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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 08:46 PM Original message |
shit, things are very seriously not ok |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'm sorry, man. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. anything that helped you cope or move on? |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:22 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Just to try and fill your days with stuff to keep you busy. |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
2. I don't really know what to say, either. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. thanks |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:14 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. You ain't so alone |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
4. I have no words to help |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
6. Here's what I have for you: |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:20 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. I know - it seems really hard though |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:20 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. Very good advice |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:24 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. Most def |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm sorry that happened. Maybe it's |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:24 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. I wish it were that easy |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
12. Being so far apart is hard on a relationship. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:13 AM Response to Reply #12 |
39. Excellent advice. For everyone. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
13. We're here for you, buddy. Just talk to us. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:32 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. I would move if I could |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:47 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I'm in that over-educated for the marketplace situation, too. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:58 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I'm studying music |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:18 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Probably best to not call anyone mutual now. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:52 PM Response to Reply #26 |
29. I know I probably shouldn't call anyone mutual |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 11:22 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Comfort and stability are definitely not things to thumb your nose at. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. well, it sounds like you've made some good choices for yourself |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
16. that's terrible, i don't know what to say |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:40 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. the counseling idea would be for when we are in the same place |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:56 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. i think you should concentrate on your school frankly |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:02 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. no, I think she does understand |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
20. I'm sorry, harmonicon |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
21. If she'll go to counseling with you, it's worth a try |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:06 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I hope I get a chance to try |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 09:40 AM Response to Reply #25 |
56. please my friend don't call, don't email, and put away the booze |
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blueraven95 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
27. I have no advice |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:55 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. thanks |
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blueraven95 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 11:39 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. yeah, it sucks that the world of the internet |
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liberaltrucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:38 PM Response to Original message |
28. Been there, had it happen |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 10:56 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. no doobs here.... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
33. Deleted message |
Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 11:50 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. What does TTU mean? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-01-08 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
36. How does one live 8 time zones away from their girlfriend? LOL. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:03 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. California/England |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:42 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. I'm actually jealous that you travel so much. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:51 AM Response to Reply #42 |
46. you're very brave |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:41 AM Response to Reply #46 |
41. Deaths are stressful. They tend to be bad for relationships. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:55 AM Response to Reply #41 |
47. I'm sorry about your dad |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
40. is this the first time you've broken up with someone? (not counting that on month thing wih her)... |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:47 AM Response to Reply #40 |
44. no |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 03:09 AM Response to Reply #44 |
53. just asking, bud. the first cut is the deepest, you know? that's all... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 02:13 AM Response to Reply #40 |
50. don't be |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 02:42 AM Response to Reply #50 |
52. what? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 11:47 PM Response to Reply #52 |
64. Sorry, I did not mean to offend a popular person. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 09:45 AM Response to Reply #50 |
57. i didn't want to be the first to say that but... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-08 12:01 AM Response to Reply #57 |
65. Appreciated, but, |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
43. Shit, dude |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 02:01 AM Response to Reply #43 |
49. thanks |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:49 AM Response to Original message |
45. I'm sorry. I remember how hard it is -- |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 02:17 AM Response to Reply #45 |
51. thank you (and thanks to everyone else who has offered support) |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 01:59 AM Response to Original message |
48. Oh, ouch. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 04:27 PM Response to Reply #48 |
58. is that what I have to look forward to? feeling this way for years? |
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stewartcolbert08 (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 03:09 AM Response to Original message |
54. Sorry dude |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 04:28 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. thanks |
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stewartcolbert08 (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 11:28 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Thanks and thanks LOL |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 07:49 AM Response to Original message |
55. hang in there...good luck. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
60. It's good to go for therapy. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
61. So sorry. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-02-08 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
63. My perspective on relationships at this time is quite sour so I am not the best person to talk to... |
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