Tonight I learned a lot about myself

[Rising Phoenix]

I am not going into any details.....

But I don't necessarily like what I found out. Or maybe I used to be a hypocrite, but am not anymore.

[KamaAina]

1. I feel your pain

Been turned inside out and back again for nigh on three months now. :eyes:

[Rising Phoenix]

2. strange

I thought I had myself mostly figured out, not the all of me, of course. But the basic core of your fiber stuff. And then tonight......

hope things feel better soon. :hug:

[Martin Eden]

4. Discovery ...

... is good, even when you don't like what you find.

You can't fix it until you realize it needs mending :)

[Rising Phoenix]

9. that is true

and, hear me now, I am getting off my ass and fixing things.......

[Martin Eden]

11. Rise up, Phoenix

!
I know you have it in you :toast:

[Rising Phoenix]

12. Thanks love

[KamaAina]

6. That sounds even worse

all that actually happened to me was, I got shot down like an aging Soviet-era MiG fighter plane. Felt more like being dumped very suddenly from an actual relationship, though. :cry: At least now I can go a few hours at a time without agonizing...

[Rising Phoenix]

10. still

having the ground pulled out from under, or your hopes dashed in a single moment never feels good.

[zabet]

3. You are just

having 'growing pains'. :hug:

[KG]

5. if we quit learning, we quit growing.

:hi:

[Rising Phoenix]

8. and if we are comfortable, we are not changing

growing up is hard, and it just keeps getting harder the more I "grow up" They should tell you that when they separate the sexes for the sex talk class.

[carpetbagger]

7. My stepfather slapped me with the noodle of reality recently.

So you're not treading water alone. One of these days I'll get drunk or bored and bleed out my heart in the Lounge, maybe you can gawk at me then. The punchline was "well, carpetbagger, you'll hopefully make a better decision next time", which wasn't what I wanted to hear, but probably what I needed to hear.