Beer Snob-50
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:14 AM
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| soooooooooo am i in trouble |
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tommorrow is my 19th wedding anniversary. we are going to martha's vineyard for the day on friday in honor of the occassion. a couple of days ago, i bought tix for a beer dinner for myself and a buddy for tommorrow night. i totally zoned on the date.
flowers and a nice card help?
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| undeterred
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:16 AM
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:17 AM
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| auntAgonist
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:17 AM
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| 2. you are sooooooooo in trouble. |
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give the tickets to someone else. Take the flowers and the nice card and present them to your wife. Enjoy the evening at home and then have a wonderful time at Martha's Vineyard. Don't spoil it. Have a happy anniversary.
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| TZ
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:20 AM
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Flowers, a card, chocolates...I think you REALLY need to umm come through big time here. You ARE in big trouble dude....
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| Mutley
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:24 AM
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| 5. Do not go to the beer dinner. |
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You will regret it if you do.
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| dembotoz
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Tue Sep-23-08 10:47 AM
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| 6. unless you plan to sleep with your buddy...... |
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i think you know what you need to do.....
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| Beer Snob-50
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Tue Sep-23-08 11:21 AM
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| 7. thanks for all the advice.. |
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i was hoping to hear, "Pirate, go to the beer dinner. It is not a major anniversary. Go enjoy yourself. She'll understand!"
but i think everyone is correct here.
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| Richardo
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Tue Sep-23-08 11:30 AM
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| 8. Having had 18 anniversaries I can tell you that there is no major/minor ranking |
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...and I think you know that ;-)
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| av8rdave
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Tue Sep-23-08 11:32 AM
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| 9. You're toast. The fallout is inevitable. |
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Buying flowers/card is an expensive proposition with no oversight, dubious benefit, and serves only to prolong the ultimate reckoning.
Hey, I'm just the messenger!
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| Faygo Kid
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Tue Sep-23-08 11:37 AM
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| 10. You're fine. In no worse trouble than the economy right now . . . oh wait . . . |
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Tue Sep-23-08 11:51 AM
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| 11. Why not discuss it with her? |
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My suggestion would be to discuss it with her and see how she honestly feels about it. Of course, make sure you acknowledge your anniversary ON your anniversary(card and flowers if that's what she likes would be nice) but since you already have plans to celebrate it on Friday, maybe it won't be that big of a deal.
FWIW, I'm a female and have been married 34 yrs.
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