Lounge Vibes needed desperately.

[Jamastiene]

I've been trying my best to hold up, but I feel a melancholy washing over my the likes of which I haven't seen since the early 90s. I'll be lucky to make it through this. :cry:

[Haole Girl]

1. First of all,

I'm sending vibes..



and hugs...

:hug: :hug: :hug:

Now, if you truly feel like you may not make it through it,
please talk with someone. Someone you can trust.
(and I don't mean online)

Please be well & take care of yourself!

Know there are people who care about you

and love you. :hug:

[medicswife]

13. Good and Proper vibes!!!!

Keep your chin up! You can make it through.

[LaurenG]

2. I have vibes for you and I'm sending them now.

:hug:

[UndertheOcean]

3. I know how you feel

sorry.

[helderheid]

4. Loving vibes coming your way. I am so sorry you're feeling sucked in.

Anything in particular set this off you feel comfortable sharing?

[flvegan]

5. You got 'em.

:hug:

[SalmonChantedEvening]

6. Vibes of strength and love Jamastiene

:hug: :loveya: :pals:

[Danger Mouse]

7. You will make it through this, damn right you will make it through this.

Don't you dare give up the fight.
:hug: and vibes and love are yours.

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

8. You are going to make it through it !

:)

[lost-in-nj]

9. calming vibes

and some hugs

:hug: :hug:

going out to you sweety......


lost

[bigwillq]

10. Sending out my best vibes.

Good Luck. :hug:

[Writer]

11. As someone who's experiencing some bad moments, too, hang in there.

We're all behind you. :hug:

[snacker]

12. Sending you strength and good vibes.

Everyone needs them at one time or another.

[KayLaw]

14. One day at a time.

Sundays are the worst for me. I feel depressed every single Sunday. Maybe you will feel better tomorrow. Don't let whatever is troubling you to keep you awake. Make your bed a "no worrying" zone. It can't help your situation to lie awake thinking negative thoughts, so banish them. You can worry and feel sad during the day, when you are rested and able to make good decisions.

You need to be gentle with yourself and give yourself mental treats. I do this by looking at pictures of the places we vacation. Strange, but when I look at the pictures, I feel the same sensations I get actually being on vacation. You can do that with anything - escapist novels, meditation, movies, it doesn't matter - just give yourself a break.

You are not alone. These are hard times for most of us.

[Wetzelbill]

15. I'm down with some vibes

Take care of yourself, I need you for my Mob!!!! :)

I often feel melancholy, I say start with the little things. Every single day wake up and have something to look forward too, however small or big that might be. It might be sitting down and relaxing with a morning cup of coffee for 5 minutes, something seemingly small like that, but always have something to look forward to. Those little moments of happiness will keep you sane, even in the toughest of times. :)

[LeftyFingerPop]

16. You got 'em...and

you'll be alright..:hug:

[billyskank]

17. What's up??

:hug:

[crim son]

18. Do yourself a tremendous favor and don't assume

it's going to be as bad as you fear because this could become an otherwise avoidable self-fulfilling prophecy. I completely understand how you feel and will light a candle and send vibes, but you, you must take action yourself before the mood gets a firm hold. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[mnhtnbb]

19. Good vibes coming your way from Chapel Hill. There IS a future

and although things may look pretty bleak now, remember that things can/do/will change for the better.

We're all here for you. But please do find someone you know and trust to talk to.

:hug:

[Tuesday Afternoon]

20. ~

:hug:

[Jamastiene]

21. Thank you, everybody.

I feel much better now than I did earlier. These Lounge Vibes are legendary. I am able to listen to at least some of my music now without bursting out into tears. Maybe, I'll survive yet.

I've had a big disappointment in life happen recently.
I can't really give too many details, but I can say 17 years and 9 months of believing in and trusting someone I shouldn't have ever believed in or trusted really is heartbreaking. I will treasure these Lounge Vibes like nothing y'all can possibly imagine. I needed them so bad. It's love from people with compassion that will save humanity from itself, imho. I'm honored to be a part of the DU Lounge community.

[RevolutionaryActs]

22. ....

:hug::loveya:

[elshiva]

23. Honey, that's terrible. :(

I am so sorry for you. ((((((((((((Jamastiene)))))))))))))))))))))0
:hug: :hug:

[applegrove]

26. You are going through huge loss right now. You have to go through all the stages. Then you'll

come out the other side all hopeful again. I promise.

[ThomCat]

24. Please hold on tight.

Even if you have to just go through the motions of things for a bit to keep going, please do it until some of the depression passes. :hug:

Even if it seems like nothing matters and nothing is worth carying about, please know intellectually that it's not true even if emotionally you don't believe it.

A lot of us here care about you. So even if you don't feel any care inside of yourself trying to get out, please try to feel the care out here trying to get in. Hopefully that will help. :hug:

[blueraven95]

25. sending vibes your way

:hug:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

27. hugs and kisses

[NJmaverick]

28. Sending vibes your way and hoping you are getting more help

than just the lounge:hi: :hug:

[racaulk]

29. ...

:hug:

Nothing but positive vibes and love for you, Jamastiene. I hope you are able to make it through the hurt you are suffering. :pals: