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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 12:29 PM
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I resent the presence of men in my women's gym.
They're personal trainers. I get it. But it's a women's gym. I don't want men in that place. It's not up to me, and there's no sign on the door that says "WOMEN ONLY."

My irrational mind tells these women, "If you want a male trainer, go to a co-ed gym."

I don't hate, nor am I afraid of, men. Just get out of my gym, fellas. Ya bug me.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 12:31 PM
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1. I would find that rather off putting myself.
:hi:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 12:33 PM
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2. Me too. I would feel very self-conscious and unlikely to come back again
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:41 PM
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3. it sucks.
it's rare, but when it happens, like today, it sucks.
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Common Sense Party Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:45 PM
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4. I don't like guys in my gym, either. And I'm a guy.
Actually, I just don't like sweating near other sweaty strangers.

That's why I'm happy to report I picked up a Bowflex machine last month for $200. Now my wife and I can each work out whenever we want, I never have to wait for a machine, and I can look how I want to look.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:47 PM
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6. Great buy!
:hi:
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Common Sense Party Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 06:04 PM
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11. Yup. We were very happy. I've wanted one for a long time,
but I wasn't going to shell out $800 or more.

Between the bowflex, jogging in place on our mini-tramp, and kicking the bag, I can now do a great workout here in the basement, and I don't have to drive to the gym, and I get to listen to what I want.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:46 PM
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5. I wouldn't like that either...
kudos to you for going to the gym though. You're more dedicated than I am.

aA
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:49 PM
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8. Kesha, I have no idea what's getting me there.
I know why I'm going: because I don't want to die before my niece gets it together. Because I don't want to die at age 45, or 50, or 60, etc.

But I don't know what's getting me there. I never want to go. I just don't want to go. but I go. I resent the hell out of it, but I go.

Today was BAD because of the guy that was there. I REALLY resented it. But i was there.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:54 PM
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9. It's YOU taking control
of YOU.

:loveya:

I know I should exercise but I haven't had the energy. I'm hoping that will change with the Iron Infusions I'm getting and the increase in vitamin/mineral supplements. My mind has big ideas, by body doesn't cooperate :shrug:

Trying to get myself out of a funk. At least I do go for a walk at night. It's something.

:hug:

kesha
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:58 PM
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10. Good for walking!
I'm proud of you. :hug:
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-01-08 05:49 PM
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7. I hear ya
This locker room pep talk is for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnY8BCCoFBU
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