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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:18 AM Original message |
A question for married people or those in long term relationships... |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:21 AM Response to Original message |
1. 4 or 5 days. nt. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:24 AM Response to Original message |
2. Sweetie and I don't fight. |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:16 AM Response to Reply #2 |
11. wow. |
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semillama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 04:29 PM Response to Reply #2 |
53. My wife and I don't fight either. |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
3. 10 minutes maybe |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 01:36 AM Response to Reply #3 |
66. Yep. Can't go DAYS, that's just nutz! n/t |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
4. MrsCoffee and I don't really fight |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
5. It's currently three days. |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #5 |
56. Dunno what you did (or what they did...) |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 05:20 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. I think it was his fault. |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 01:37 AM Response to Reply #56 |
67. OMG. We never go there. Not physical stuff. |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 07:45 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. He was a jackass, and we're divorced now. |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
6. A few days |
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AirmensMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:43 AM Response to Original message |
7. An hour or so ... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:29 AM Response to Reply #7 |
13. agreed. so awkward too. |
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Rosie1223 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
8. The silent treatment is a family tradition in my husband's family |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
9. Mine are kind of like a hurricane |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
10. An hour? Maybe less. We hardly fight anyway. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #10 |
57. yup, the classic 'that was *not* a tone of voice' fights |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
12. an hour maybe two. once we went to sleep after a fight. that was terrible. |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
14. a few minutes |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
15. We don't really fight. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:12 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. You need to learn to take criticism about the Cowboys betters |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
33. BWAHAHA! He's a Broncos fan. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. It's worse for us: Giants - Eagles |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:34 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Wow--marital discord within the same NFC division. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:42 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. I kinda was when I lived in NC (pre Panthers) |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:00 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. That's okay. I'm willing to overlook past transgressions. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. I was young, and often stoned |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:14 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Now THAT is the perfect excuse. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
16. I've never gone without speaking to him |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
17. Maybe a couple of hours! |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
18. i really can't think of a time that happened. Maybe a few minutes on my end |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
20. Used to be days |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
21. You are not speaking to Tony Romo? |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:44 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. Thats one person... |
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Gonzo Gardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
22. Over the years we have learned to recognize that we fight when we're tired or stressed |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:46 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Hi! |
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Gonzo Gardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #26 |
46. UGH... |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:15 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. Oh yeah! |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
23. he can go for days. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
25. We don't fight. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
27. Five minutes |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
28. A day, but |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
29. We ALWAYS talk... |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
30. My dear turtlensue... |
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WannaJumpMyScooter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
31. you mean we are supposed to talk? |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
32. An entire long weekend |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
34. A couple of hours at most |
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mokawanis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
35. A couple of days I guess |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
36. Only a few hours |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
38. About an hour. |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
41. My current spouse and I don't ever fight, |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
42. Haven't had a fight yet. |
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siligut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
44. We always talk, sometimes we just talk mean. |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
48. It just takes overnight, until she gets over it!! |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:19 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. So how long do you not speak.... |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 01:42 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. No effect. She just goes around saying "loser" for a couple of hours. |
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Greyskye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
52. Together for almost 10 years now. |
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Tikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
54. We made a deal that when we got mad at times.... |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
55. With my ex, I didn't speak to him for three days. |
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Genevieve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
58. We've been together for five years and we've never had a fight. |
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onlyadream (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
59. About 10 minutes... |
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grannylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
61. Not long. Maybe a few hours at most, and that's only happened |
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Jean Louise Finch (651 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
62. Never more than about half an hour |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-19-08 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
63. Not more than a year. |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 01:20 AM Response to Original message |
64. Never over 24 hours. |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 08:19 AM Response to Reply #64 |
72. I can relate to that! |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
65. I think our single longest has been a few hours... usually we resolve things within 1/2 hour, though |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 07:37 AM Response to Original message |
68. A few hours. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
70. We've never had a fight like that. |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 07:49 AM Response to Original message |
71. I always forget that I'm mad at him... |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
73. a couple of hours |
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Kierkegaard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
74. I've gone 13 years without talking to my ex wife. |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
75. A couple of hours, at the most. |
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raptor_rider (517 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
76. We do not actually fight |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
77. we don't actually not talk |
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Westegg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
78. 2 days. It's painful and awful... |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
79. we don't do that. We may have an argument, but I |
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littlebit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
80. The longest we ever went was |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
81. Indefinitely, if you kill them and bury them beside the railroad tracks |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
82. Around 15 minutes or so, enough to cool off a little. |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
83. About an Hour |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
84. We don't fight, either. Can't help. nt |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
85. Mrs. Carton and I have been married for 4 years... |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-20-08 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
86. maybe 15 minutes max? |
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