SPKrazy
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Thu Feb-05-09 09:05 PM
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Hmmm.... is your picker broken? (no not nose) |
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do you pick people who are unavailable
or unattainable
or just plain old freaks?
:P
Then I think you may (like me) have a broken picker...
my friend says I'm fishing in the wrong ponds, and that's the problem...
However, I've managed to find the same issues recently in any pond I've fished in and while there are other fish in the sea, are they all the same?
I've met one exception, however she was unattainable for different reasons...
otherwise, I meet up with, am drawn to, emotionally unavailable and relationally unattainable partners...
how do you fix a broken picker? I'm thinking a lot about giving it a rest, focusing in other areas of my life, and developing new and varied interests. Maybe then the ponds will in fact be different enough, and the bait will be better, and the ponds will be deeper.
Otherwise, I'm at the point of saying what's the point of looking for anything but the obvious from someone I'm attracted to and visa versa.
:shrug:
too deep for the lounge thoughts, by SPKrazy ought to be my sig line
I don't know what happened to my sig line anyway lol
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Thu Feb-05-09 09:26 PM
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1. You've given yourself some great advice. |
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I'm thinking a lot about giving it a rest, focusing in other areas of my life, and developing new and varied interests. Maybe then the ponds will in fact be different enough, and the bait will be better, and the ponds will be deeper.
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SPKrazy
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:09 PM
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don't see much choice really.
keep doing what I'm doing and keep getting what I'm getting.
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:39 PM
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7. I agree with LIW. Your own advice is the best advice. |
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:50 PM
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12. Well I agree with both of you who agree with me |
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because both of you are great!
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:11 PM
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3. I'm doing exactly that right now. |
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I'm resting my picker. In fact, I don't think I'm even paying attention to women right now. I've got too much other crap to work on. Plus, I've noticed that since I quit chasing women, I have a metric shitload of money now. That part alone is worth it.
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:15 PM
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4. That's worth it right there |
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to have more money
Lord knows I've spent enough for a while on that.
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:27 PM
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5. I have the opposite problem. My "picker" is dead, and not interested. |
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But NOW, the fucker is working, and getting invites!
Let's trade places. kay?
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:49 PM
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but I expect my picker will work, its just broken and maladjusted or something
:D
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:34 PM
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Edited on Thu Feb-05-09 10:47 PM by NMDemDist2
buy it and listen to it about 10 times then call me in the morning ;) http://www.relapse.org/custom/cart/edit.asp?p=108361edit to add... It worked for me :hi:
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:49 PM
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and frankly
I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired to the point that I'd rather not even try because it works out the same over and over...
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:52 PM
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13. hey, that $20 could change your life |
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:54 PM
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14. I've certainly spent more on |
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people I've met on plenty of freaks.com in 10 min...
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:55 PM
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15. when your sick and tired of being sick and tired |
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maybe it's time to take a suggestion and try something different
just a thought
:yoiks:
:loveya:
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:59 PM
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Thu Feb-05-09 11:02 PM
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20. RIGHT FRAKKIN ON!!!!!!!! |
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:woohoo:
:yourock:
:loveya:
and while I won't offer to pay for it if it doesn't change your life, I will airmail you a loaf of my famous no knead bread as a consolation prize
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actually, scratch that. I need a CD copy, my old cassette is almost worn out and who the hell still has a cassette deck these days anyway??
If you don't think it was worth the $$$, drop me a PM and I'll take if off your hands
:hi:
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:58 PM
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:45 PM
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:hi: Stop picking on old freaks! :spank: That's who I was looking for and he's nowhere to be found:-(
Anyway, I'm feeling as you do....but have no deep thoughts... I'm more into getting my life intact...
Whatever happens, happens.... Sweet dreams...:hug:
peace~
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:48 PM
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9. I'm NOT Picking On Old Freaks |
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I'm an old freak
I have new priorities
the ponds will change as I change.
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:57 PM
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I was just being goofy, you old freak....:hug: My priorities have changed, also... Sometimes it's good just to look in the other direction... And you're right about the ponds.... Some deep...some shallow...
But you're not as old as I am...... I grow old...I grow old...Just reminded me of one of my favorite poems...
peace~
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Thu Feb-05-09 10:59 PM
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18. I'm not far behind you |
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my dear
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and I knew you were being goofy you old freak :P
:loveya:
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Thu Feb-05-09 11:18 PM
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Not far behind, and can never catch up;-)
:loveya:
peace~
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Thu Feb-05-09 11:50 PM
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I can still look with admiration towards you :D
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Fri Feb-06-09 08:48 PM
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Looking with admiration...because I'm old...older. Gee...At my age, I guess that's the best I can do...:o I can be admired for my age! :woohoo:
I'm taking that as a beautiful bizzaro compliment... Only from you, SPK...only from you.... Too cute and funny... :hug:
peace~
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Fri Feb-06-09 02:22 AM
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23. I got busy with my own life |
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and "forgot" that I was looking for someone.
I also realized that I had been "picking" unavailable people not because of them, but because *ahem* I really didn't want to be tied down. I, me, myself was afraid of commitment. *ahem* Quit looking for outcomes or commitments, just had me some healthy fun/dating.
And I had also decided that I would be completely myself and if that wasn't good enough for "whoever", then their loss.
Started dating guys that were "nice" with no other expectations or requirements (except no republicans!) Stopped looking for a "type". Nice is clearly overused and highly underrated.
After about 3 years of this, and a handful of nice guys, (still friends with two of them), I met HIM.
We just had our two year wedding anniversary. Me, married? There is a God.
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