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phusion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:27 PM
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So I called in sick to work today
but I'll admit I don't feel sick, I just needed a day away from that place...

Now I feel guilty. Should I?
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:28 PM
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1. Guilt? Sounds like you need a mental health day off tomorrow.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:49 PM
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6. Go nuts. Take the whole week.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:29 PM
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2. I have no opinion on what you should or should not feel.
Emotions just are what they are. Even if you feel guilty, it does not mean the guilt is justified. The reverse is also true.
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mokawanis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:37 PM
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3. Don't feel guilty
Your guilt serves no useful purpose in this instance. Talk yourself out of the guilt and enjoy the freedom from work you have today.
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phusion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:38 PM
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4. thanks...
I feel like a conditioned slave to the man sometimes...Of course I'm supposed to feel guilty!
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Sequoia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:45 PM
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5. Heck, no way Jose! Your brain needs sick days too.
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hamsterjill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 04:53 PM
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7. Nah!!!
I did it last week!!

Sometimes we just need a mental health day, don't we?
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Initech Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 05:06 PM
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8. Just use this excuse: Religious holiday. "The Feast Of Maximum Occupancy".
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meow2u3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 05:49 PM
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9. Don't use up your sick days so fast
Otherwise, you'll have to call in dead :evilgrin:
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TommyO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 06:11 PM
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10. If you needed a day away, that mean's you're sick of the place
No guilt involved. I did it frequently when I hated the job I was in, now it's extremely rare that I call out sick, it actually means I'm physically ill when I do it now.


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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-08 06:29 PM
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11. Well, it's too late for today.....
Better take at least one more day off and enjoy it.

mark
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machI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-08 06:38 AM
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12. Feel guilty about taking a sick day? Take another sick day to make up for it
Tell your boss that you feel really bad.
Don't tell your boss you have the '3 beers short of a case' disease and need to sleep it off.
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-08 06:52 AM
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13. Absolutely not!
Do not feel guilty about taking a day off. I'll do that from time to time. We need time to just step back and recoup.

Wishing you a great day!

:hug:
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mwooldri Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-08 07:52 AM
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14. No. You're not "physically sick" ... but...
you definitely need a "mental health day" if you're "sick" of the place.

Eventually if you drag yourself in day after day, continually being sick of the place you're going to end up paying physically as well as mentally. You'd have all the ingredients for a mental breakdown.

Not everyone ends up at a job they absolutely love going to day in, day out. My aunt happens to be one of them - she started at the same place at 15, she's now 50. She only takes days off when she really is sick herself, or if gran is sick (or when granddad was real sick).

Me? On balance I like my job but there are those days... plus I have mental health issues anyway.

Mark.
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-08 08:27 AM
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15. I feel guilty when I call out too.
But mostly because I can't stop thinking about what bill might not get paid because of the time I missed.
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