Dumper or Dumpee: Which is easier?

[Jack_Dawson]

If you're the dumper, you get to pull the chute first, but can also be wracked with guilt and second-guessing.

If you're the dumpee, you don't get a say in things, but righteous indignation and victimhood can go a long way.

[POed_Ex_Repub]

1. Dumper, the one time I did it, actually felt kinda good

Of course, it helped that she'd cheated on me. :mad:

[Wickerman]

2. I married my high school sweetheart

but 20 years later - both being dumped and the dumper a few times. It all sucks. Sometimes I think they had the right idea when they arranged marriages - unless you get it right the first time. :)

[NightTrain]

3. Dumper; by a wide margin!

Sure, you feel rotten about it at first, but you get over it pretty quickly. Unfortunately, you can't say the same about the poor dumpee.

[ewagner]

4. Think it depends on the circumstances

being a surprise dumpee is no fun.....

but then again, leaving a long relationship isn't easy either.

[HEyHEY]

5. Idon't know

I wanna say dumppe...but I'm too petty for that.