OK, I know half of you either don't know me or don't remember me, but can I get some vibes anyway?

[belladonna]

I go to court tomorrow for the so-called "permanent" protective order on my ex and, of course, this is the first time I've seen him since the incident that brought about the protective order in the first place. I'm all jittery and nervous and sooo not looking forward to dealing with it. I guess it'll be good to get it done and over with, but I just can't stand the thought of being in the same area code, much less the same room as him right now. So anyway, a few vibes would be appreciated to get me through... can you guys spare a few????

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

1. Vibes for you.

Hang in there.

[flvegan]

2. I could never forget you.

All the spare vibes I have --------> you.

[belladonna]

15. Nor could I ever forget you

Thanks sweetie!! How it's going??

[bigwillq]

3. Sending out my best vibes.

Hope all goes well. :hug:


:hi:

[belladonna]

17. Thanks sweetie

I have no doubt that it'll all go fine.. just don't particularly want to deal with him in any setting at all at the moment.

[NewEnglandGirl]

4. That's a scary thing

sending out hugs and safe thoughts to you. :hug:

[Fran Kubelik]

5. Oh man

:hug:

[supernova]

6. You got it, belladonna

:hug: nice to see you again. :hi:

Keep your chin up. It will be worth it to have it done with.

[belladonna]

18. Nice to see you too!!

It's been waay too long, eh?? How are things in your world??

[Gormy Cuss]

7. Vibes for you.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

8. My dear belladonna!

Of course, sweetie...

Vibes for you!

You will be fine...

I hope he will disappear from your life for good!

:hug: :hug:

[belladonna]

19. Thanks CP

Not much hope of him disappearing altogeter since we do have a 10-month-old child together, but we'll deal with that part later on. I'll settle for him staying away from me until we settle some sort of visitation arrangement eventually... makes my head hurt thinking about it, but it'll be dealt with.

[ThomCat]

9. You definitely have all the vibes i can send you.

:hug:

I hope it all goes well. Please, please be well. Stay calm. I hope your lawyer kicks his ass!

[belladonna]

20. Thanks, Thom

I'm sure I'll be fine once I'm there... it's more the thinking about it and anticipation of seeing him again that's making me all jittery.

[Haole Girl]

10. Of course!

I remember you, belladonna! I'm sending good vibes and hugs your way!! :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Inchworm]

11. I love you Belladonna

I hope all works to your advantage.

:hug:

On another note.. I've made tea out of you and discussed the best way to optimize hustling. I was young lolz.

another :hug:

[DebJ]

12. Love and hugs. Hope it goes well, and the judge is sane....

better yet, a woman judge!

[belladonna]

24. Heh, the judge seemed okay when I went for to extend the temporary one

He actually seemed kind of happy that I wasn't there asking them to drop charges or some such thing and that I was actually going through with the whole thing... guess he sees the opposite a little too often for his liking.

[Pale Blue Dot]

13. Hey, belladonna.

It's great to see you again. I hope everything works out for you.

SarahBelle and I have been married for a year and a half, and that's due at least partly to your other "project". While it may hold bad memories for you now, it worked out OK for some of us. Thank you.

[belladonna]

25. Thanks sweetie!!

And I'm SO glad my old site got the two of you together!!!

There might be a few bad memories there, but mostly it was a fun time and I had some good times over there. The bonus was you two hooking up and being so happy together :D

[callous taoboy]

14. Good vibes, Bella.

[kat_kringle]

16. it's done. :) n/t

[stuntcat]

21. *vibes* for tomorrow

My memory's so crappy I have a hard time remembering anyone here, but I sure do like your name! :headbang: I don't forget belladonna.

I hope tomorrow goes easy and peaceful.

[Swede]

22. I remember you.

Vibes going your way.

[Midlodemocrat]

23. Fuck him. Love ya, doll.

:loveya:

[belladonna]

27. That was my FIRST mistake

:D

Nah, if I hadn't, I wouldn't have THIS....




She makes all this crap more bearable

Oh, and love ya too :loveya:

[Wapsie B]

26. Good vibes on the way.

[belladonna]

28. Thanks everyone!!

I wanted to reply to everyone, but I do have to go to work early in the morning so that I can leave early for court, so I have to call it a night and hit the hay. Thanks to everyone who sent those special DU vibes :hug:

[applegrove]

29. Vibes. You'll be okay. You have what you need in that protection order.

[redqueen]

30. *sends vibes*

Good luck bella...

[plcdude]

31. I remember you

hope all goes well tomorrow. What have you been doing? What has happended with you and your husband? Now, of course, you don't have to answer that but you can pm if you want. Do you still have the other website ;)

[RFKHumphreyObama]

32. I remember you well

And I am so sorry to hear that you are in this situation:hug: My thoughts, prayers, positive vibes best wishes and whatever else good I can extend to you:hug: :hug:

[bicentennial_baby]

33. Oh no! I missed this!!

x(

Love you so babe :loveya:

:hug: