reason. My own medicine cabinet is interesting enough. I wouldn't bother to look in a medicine cabinet now until I was hoping to find a q-tip or bandage or something.

3. No. But the last few people I dated weren't the type to be secretive, and I can't imagine what they'd have there that I'd care about.

4. No. I don't know if I'd recognize the number or care even if I did see the number.

5. Checked the sheets? As in look for signs of people having sex in that bed when it wasn't with me? Wow. I can't say that ever occured to me. I even encouraged my last girlfriend to feel free to find another boyfriend who was straight, so it might have been possible for her to be sleeping with someone else. But I'm positive she would have told me first, and I would have been happy for her.

Bonus question. None. If anything, I might have benefited from doing some occasional snooping, but I haven't bothered.

[Lil Missy]

37. Perfect cure for question #2

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

If you are having guests over, fill the medicine cabinet with marbles. If they snoop, all the marbles will fall out, and cause a LOT of noise.

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

I bet they'd never do it again! :D

[Chan790]

38. I had an aunt who used to do that...

we'd intentionally open the medicine cabinet at the worst times...in the middle of grace was a favorite. So was the very end of happy birthday and in the middle of toasts and speeches.

Some people aren't curious, they're just asshole teens...like I was.

[Lil Missy]

39. Imagine how embarrassing that would be for a snoop that wasn't expecting it.

:rofl: :rofl:

[Lex]

40. I snooped on an SO who I was fairly sure was cheating

through info I received withOUT snooping.

I was right.

The relationship ended, and I didn't feel bad about confirming my legitimate suspicions by snooping at that point. It sure sucked to have my suspicions confirmed.

[Zavulon]

44. Okay

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

* Possibly, if I thought there was some benefit to it to me - for instance, if it were my boss's e-mail.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

* No. I have no interest and even if I did, too many people use the marble trick.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

* No. Never even thought of it.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

* No. If I didn't trust her, I wouldn't waste my time with her at all, much less be at her place so often.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

Not sure I even understand this one. I've obviously been with the same girl for too long.

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

None. I don't ever remember getting caught.

[Fox Mulder]

45. Okay

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?
-- Their email, no. Their internet bookmarks, yes.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?
-- No

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?
-- Not the glove compartment...

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?
-- No

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?
-- What?

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?
-- I regret nothing.

[XemaSab]

46. Yes, yes, yes, no, no

And... listening at doors and windows... but maybe I'm glad I did that, ya know? :shrug:

[XemaSab]

81. .

:P

[Maddy McCall]

82. LOL

:spank:

[Heidi]

47. Answers.

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?
- Nope.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?
- No.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?
- Nope, but my ex-husband did that sort of thing on a regular basis.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?
- Nope. That would require a level of technical expertise beyond my own. I don't even know which is the redial button on our phones at home. :blush:

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?
- I've never done this, but it's something I would do. I won't sleep on dirty sheets. :blech:

[texanwitch]

48. No to all.

I don't like to snoop, people have the right to privacy.

[bridgit]

49. 1. no...

2. no...

3. no...

4. no...

5. no...

B q = none...

[La Lioness Priyanka]

50. here goes

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

no

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

no

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

no one i have dated had a car

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

no

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

no

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

read my ex's diary

[philosophie_en_rose]

51. No x 4.5

1) Absolutely not.

2) Maybe, but probably not. I think medicine cabinets are generally open to the public looking for paper products or soap, so I don't think it's an invasion to look through. I just don't think it's interesting to know what brand toothpaste someone uses.

3) No.

4) No.

5) No. Only if I'm deciding when to wash them.

[Lil Missy]

52. Maddy?? Are you dating someone right now?

Let's talk about this, kay?

:P

[RedShoes]

53. no to the e-mail unless i has reason to suspect...

yes to the bathroom medicine cabinet (and you all know you do it too) ;) Could care less about the glove box, no to the sheets (I would expect some sheet washing to go on at the very least) and never hit redial BUT I have gone through the cell phone.

I prefer not to hide it when I do...I call it a routine inspection. :P

[JustABozoOnThisBus]

54. Noooooooo

No, No, No, No, and

not yet, but the orange shades and blue lights on CSI look pretty cool. Might have to get some from ebay.

:rofl:

[terrya]

55. Mine:

1) No

2) Hell No

3) Hell, hell no

4) Hell, hell, hell, hell, no

5) Hell, etc, no.

I have this weird thing about respecting other people's property. Silly me.

Bonus question: none.

[DarkTirade]

56. No, no, no, no, and no.

I don't snoop.

[BarenakedLady]

57. k

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

No

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

No

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

Yes

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

No

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

No

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

Nothing stands out. I'm usually on the other end.

[Burma Jones]

58. OK

1) No
2) I have in the past, but not for well over 15 years, it wasn't snooping, I was looking for fun pain killers.......
3) No
4) No
5) No

[BlueIris]

59. A big, fat NO to questions 1-5. Snooping like that would make me feel dirty.

Like I felt after the one time I read someone's diary in high school. The entry she wrote about how much she disliked me wasn't the reason I felt shitty—having violated her privacy was the reason.

