Speaking of snooping... my ex snooped through my phone.

[redqueen]

And now he's started harrassing my best friend, too. I'm sure he doesn't harrass them as intensely as he does me (150 calls over the weekend, at least), but still.

Never trust your ex around anything you own if they're a manipulating, lying, crazy-in-a-bad-way asshole, like mine is.

*sigh*

[IndianaJones]

1. do you have a restraining order? nt.

[redqueen]

4. No.

[bicentennial_baby]

2. 150 calls?!

:wtf:

I'm sorry babe :hug:

:loveya:

[redqueen]

5. Around that.

He has 'episodes'. :crazy:

It's all right... I've been through worse... gets better every day.

Thanks... and congrats to you and sniffa. :hug:

[bicentennial_baby]

10. I used to have an Ex like that...

:hug:

And thank you so much, my dear friend... :hug:

:loveya:

[QueenOfCalifornia]

3. This goes

beyond harassing it is indicative of dangerous stalking behavior. I urge you to make out a police report and get an order of protection.

Were you married?

:pals:

[redqueen]

7. We still are.

Separated just over a year now. Long story.

Thanks.

[DS1]

6. W#Y WONT U JSUT ANSWER!

[redqueen]

9. YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THE KIDS! YOU'RE A LIAR!

YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL! I LOVE YOU! I'LL DO WHATEVER I HAVE TO DO TO WIN YOU BACK!

:hide:

[NewJeffCT]

8. can you block his calls?

sorry you have to put up with that.

[redqueen]

11. I just don't answer.

There's a chance it could be the kids, so I just check the voice mails if there is one. Sometimes I listen even when it's his voice on there... but usually that's a mistake cause it's just more crazy drama queen bullshit.

[QueenOfCalifornia]

12. Does this sick fuck

have your kids?????

[redqueen]

13. Yes we share custody.

And although he does have these 'episodes', he's not a bad father. He's far from perfect, but he loves them and coddles / spoils them.

[NewJeffCT]

16. I couldn't imagine

being that obsessed with somebody that I'd call them 150 times in a weekend. You'd think after the first 50-60 times of not talking to you, it would start to sink in...

[Bake]

14. Not to be nosey or anything (we ARE talking about snooping, though)

But if he's your EX, how the crap did he get access to your phone to be snooping around in it in the first place?

:hi:

Bake

[redqueen]

15. I don't know when he did it.

I was careless and left it out. It could have been when he picked the kids up one time... or who knows when.

Lesson learned.