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Thu Jul-16-09 06:20 AM
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What do you find are the sexiest parts, of the members of the sex you are attracted to? |
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Edited on Thu Jul-16-09 06:35 AM by NJmaverick
What do you find the sexiest?
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:25 AM
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1. You might want to edit your title |
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or I am just completely misreading it.
Anyway, I find personality and a sense of humor to be what I am most attracted to in a man.
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:36 AM
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:29 AM
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2. The honest answer is brain |
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And not because I have some freakish zombie thing going on
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Thu Jul-16-09 12:31 PM
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42. Absolutely. But I so no looking and never really was. |
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:32 AM
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3. I've read your subject 3 times |
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and am still not sure what you're asking?
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:36 AM
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Thu Jul-16-09 09:05 AM
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20. It's all about personality with me |
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Over the years, I've dated women of all shapes, sizes and ethnic backgrounds. However, the one thing in common between women I've liked the most is that they have had outgoing, personable and energetic personalities.
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:32 AM
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4. I understand all those words, just not in that order |
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:36 AM
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6. Sorry, not much sleep last night |
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:38 AM
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8. Whatever that thing is that some people call the "soul" |
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Followed by her brain, her face, her butt, and her boobs.
Hey....you asked!
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:38 AM
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9. Brain and spirit-or-whatever-it-is that makes people compassionate. |
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Physically, there's not really a "type" of anything that I prefer. If the brain and spirit are there, everything looks wonderful. :)
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:51 AM
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10. I like big shoulders and strong arms. |
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Beards are a plus, too!
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Thu Jul-16-09 07:01 AM
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11. Personality, empathy and compassion are three attributes I am attracted to |
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Edited on Thu Jul-16-09 07:01 AM by RFKHumphreyObama
First and foremost -everything takes second place. Actually intelligence is another essential attribute
In terms other characteristics, I quite often am attracted to the eyes, a warm smile, a mature and well-dressed appearance and quite often curly hair
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Thu Jul-16-09 07:01 AM
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12. Physically, a woman's neck. |
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Hair pulled up will get me every time.
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:24 AM
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13. heh...I am dubbing this as most awkardly phrased thread of the day. |
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you said member....heh :)
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:36 AM
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14. You should have seen it before he fixed it |
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Edited on Thu Jul-16-09 08:39 AM by Richardo
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:42 AM
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15. I hate I missed it.... |
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:52 AM
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16. That's not an easy question, even if it were worded better |
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I've always believed that physical parts we find attractive exist only to get you to notice someone in the first place. No matter how attractive any or all of those seem at first, they will cease to matter if there isn't compassion, thoughtfulness, tolerance and a sense of humor. Those are the attributes that REALLY matter.
For the purposes of this thread, for me the physical parts would be eyes, smile, butt, breasts.
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:59 AM
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19. To be honest I think we all like to believe that we are attracted to personality traits |
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however, I doubt few of use are that above physical attractiveness. The physical is often the first thing we notice and often decides who we get to know well enough to find out if they posse the desirable personality traits.
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:54 AM
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17. Their tonsils and appendices. nt |
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Thu Jul-16-09 08:57 AM
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18. So if someone has had both of them removed.... |
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are they dead to you?:evilgrin:
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Thu Jul-16-09 09:35 AM
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24. Not very interesting, for sure. nt |
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Thu Jul-16-09 09:10 AM
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21. in this particular order (sometimes) |
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1. attitude 2. openmindedness 3. eyes 4. stance, posture 5. smile
I am totally attracted to someone who is interesting both physically and mentally.
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Thu Jul-16-09 09:14 AM
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22. Her facial expressions. |
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Now, to be fair, she's pretty, has beautiful long hair, a petite slender and well toned body (she's a 2nd degree black belt and works out 5 days a week practicing), perfect breasts, and a firm tiny butt. She's also my best friend and has been since we met in Dec 84. But as far as what is "sexiest", that would be her facial expressions. One look can make me melt.
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Thu Jul-16-09 09:16 AM
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23. the pancreas and lower intestine |
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Thu Jul-16-09 10:04 AM
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27. I like the pussy on this one |
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Thu Jul-16-09 10:06 AM
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28. The small of a woman's lower back. Love the curve. |
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Thu Jul-16-09 10:07 AM
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29. the personality/brain/soul/spirit |
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followed by the eyes, a nice smile, and the legs/butt.