Boundaries are important, people.

[Iggo]

60. Oh, dear.

No.
No.
No.
No.
No.

Can you imagine living with that kind of fear?

[DS1]

61. That's some really weird shit

and people think I'm nuts! :crazy:

[Maddy McCall]

It's not the weirdest thing I've posted in the past couple of days.

That, I can promise.

:D

[SOteric]

80. I'm just pointing out that you haven't answered the questions.

And there's nothing in the OP about douchebaggery and the U.S. Mail.

[Shell Beau]

62. K

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

Nope! I just couldn't do that.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

Nah! I don't know what lots of meds are for anyway.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

Not that I ever recall.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

I have checked that before!

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

Nope!

What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

I guess I am no fun! I haven't done much snooping of any kind!!! What a bore I am!! x(

[unpossibles]

63. no.

The only time I ever snooped, I read a page of someone's diary years ago, and felt like an ass. I don't believe in it.

I've had someone snoop on me, and while I generally don't hide anything, it sucks.

[redqueen]

64. ...

1. no
2. no
3. no
4. no
5. no

the online kind

[IndianaJones]

65. yes x5....to make up for all the liars. nt.

[Zuiderelle]

68. People with no integrity often think everyone with integrity is lying.

Just an observation.

:shrug:

[GOPisEvil]

76. You don't know me.

You don't have the right to call me a liar.

[zingaro]

66. ok

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

No. I think that would be rude and I'd really hate it if someone did it to me.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

A neighbor? No. But I would feel free to open any friend or family member's medicine cabinet and would expect them to feel free to do so with anything of mine if they were in need of something at my house.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

I did, but this was only after I had very warranted information that my husband was having an affair. But I had never done it before, with anyone I'd dated or known, and haven't since.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

No.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

No but during the time leading up to the confrontation about his affair, I checked his clothing regularly.

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

Paradoxically, the one kind that gave me actual confirmation about my husband's affair and that was logging in to our cell phone usage log on our provider's website. I am not a snoopy, distrustful person in general but that entire event brought me to some real low points in terms of snoopiness.

[Genevieve]

67. No, yes, no, yes, no.

What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?
None

[SidneyCarton]

69. No to 1,2,3

Our phone doesn't have redial, so n/a for 4.

5, also no, more due to sheer lazyness than anything else.

Anyhoo, I'm an absent minded professor, if Mrs. Carton wanted to cheat on me while growing pot in the back yard she'd probably get away with it.

[Redstone]

70. None of the above. Not in 100 years. Jesus. PS: Checked the sheets for WHAT?

Redstone

[tismyself]

84. heh

The sheets thing weirded me out too.

[Kali]

72. hmmm

e-mail - if they left the room no, if they left the building probably not, if they left the neighborhood maybe (and now thanks to skittles I will be watchful for the opportunity to send prank e-mails!)

bathroom - I wouldn't snoop but I am observant, ya know? and if they were out of tp or something I would look in cupboards for more

who stashes incriminating things in the glove compartment? stupid

phones - it has been so long since I would have even had the "need" to do this. These days I have to show him how to use the damn thing

sheets? nah

regretful snooping? never really done it - have had it done to me. I guess I'm not the suspicious type and I generally respect other people's privacy. Add to that fear of getting caught and I pretty much leave other peoples' things alone

[Withywindle]

73. I think what snooping in relationships comes down to for me is...

...are you willing to violate someone else's trust in order to find out if your trust is being violated?


If you are, so be it, but regardless of what you find, you've lost the moral high ground.

[trof]

74. All 5 'no'. Bonus question:

I found my Christmas present stash when I was a little kid which led to my mom's explanation as to how there wasn't an actual, physical Santa Claus.
I wished I hadn't found them.
:-(

[GOPisEvil]

75. Five "no" answers for me.

I'm not really much of a snoop. My mom was a big snoop, and it drive me nuts, so I refuse to do that to the people in my life.

[SalmonChantedEvening]

77. No no no no and no n/t

[MichiganVote]

78. No to all. Check the sheets? Gross.

[grannylib]

79. No x 5; nothing I can think of

[tismyself]

83. here goes

1) If you were a guest in someone's home and they left the room with their computer on and email open, would you snoop through their email?

No, I'd have a heart attack.

2) If you were visiting a neighbor and had to use the bathroom, would you snoop through their medicine cabinet?

Bleah. No.

3) Have you ever dug through the glove compartment of someone you were romantically tied to, to see if that person had stashed something that he or she did not want you to see?

No, but only because whatever might have been in the glovebox surely could not have been worse than what was out in the open.

4) Have you ever hit redial on the phone to see who your SO called last?

I don't have a redial button and don't know what an SO is. Oh wait, gawd, I get it. The last real SO I had was before buttons were on phones... and the InSO's, well.

5) Have you ever checked the sheets?

For spiders and to see if the cats have left any surprises like the mouse I found two weeks ago! That was special.

Bonus question: What kind of snooping have you done that you wish you never had?

None. I'm boring that way.

[WinkyDink]

85. No to all. Bonus: I eavesdropped on my "best friend" as she mocked me to a large group.

That ended that.