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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 08:22 AM
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Would you enjoy spending a month of solitude
Would you enjoy spending a month of solitude in a beautiful natural setting? Food and shelter would be provided but you would not see another person.
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Tripper11 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 08:27 AM
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1. Yes, but., couple questions..
Access to books or reading material at least? Or nothing but your imagination?
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:05 AM
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5. Books and pets allowed no other people
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HopeHoops Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 08:29 AM
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2. No.
Now, a month in such a place alone with my wife - WHOO HOO!

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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:15 AM
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9. How long have you been married?
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HopeHoops Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:17 AM
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11. 22 years
We've been together since Dec 84. She's my best friend in the world.

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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:22 AM
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12. Well good for you! It's great to hear that you guys still have such a great
relationship after all those years:hi:
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 08:29 AM
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3. Cats and/or dogs allowed?
Paradise with them, hell without.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:06 AM
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6. Pets allowed
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 08:56 AM
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4. as long as I had books, and at least one cat. Now: beach or mountains?
that is the hard part!!!!!!
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:08 AM
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7. Depends... I've been alone all my life. I foresee no change.
Add a computer and D-SLR with the food and shelter and I'd make a living as a biologist/scholar...
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Tripper11 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:09 AM
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8. Well, pets and books..then I would say...
Mandatory for all stressed humans...what a way to come down from life. Find your centre! I would do it in a heartbeat.
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:16 AM
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10. When you added the books and pets...
a definite YES!
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:37 AM
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13. Yes.
I could go for that.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 09:57 AM
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14. What type of wilderness would you prefer?
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:37 PM
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30. Maine coast in September would be ideal...
Rocks, forest, pounding surf, and moderate temps. Ahhhh.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:46 PM
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31. The most important event in my life
took place on the Maine coast in September, 1966, and those who were there with me still regard it as I do - as a time that changed our lives.

We lived here, opening onto the beach - the Atlantis is no longer there - right down the beach from the Walker compound (yep, Poppy and Babs Bush) on Kennebunk Beach.......................

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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 11:33 PM
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32. I spent two wonderful summers not far from Bar Harbor
Edited on Sat Jul-11-09 11:33 PM by GoddessOfGuinness
playing in the orchestra at a school for conductors. I received free housing and a fellowship of $25/week...enough to keep me well supplied with hot dogs and beer. I learned so much music, and so much about conducting and playing in an orchestra...and in such a beautiful place. :hi:
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 06:09 AM
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45. Pray tell, some time, Kiddo!
'Our' first b&b was there, a few moons ago!

:hi:
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 06:15 PM
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51. My favorite place -
in my memory - it's always the place I see when I close my eyes.

Magic. All of it. And more than forty years later, a group of us are still close, still feeling what happened to us all back there, in that amazing time ................................

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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:03 AM
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15. Oh Lord, yes!
People think I'm joking when I was I want to live alone in the Yukon, but I'm not. I'd move there today if I could, and no one would ever see me again. I could totally handle that.
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:15 AM
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16. I've done this sort of thing before
in different circumstances. I went a little over two weeks without saying a word to another person, no tv, and no internet. It was a little surreal - like when the power goes out and all the background noise suddenly drops away. I felt a bit like a ghost moving through life. But I was okay with it.
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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:18 AM
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17. Yep! I sure would.
Edited on Sat Jul-11-09 10:18 AM by SKKY
And I'd be fine providing my own food and shelter.
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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:22 AM
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18. I wouldn't spend that much time
away from my husband but if I were single, I would love it. And I would spend the whole time reading!
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CrownPrinceBandar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:30 AM
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19. Can I start tomorrow?..........
I'd like a cabin somewhere high in the hills, with abundant food, firewood and what-have-you.
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kedrys Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 10:30 AM
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20. Oh hell yes
Even if the s.o. pitched a fit before, during and after, yes yes yes. AND I'm taking the cats with me. :D
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 11:06 AM
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21. I am going to do that when my Grandparents are gone.
I am going to spend three seasons at the cabin. It's solar powered and I can activate the satellite broadband. Can't stay for the winter,too much of a pain to keep the place warm. Make one monthly trip to town for my meds and other business then it's right back up to the mountains.
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rrneck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 11:25 AM
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22. Where do I sign up?
The backpack's already ready.
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Ikonoklast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 01:26 PM
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23. Yes. If I can take my books and my cats, I'll leave today.
"L'enfer, c'est les autres" - Sartre.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 02:18 PM
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24. My dear NJmaverick...
Knowing me as you do ...

What do you think?