:D
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Thu Jul-16-09 10:38 AM
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If a man is wearing a white shirt with sleeves rolled up to his elbow, a nice watch, and has lovely forearmas and hands, that is a site that can literally make me swoon. :loveya:
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Thu Jul-16-09 10:47 AM
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31. A pretty face, nice hair |
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and large natural breasts is the trifecta... and if she smells really good to boot I'll turn backflips!! :D
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Thu Jul-16-09 10:48 AM
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I'm weird. I've never had a 'type'. I just fetishize whatever I like about the person I'm attracted to at any given time. When I was crushing on a bald guy, I found bald heads attractive.
Now that I'm mad about my best friend, I think black hair and blue-grey eyes are the sexiest thing ever.
What I'm most attracted to in a strictly objective sense is kindness, intelligence, and a sense of humor. And an appreciation for football. Real football. And a sexy ass doesn't hurt a bit... but that's more of that fetishizing things about my best friend. Damn he's got an amazing ass.
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Thu Jul-16-09 11:04 AM
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I had never noticed a woman's feet before dating this nurse about 9-10 years ago. Then, one day, while giving her a foot massage, I noticed that, "Wow, she's got really nice feet." And, then it was something I noticed on her, and I started liking it when she wore open-toed shoes and/or something that exposed her feet.
Similarly, I've dated women where I liked their legs - especially the calves; or their big blue eyes or big brown eyes; or their arms; hair; chest; back; butt; etc
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Thu Jul-16-09 11:06 AM
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35. Yep.. I never thought men's lips were a big deal before. |
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Edited on Thu Jul-16-09 11:19 AM by redqueen
But now...
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Thu Jul-16-09 11:30 AM
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36. What do you consider "Real Football"? |
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American football rules! :mad:
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Thu Jul-16-09 03:54 PM
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46. On the other hand, you don't see other "football" players being taken out at the knees |
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by a 350-pound linebacker. If Beckham, Messi et. al. were facing that possibility, they'd probably put on some knee pads. As it is they wear shin-guards, which protect the part of the body most at risk in the type of game they play. This whole "which football is the real/better football?" argument is comparing apples and oranges.
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Thu Jul-16-09 03:59 PM
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47. Ahem... footie came first... so it's throwball that deserves the quotation marks. |
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As for fat guys... well that's a fair point... but since footie came first, IMO throwball is throwball and it always will be.
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Thu Jul-16-09 12:30 PM
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40. The private parts. The naughty bits. |
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Thu Jul-16-09 12:30 PM
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41. Arms. I like men's arms. |
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Thu Jul-16-09 01:40 PM
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43. Mostly, she must have a soul |
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I have been made acutely aware of this in the past couple of months, having met -- and been promptly shot down by -- one who has as much of it as any ten or twenty of you. :cry:
As for physical parts, really almost any one will do. As long as there's at least one part I can sort of key on, the rest of her tends to grow on me. All inside my own head, of course. :(
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Thu Jul-16-09 03:28 PM
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44. women, boobs - leg men are perverts; men, ass |
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Thu Jul-16-09 03:46 PM
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face and nose. I like big noses.
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Thu Jul-16-09 04:20 PM
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Edited on Thu Jul-16-09 04:22 PM by Juche
A decent ass and tapering thighs in a tight pair on jeans is always good.
Of course (stating the obvious here) if a woman has a horrible personality she quickly becomes unattractive, and women with great personalities who don't have good butts are more attractive. But that is pretty much obvious. Nobody wants to spend their lives with someone who they are uncomfortable around or who they feel doesn't understand or respect them. I think research by David Sloan wilson has found that is ia consistent among both genders that the most important thing in a mate is someone who listens to, understands and cares about you.
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Thu Jul-16-09 04:39 PM
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Edited on Thu Jul-16-09 04:40 PM by LostInAnomie
2. Boobs 3. Butt 4. Nice skin 5. Neck 6. Hands
That being said, it's possible for someone to have such a fine quality of any one of those parts (except hands probably) that it would over-ride that particular order.
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Thu Jul-16-09 06:03 PM
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51. assuming someone i don't know, so it's physical and not hokey bullshit like "personality"... |
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i assume you actually want to know the answer and when you use a word like "parts" you are asking about the body and not about oh their intelligence, wit, personality, etc
if it's a fair test (i don't know the person hence can't be swayed by their wit, intelligence, personality) then it's the ass
however, i like a nice tight ass on a male, a big thick ass on a female -- female can or should be chunky, the male can or should be skinny
i do not know why but that's the way i feel
but at least i didn't give you a bullshit answer like "their brain"
if i'm checking out some dude/chick at the bar, i'm not looking at their fucking brain!
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