Lounge Vibes Please!!!!

[SPKrazy]

my friend is having surgery on her female parts tomorrow and it is expected to be a very painful recovery.

Please send her some lounge vibes, those patented ones you know that work, oh and maybe me a few too :)

:hi:


Thanks!


:hug:


:grouphug:

[lost-in-nj]

1. Hi SPK

:hug: for both of you :grouphug:

and I hope she heals quick with not so much pain.....

how are you feeling????


:hi: keep us informed of the progress.


lost

[SPKrazy]

9. thanks

I hope so too

I'm ok

will update!

:hug:

[Wapsie B]

2. Good vibes on the way.

[SPKrazy]

10. Thanks!

:hi:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

3. My dear Southpawkicker...

Good vibes to your friend!

May her recovery be swift and easier than she expects...

And here's some vibes for you too, sweetie...

:hug: :loveya: :hug:

[SPKrazy]

11. Thanks Peg!

:hug: :hug:


:loveya:

[Kajsa]

4. Good vibes, prayers and thoughts

to your friend.

I hope she has a speedy recovery.

And a bunch to you,too.

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

12. Thanks mucho!

:hug: :hug:

[I Have A Dream]

5. Happy to help you both! nt

[SPKrazy]

13. Thanks!

:hi:

[UndertheOcean]

6. vibes to both of you , good ones

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

14. Thanks UtO!

:hug:

[SalmonChantedEvening]

7. Heaps of vibes SPK

For the both of you :grouphug: :loveya:

[SPKrazy]

15. Thanks a lot

:hug:

[Rhiannon12866]

8. My sympathies to your friend, my friend...

I've been there and done that and it's no picnic. I had three surgeries in seven years until the last one finally worked. I'm fine now, but it was a long hard road and I wish much better luck to your friend. I was fortunate to find a wonderful surgeon at a teaching hospital, where they had experience with what ailed me, but it was still tough. Let your friend know that I'll be thinking of her and wishing her a speedier recovery than I had. I also highly recommend Percocet for pain, after discharge. It made me see things crouching in corners, but I knew it was just the meds and it really made a difference. Your friend is very fortunate to have you in her corner and please give her a hug from me...

Rhiannon:hug:

[SPKrazy]

16. Rather be me crouching in the corner!

thanks!

:hug:

:hi:

[Rhiannon12866]

17. I don't blame you. If I knew what I'd be facing, I'd have hidden in the corner, too...

That's why support when facing surgery is so important. It's very frightening. I was fortunate to have a lot of support, my good friend drove me numerous times and three friends of mine drove all the way to Boston, twice, to visit me. Even my business friends, my contacts from the commercial networks who I spoke to everyday, sent me things and one even called me. I worried later about our conversation, LOL, since I was still on morphine... But, even so, I never felt so alone in my life.:scared:

One unusual thing was that a lot of the support I received, especially considering the kind of surgery I was facing which was embarrassing and even kind of creeped me out, came from males. My friend who drove me was a guy, stood by me through all three surgeries, unlike even my mother, my favorite publicist from CBS who called me (who I later found out was facing a liver transplant) was male, and my two bosses at the time were both male and couldn't have been more supportive or understanding. The female boss that I acquired later was both dismissive and couldn't have been more unpleasant. Strange...:shrug:

So your friend is very fortunate to have you. Tell her, from me, that if I can do this, anyone can. I'm not the least bit squeamish when it comes to helping other people, moved in with my SO for the first time when he was facing surgery and I was willing to do anything that he needed. I understood how he felt... But when it comes to me, I'm scared to death.;(

Good luck to your friend and let us know how she is. If anyone will be supportive and send all the positive vibes that they've got, it's the compassionate folks on DU...:-)

Rhiannon:grouphug:

[SPKrazy]

21. Thanks friend!

She did well. She is back home at her parents. I drove her here. I have to leave but will be back Wed. :hug:

[Rhiannon12866]

26. So glad to hear this, my friend!

I had a feeling that she'd do well. And kudos to you for being such a wonderful friend...

Rhiannon:yourock:

[SeattleGirl]

18. Hey Bro!

Having female parts myself, my sympathies to your friend, and a boatload of good vibes.

And some for you too. :hug:

[cwydro]

19. Sunshine and vibes to you and your friend.

Er, that sounds painful...

[applegrove]

20. Vibes to your friends.

[FloridaJudy]

22. You've got 'em.

Good vibes on their way.

[mvd]

23. Sending good vibes your way

Hoping all goes well! :grouphug:

[Flaxbee]

24. yikes. Made me cringe just to read that. She has all my good

vibes for successful surgery and painless healing going her way!

[SPKrazy]

25. **** UPDATE*** GOOD NEWS

Surgery went well...

Will be a slow recovery, but pain meds are working....


Took her home to her parents house to recoup a few days...

[CaliforniaPeggy]

27. That is good news!

I'm so glad her pain meds are working too!

Thanks for the update...

:hug: