Have you ever taken someone back that cheated on you?

[LostInAnomie]

As a general rule I haven't, but I don't know what I would do if the circumstances were right.

What about you?

[redqueen]

1. Yup.

Shouldn't have in my case...

[Pierre.Suave]

2. No

[Maddy McCall]

3. I suspected he was...I didn't know.

When I found out that he was...it made it that much easier to leave a bad relationship.

[Q3JR4]

4. No.

If a SO ever decided to cheat on me, we'd be through.

Trust is a big thing in a relationship. I'd never be able to have that with the individual again.

Q3JR4.

[harmonicon]

5. kinda sorta

It was a bad situation. My feelings were that this girl was my girlfriend. He feeling was that even though she and I hung out all of the time, talked on the phone every day, held hands in public, and slept together, we weren't really a couple, because she didn't call me her boyfriend, so that gave her carte blanche to sleep around. Man, now I think it's all kind of funny, but that relationship fucked me up for years afterward, and it didn't even last all of that long.

[LeftyMom]

6. No way.

If somebody's willing to take that kind of gamble with the relationship, my emotions and my health, for my own emotional health and safety I really can't subject myself to that.

Also, I don't think cheaters reform frequently enough for it to be a good gamble.

[SeattleGirl]

7. Yes, and it was a huge mistake.

Prolly wouldn't do that again.

[mcctatas]

8. Yes...

of course, if he had been emotionally involved (even without the physical stuff) I never would have, but a one night stand on vacation? It didn't really even piss me off, and 14 years later, we are still together and I still don't care :shrug:

[SKKY]

9. Nope, nor would I.

As a guy, I know I would never get that one question out of my mind.

[Care]

10. Is This An Anti-Hillary Clinton Question

If it is, I don't like it. If it's not, then OK.

[liberaltrucker]

11. Not sure, but I pray LTwife would

:shrug:

[Withywindle]

12. Depends on the circumstances.

I frankly don't care that much what he does with his dick during the many hours a day I'm not using it, but it's LYING I won't tolerate. It's not about sex. It's about communication.