I don't want a boyfriend right now.

[ccharles000]

My cousin Dana keeps telling me she wants to find me a boyfriend. I keep telling her I am not ready and I would like to wait until I am less shy. Even if I let her hook me up with someone how would I know if she has a good taste in men she is a lesbian after all. All this thinking of boyfriends is making me lonely.:cry:

[supernova]

1. Awww,

:hug:

Finding someone to be in a relationship with is a tricky thing.

Just be yourself and get plenty of chances to get out and do things you enjoy.

I haven't found anybody either, but I am having fun. :-)

[ccharles000]

2. thanks

:hug:

[Parche]

3. i feel your pain

:hi: :hug:

[ccharles000]

4. ...

:hug:

[Mutley]

5. Don't let anyone pressure you into finding a relationship.

Just tell your cousin it'll happen when it's right. :hug:

[DarkTirade]

6. Don't rush it. Just be yourself and find people who like being around yourself. :)

Of course, this is coming from someone who's been single far longer than I'd like... :P

[BlueIris]

7. I don't really want one either. Unfortunately,

everyone around me seems to feel it's going to happen, like, tomorrow. Sigh.

[ThatsMyBarack]

8. I don't want a boyfriend right now, either!

After work and skating, I'm so tired all I wanna do is sit in front of the TV with my kittehz and DU/Pokemon/knitting/crocheting. :hi:

[Lucian]

9. I'm lonely too.

I'd like to have a gf right now.

Only you know when you're ready to have a bf. Until then, enjoy being single. You're young, so there's no reason to rush into anything.

And if you find a cure for shyness, pass it over to me please. :)

[HEyHEY]

10. "Less shy" doesn't happen without countless interactions that fail

Now get out there and get your heart shit on like the rest of us!

[harmonicon]

11. I want a girlfriend right now

but only one specific girl :(

[tjwmason]

12. Me neither

I value my own time and space far too much.

Also, with respect to your cousin, she can't find you a boy-friend - she can find you potential boy-friends, but the only person who can find an actual boy-friend is you.

If she comes bounding along saying she's found the perfect man for you, then why not meet up with him and see what he's like, see how it goes?

[Connonym]

13. :hugs:

Sometimes the hardest part about not having a partner is the lack of human touch. Even hugs help. You'll know when you're ready so don't rush. here's another :hug:

[REP]

14. Me neither

My husband would fucking kick his ass, plus we don't have the room.