Not just no.......HELL NO.

I need people around me. I need their feedback, their support, their love...

All of it.

I might enjoy a few days. But a month? No way. I'd go nuts.

Even if I had my internet connection, I'd go nuts.

:hi:

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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 02:26 PM
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27. I would be able to go the month
so I have a hard time relating. I mean I enjoy people, but I equally enjoy alone time.

:toast:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 02:19 PM
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25. Yes,
that sounds like a great vacation to me.
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snappyturtle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 02:22 PM
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26. I haven't read one response...yet and I can say unquivocably...YES! nt
Edited on Sat Jul-11-09 02:22 PM by snappyturtle
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PassingFair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 02:29 PM
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28. Sounds like heaven...
I have too many responsibilities right now.

Crazy mother. Lustful husband. Demanding children.
Yapping dogs. Elderly, incontinent aunt. Shitty job.

I'll take a month alone. In a heartbeat.
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marzipanni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:33 AM
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38. I see on your profile that you like to write.
Your life sounds like it's full of material for an interesting play, but maybe you don't have time to write much.
Do you take care of your mother and aunt?
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PassingFair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:45 AM
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39. My mother lives across the street from me. Really.
She is lonely, so she comes over 3 or 4 times
a day, just to impact someone.

Unfortunately, that is usually my kids and/or
my husband, who "works" from home.

I looked after my aunt in her rent
assisted apartment until she became unable
to walk, she has been in a nursing home
for 3 months.

Did I mention that my mother and my aunt (father's sister)
are MORTAL ENEMIES?

All of my "writing" is done on DU.

:rofl:
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marzipanni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 03:10 AM
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42. Oh-oh, mortal enemies, eh?
Probably jealous of your attention to the other.
I like the Dan Hick's song "How Can I Miss You When You Won't Go Away?"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rW9-FOLG-iA&feature=related

:rofl: is right...it's all you can do to stay somewhat sane at least some of the time!

:
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 02:29 PM
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29. I'd give my left nut for a month off like that
Of course I'd like a month of solitude!

What kind of type-A extroverted buttwipe wouldn't?
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-11-09 11:35 PM
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33. Not no, but fuck no!
Done it..

My mind is very depressive. Didn't like what I saw.

:hug:
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:17 AM
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34. No.
Edited on Sun Jul-12-09 12:18 AM by Odin2005
I may be an "aspie" but I still need people time once in a while and a month is just too long.

Now, if it was me and all my close friends, THAT would be perfect!
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Duer 157099 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:18 AM
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35. With books and pets? Can we make it a decade instead?
I'm all for that.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:23 AM
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36. I'd miss my kids too much.
Otherwise, yes.
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Juche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:26 AM
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37. yes
As long as I had things to keep me occupied (books, nature trails, other things to do) and access to hygiene facilities (toothpaste, showers, etc).
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:53 AM
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40. Solitude is my cocaine
so yes, absolutely.
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texanwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 01:08 AM
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41. Can we make it two months.
I would like the beach in winter.

My dog and I would be most happy.

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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 03:12 AM
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43. Right now, hells yeah.
I'd love it.

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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 03:35 AM
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44. Yes, but I'd need my cat, journals and at least some pastels.
CMW can fend for himself, but The Wiley and Excellent Boy Cat Named Ginger is a big "Mami-Titi." :hi:
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:38 PM
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46. I'd probably be jabbery as hell when it was over
but FUCK YES! especially with reading material allowed.
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Blue_In_AK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 12:58 PM
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47. I'd be fine with it as long as I had my camera. n/t
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 01:58 PM
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48. That would be paradise, if I could have my cats and plenty of books.
A nice cabin by a lake and NO PEOPLE. Where do I sign up?
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Dyedinthewoolliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 02:41 PM
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49. Sign me up!
I would love it. Of course, I'd also love coming back. :)
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quakerboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 02:55 PM
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50. Not without
Edited on Sun Jul-12-09 02:57 PM by quakerboy
my wife, computer, and plenty of books and projects. And a much better financial situation than I currently have.

When running totally solo, as I have a few times, I tend to revert to a much more primal state. I'm half surprised I retained my knowledge of plumbing and didn't just poop in a corner.
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JTG of the PRB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 06:17 PM
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52. If I could bring books, DVDs, and my computer, then I would love it.
And if my dog is allowed, it would be even better. I would only worry about getting too used to it.
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-12-09 07:37 PM
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53. Sounds like a dream.
Just give me a couple of cartons of smokes and a few boxes of books and I'm in!
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