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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 08:45 PM Original message |
He's just not that into me...or is he? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
1. I am not sure, but would not be optimistic at all. |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 08:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I wasn't trying to be patronizing. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:14 PM Response to Reply #5 |
15. I am more concerned about your being accidentally patronizing while on a date. |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:20 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. I'm not, actually. I give great first date. |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'm thinking no... |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. It sounded like he was including me in his life... |
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DeepBlueC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
3. not gender specific advice ... |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
4. He'd change his schedule to make room for you |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
6. Sounds like he's married |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:05 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. I asked him and he said no. |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. I wouldn't expect him to say yes |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:30 PM Response to Reply #10 |
31. Maybe he's got a girlfriend. |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:32 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. A possibility, I suppose. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 11:37 AM Response to Reply #6 |
55. thats exactly what i thought. married or otherwise taken. nt |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
7. You could give him a call or an email, no? Maybe he's afraid that you aren't that in to him. |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. I don't have his email but I'm thinking of calling him... |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
9. I hate to be Debbie Downer here, but I think he either has someone else |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:12 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. I hate games, too. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
12. Look at what you wrote - |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:23 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. I'm not sure about going crazy over someone |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Since we both are in our 50s... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. I didn't mean "crazy" literally - |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:13 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. I meant I was really confused... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:23 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Honey, |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 11:08 PM Response to Reply #28 |
38. I have to say that your description... |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 01:06 PM Response to Reply #28 |
64. "I'll bet you dollars to doughnuts that if you called |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 01:23 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. I actually have called him a couple of times... |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 01:44 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. You probably can, yes, but the situation that |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:32 PM Response to Reply #64 |
79. For whatever reason, us guys always let women go through to voicemail |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:45 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. But why would a guy who previously gave me his |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:45 AM Response to Reply #26 |
40. If you have to ask yourself if you could possibly find him sexy... |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 09:12 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. To be clear... |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 08:06 AM Response to Reply #22 |
42. What I assumed you meant was... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #42 |
65. Passion |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #65 |
84. Suffering... |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:29 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. To me interesting means... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:07 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. I understand, I really do...................... |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:22 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. I'm really not just sitting around... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:26 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. You're healthy and that's what matters - |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. As a friend's guru used to say... |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
13. Don't wait around for this guy. |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
21. Thanks everybody for your help. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:08 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I was right......... |
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tilsammans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
23. "If he doesn't call, he doesn't care" . . . |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:27 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. Thanks. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
34. What with the bailout and all he's been very busy. |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:53 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. His bank isn't part of the bailout but... |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
35. Never make someone a priority if they won't make you a priority. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:39 AM Response to Reply #35 |
39. Good advice. |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:50 PM Response to Reply #35 |
59. Or as this one goes |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 01:04 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. He isn't my everything... |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 01:15 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. Who knows what goes on in the minds of people. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-14-09 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
37. I'll just echo what others have said ... Doesn't look good for this relationship. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:52 AM Response to Original message |
41. this man is treating you like crap |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
44. Yep, what THEY said... |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
45. Define major-league important finance job... |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 09:48 AM Response to Reply #45 |
46. He's a managing director.. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
47. this guy sounds exactly like one of my sister's on/off boyfriend |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 10:22 AM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Well, I wouldn't go off for a weekend... |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
48. I agree with Skittles. This is excuses. If he were really interested, |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 10:28 AM Response to Reply #48 |
50. I do like how many nice men are on this board. |
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tilsammans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:53 PM Response to Reply #50 |
60. Thank you for the heart! |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Awwwwwwwwwwwwww |
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tilsammans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:05 PM Response to Reply #62 |
72. Please don't call him, GF |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
51. I see two possibilities here: |
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MrPerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
52. He could be in trouble at his job. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
53. I hope this doesn't sound harsh |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Nicely said. And the OP also sounds more concerned with meeting his standards... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:15 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. yeah. exactly. nt |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:43 PM Response to Reply #53 |
58. The alternative to giving him some breathing room... |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 02:54 PM Response to Reply #58 |
71. DO. NOT. CALL. Is that clear enough?! You will hate yourself, no matter WHAT the result. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #71 |
82. This is the best advice. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
56. i dont trust men who talk about not liking models/young women on a first date |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
61. I'm not sure about this guy... |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
69. I would be "very busy" the next COUPLE of times he called. Because I'd bet he's got some other dames |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
70. The guy's married and has to work around that |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:24 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. BINGO! |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:28 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. Yeah, sorry about stringing you along like that |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #78 |
80. Ha! |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
73. On the first date, he gets very specific about |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
75. Jumping in a little late... |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #75 |
83. Mostly people speak themselves... |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
76. Really, Cassandra... |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
77. The guy's married. n/t |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
85. My first impression was "married" as well--not sure why. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-15-09 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
86. Don't Know, Don't Worry About It |
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