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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:21 PM
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What is a nice gift to give to a couple who have invited you over for dinner. I don't
feel like buying them wine. Any ideas? Fridge magnets?
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:22 PM
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1. This
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:24 PM
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6. Oh you're bad LOL!
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:22 PM
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2. Fancy olive oil?
:shrug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:24 PM
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8. That is a great idea.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:22 PM
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3. Flowers or a houseplant?
Or maybe some pretty coasters.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:26 PM
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9. Too cold for plants and flowers where I live right now. But coasters are a good idea.
Maybe I should do what my mother did and have a drawer full of gifts that I can just pick from when the occasion arrises. She worked full time and had 4 kids. That is how she gave gifts. My friends thought it was hillarious. I guess it is.

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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:23 PM
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4. A loaf of Snitzer's Marble Rye bread.
nt
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:23 PM
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5.  A box or tin of fancy cookies?
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:27 PM
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10. Good plan.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:24 PM
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7. Do they like Yankee candles?
I love those things and give them as housewarming type gifts....:)
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:27 PM
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12. Don't know what Yankee candles are. I'm in Canada.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:30 PM
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14. Oh. They are scented candles.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:34 PM
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15. Are they like bean pod candles... I have a few extra of those. OKAY WE HAVE
A WINNER. I'll give them one of my candles. Bean Pod candles come in all sorts of flavours and are made with soy oil. Very fragrant.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:16 PM
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20. Careful with those -- not everyone likes scented candles.
Some people, including me, find a lot of those fragrances cloyingly stinky, and almost all of them make me sneeze. Be sure your friends don't have allergies...
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:29 PM
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22. They have two dogs and two cats so I think they are okay with allergies.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:31 PM
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24. If they have cats, candles might not be so good.
Cats and candles don't always mix -- singed whiskers, candles knocked over, fires...
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:39 PM
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26. That's true. These candles are in jars and the flame never get above the rim
of the jar. I watch my cats closely with these soy candles. No problems so far.
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:14 PM
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42. I have had dogs and cats but perfume smells give me migraines
Just sayin'...
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:20 PM
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43. Well since I already have it I'll take a change and give it to them. I know some people are really
sensitive. They used to make perfume out of 60 all natural ingredients. Now they make it out of 500 manufactured ingredients. No wonder people are so sensitive to it. Personally I no longer wear perfume out in public just because I know some people are really sensitive to it. I miss it but I know I'll run into someone with a sensitivity and I don't want to do that.
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 08:24 PM
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56. Thanks for doing that!
I didn't mean to dissuade you from the candles, I was just noting that just because someone has an animal, doesn't mean they don't have allergies.

Some candles don't bother me. In fact, I opted to keep a Yankee Swap xmas gift this year that was a scented soy candel. I haven't lit it yet but unlit, it has a lovely smell.

Sorry to have been such a crab in my earlier post. I hope they enjoy your unique housewarming gift. :hi:

PS - I didn't know that about the ingredients. Thanks for the info.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 11:03 PM
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58. Yep the candle I'll give as a gift is a soy candle too. Glad I could help.
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Dyedinthewoolliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:29 PM
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48. Oh well hell,
if you're in Canada why not bring 'em matching hockey sticks? :fistbump:
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dembotoz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 04:44 PM
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50. matching hockey sticks would be great
my kid keeps breaking his
6 so far this season and it is getting expensive and annoying.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 06:14 PM
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53. What is your child doing to the sticks to make em break so often?
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Veritas_et_Aequitas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:27 PM
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11. Depends on the couple.
My general standby is to visit the nunnery near my home and pick up a box of their delicious fudge. I'm guessing that there's not a Trappist abbey near you, but maybe there's something like that around you, like a local honey farm.

Failing that you could try baking them something. It might not be a lot, but it does show that you're appreciative of their hospitality.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:29 PM
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13. Baking is a bood idea but I don't have any baking supplies anymore. After not baking
for 5 years I finally got rid of the flour that was sitting on my counter taking up room. I used to like to bake as a kid though.
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OmahaBlueDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 08:35 PM
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16. A 2008 Chrysler Pacifica
I understand they're being discontinued, so they're thoughtful and affordable.
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bluethruandthru Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:10 PM
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17. A fun set of dishtowels, place mats or napkin rings?
You can find fun patterns or themes - Dishtowels with pigs at the beach or napkin rings in the shape of exotic animals. Something a bit out of the ordinary. Look for something that reflects your host sense of humor, hobbies, interestss, etc.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:13 PM
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19. All good ideas.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:12 PM
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18. A loaf of bread
:)
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MajorChode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:24 PM
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21. Get them a bottle of Cisco or Night Train
You can find them in most any liquor store.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:30 PM
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23. From the sounds of the names... I'm a little worried about buying such products. Am I right?
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MajorChode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:38 PM
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25. No worries
Millions of bums can't be wrong.

