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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 03:57 PM Original message |
At what age should small children be given privacy at bath-time? |
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evlbstrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. From birth. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 03:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Hahahah! |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
3. When they start showing interest in thier privacy and can be trusted not to destroy anything. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:04 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. HEH! I know an 21 yr. old guy who can't be trusted to destroy |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:05 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. I was thinking of LeftyKid's former habit of splashing and flooding the bathroom. |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:09 PM Original message |
How old is leftykid? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
11. 7 in April. |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:17 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. I think that's why we have to supervise the Kubelik Kid baths |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Ahh-so. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. My sister's husband almost divorced her over her |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
4. Well before age 6 , I would think. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. I think it depends on the age of the child. I was about |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
10. An adult taking a bath with a child seems creepy at any age. |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:16 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. When Kubelik Kid was a baby |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:18 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Yeah, good point there. |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. At least in this culture... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:55 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. I was wondering about cultures with less access to a large amount of clean |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:07 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. That would seem acceptable in other cultures, for sure. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:50 PM Response to Reply #15 |
26. That depends on if Kubelik kid is an exotic child. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:31 PM Response to Reply #10 |
22. I took baths with my kids when they were babies and toddlers. My mom took baths with us |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 08:48 PM Response to Reply #22 |
33. Babies and toddlers ok. How old were you when your Mom |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 09:03 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. I can remember taking a bath with her when I was 3ish I think. After that my bro and I |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 09:42 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. we had a double tub with water jets when my kids were little and I bathed with the kids |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 06:52 AM Response to Reply #39 |
49. Not weird at all. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
25. Deleted message |
Sheets of Easter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
31. Eww.That's as bad as dropping a deuce in your garden, |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 08:47 PM Response to Reply #25 |
32. Yeah, I guess I'm thinking of older children and adults that aren't |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 08:22 AM Response to Reply #32 |
52. What difference does that make? If the adults are |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:14 AM Response to Reply #52 |
55. Ok... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:19 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. I agree on that, |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 11:32 PM Response to Reply #10 |
46. I guess my childhood was creepy then. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 06:55 AM Response to Reply #46 |
50. LOL |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:26 AM Response to Reply #10 |
58. When my tike was little (less than 1 1/2) I'd get in the tub with him. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
16. I stopped bathing my eldest two together when she was 4 and he was 2. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
17. In my experience, they'll let you know. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
18. when they are old enough to be safe in the tub, I guess |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 11:37 PM Response to Reply #18 |
48. That's what I think... |
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Pied Piper (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
21. Funny story... |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
23. My youngest is 8 and I still bathe him but we are transitioning to him showering |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:54 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Cool. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 11:26 PM Response to Reply #23 |
44. My mother maintained the "check behind your ears" system until she was convinced that we knew enough |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
24. It was about five with my son. |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
28. When they start asking you to leave. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 06:45 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. that's what I found with my daughter |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
30. my kids will never bathe together |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
34. No real advice but |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 09:09 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. and so the sibling rivalry begins |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
36. Depends on the kid I guess |
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ileus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
38. we stopped our boy and girl at 3b and 5g, As for showers with us |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
40. I refer you to Scandinavian ethics regarding same, still... |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 10:22 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. Nine? Wow. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
42. Dropkid is 7 1/2 |
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Boudica the Lyoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
43. How about this |
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PaddyBlueEyes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 11:34 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Man thats a tough one |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-16-08 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
45. I never really thought about it. |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #45 |
54. My daughter and I still check the temp of the water for my granddaughter too. |
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RedShoes (658 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
51. When I was a little girl, I used to take a shower with my dad all the time |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
53. I think when they ask or act as if you're intruding. |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
56. My sister was so proud of her five year-old son for showering alone... |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:33 AM Response to Original message |
59. In my household, I left the kids to their own devices when they became |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
60. I don't think it's a good idea to leave small children in a bathtub alone |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
61. Our son is eight years old. For the most part, he |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:43 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. I appreciate your post |
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ElsewheresDaughter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-17-08 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
63. around age 5 or 6 |
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