Cute black guy.

[ccharles000]

I was in food lion today and saw a cute black guy. I was in the area where they have cake mix and crackers. He was so hot that I wasted 4 minutes staring at him.

[HEyHEY]

1. You shoulda pinched his ass.

[ccharles000]

3. God no.

I am not that brave. And what if he is not gay. I refuse to let myself possibly get gay bashed.

[billyskank]

4. Stealing is wrong.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

2. this is a weird way to phrase it. i have heard you speaking of other guys before

and this is the first time you have specified race

white as assumed normality bothers me.

[HEyHEY]

5. Yo would think that, non-white minority person

:eyes: :P

[La Lioness Priyanka]

7. shut up straight white boy. what do you know of us oppressed minorities. nothing.

nothing i say. :P :P

[HEyHEY]

9. Hey, I AM a minority in my city - and I'm sick of being hassled by the man!

[La Lioness Priyanka]

10. who is the man?

[HEyHEY]

12. The jerk that runs my tenants board

:-(

[La Lioness Priyanka]

14. ahh. the asian majority in your tenant board?

[ccharles000]

6. I am just being descriptive.

If he was a white guy I would say I saw a cute white guy.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

8. look, i dont want to deride you because you are a very sweet boy

but look through your past posts about guys (i just did), and never before have you mentioned race.

we all at some point do this, but its best to be aware that we are doing it.

with this, i am going to end the back and forth cos i like you and i dont want a flamewar.

[ccharles000]

11. ...

I will try to catch myself in the future.:hug:

[NewJeffCT]

15. That bothers me as well, believe it or not

and I'm white...

I even remember way back to my high school and those "superlatives" they have in the high school yearbook - Most Likely to Succeed, Best Athlete, etc. The year after I graduated, a black girl won for "Best Physique" and I remember a guy saying, "she has a nice body for a black girl," and I responded in one of my rare moments of non-shyness as a teenager back in the Dark Ages with something like, "Well, since she won for the whole class, doesn't that mean she just has a nice body, no matter her race?" (There were probably no more than 10 African American students in my small high school of 400-450 students, and maybe another 10 non-white students, total.)

Granted, I don't think the OP meant it like that, but it is something I do notice.

[billyskank]

16. Ok but don't all jump on him

He already said mea culpa.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

17. wow that was gutsy of you and i do agree that the OP did not mean it that way

at all.

[NewJeffCT]

18. sorry

didn't see the mea culpa - need to read the thread through.

and, i hope you were being sarcastic about being gutsy

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

13. I wanna know what Food Lion it was LOL

PM me!

[supernova]

19. LOL

:D