Personally I would prefer a bottle of wine that is a notch or two above, but sometimes it's good to expand your horizons.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:45 PM
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27. I'm a bum then. I was an alcoholic and about at least once I bought King Cans of beer.
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NOW tense Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:45 PM
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28. How about a toque? n/t
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:47 PM
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29. They have dogs they have to walk. I'm sure they have all the toques they need.
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NOW tense Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:50 PM
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30. Gormet Dog Treats? n/t
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:56 PM
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32. Oh that's a great idea.
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-07-09 12:00 AM
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62. What?
:rofl:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-07-09 11:52 AM
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67. What is a toque?
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:53 PM
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31. Crown Royal
There is no other choice
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 09:58 PM
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33. I don't want to give alcohol. I don't know what they drink. I don't drink so I don't
want to be lugging alcohol around town or having it in my apartment. The last time I had a bottle of alcohol in my apartment...given to me by a boss for xmass...I ordered a pizza and gave the wine to the pizza guy.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 11:45 PM
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34. Basket of fruit
Edited on Thu Feb-05-09 11:47 PM by Whoa_Nelly
Maybe add a few coffee and/or tea samplers

here are some pic ideas:


or tea and cake/cookies and jam basket


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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 12:40 PM
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36. Your signature line cat is so cute I forgot what the rest of your post is about. Then I "stole" the
picture for my collection.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 04:04 PM
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49. Dr. Tinycat rocks!
:hi:

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Drunken Girlfriend Donating Member (310 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-05-09 11:49 PM
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35. Bamboo plant
What about a bamboo plant?

They are relatively cheap,and ppl seem to be intrigued
by them.

They are supposed to bring good luck and fortune,I have
one in my living room.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 12:41 PM
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37. Nice idea.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 12:44 PM
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38. One word
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 02:38 PM
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39. Perhaps I could show them all the things a shamwow can do. I'm sure they'd appreciate it.
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-07-09 12:02 AM
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63. You can't do it all day, though.
Edited on Sat Feb-07-09 12:03 AM by madeline_con
OMG, have you seen the chopper the same dude has? At one point, he actually says, "You're gonna love my nuts."
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Stevenmarc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 11:53 PM
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61. I love his new commercial
for the slap chop ..... My favorite line .... You're gonna love my nuts

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPKtBM99kAc
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-07-09 12:03 AM
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64. I just posted that.
I was watching TV with my 13 year old. I thought he was gonna lose it.
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:01 PM
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40. Gourmet tea or coffee
Something from Peet's is usually welcome. I've stopped drinking myself, so I hear you about the wine.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:23 PM
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45. I'm not bothered when other people are drinking. I just don't want to have to deal
with the grief of not drinking in my own home. Better that it all be outta sight outta mind. When I first quit this time I did keep a small bottle of wine in my fridge just to keep my resolve to be quit high. And it worked. I'd think of it every so often and have a little discussion about myself and how I can no longer drink. Now I'm over it and just don't want to be bothered.
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Sequoia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 04:51 PM
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52. Fancy chocolate cake.
or Red Velvet Cake. A favorite for over 100 years. Abe Lincoln ate it too.
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-07-09 12:19 AM
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65. Red Velvet Cake -- why the food coloring?
I wonder about that, since it's chocolate anyway instead of white, so the red looks really dark.


Anybody know???

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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:05 PM
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41. A puppy!
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:21 PM
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44. Better yet.....a pony! eom
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:28 PM
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47. No -a dozen goats!
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 03:24 PM
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46. They have Bermese Mountain dogs. I don't think I could afford one of those even if I won the lottery
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 04:50 PM
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51. Give them a copy of this DVD. It will send a subtle message:


:rofl:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 06:15 PM
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54. Oh my god no. Eww
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 07:58 PM
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55. Moth Orchid
Easy to care for. Blooms for months. Any florist shop should have a good selection.

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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 09:07 PM
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57. Cock ring or anal beads
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 11:12 PM
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60. Oh lovely!
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-06-09 11:05 PM
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59. How about this?
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-07-09 12:46 AM
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66. How about some fresh Elmira Maple Syrup?
http://www.stjacobsmaplesyrup.com/

You can even order it online. It's THE best.
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