Mutley
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Sun Aug-02-09 11:17 PM
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Public Service Announcement: Not every single and childless woman is desperate for a baby. |
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"Hey, you don't need a husband to have a baby." *furtive wink*
^^ Truly unnecessary.
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Robeson
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Sun Aug-02-09 11:35 PM
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1. Or married women and men. |
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Mon Aug-03-09 01:12 AM
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2. Not every single person is looking for Miss/Mr. Right either. n/t |
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Mon Aug-03-09 09:05 PM
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7. Right. But I'd love it if there were more babies in my family for me to spoil. |
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I 'd love to have a family baby in town for me to play with regularly.
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Mon Aug-03-09 01:34 AM
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3. When I was in my prime breeding age, single motherhood was |
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still being discouraged, which allowed me (as an unmarried woman) to sigh sadly when someone brought up the idea of children...then I left the room and snickered.
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Mon Aug-03-09 05:42 AM
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4. Same goes for married women. Everyone in my husband's family seems to think that |
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we're just procrastinating or we just don't realize that it's getting to be too late for us. They just have to keep asking. None of them stop to consider that maybe we just aren't able to have children and they are bringing up painful memories every time they ask. That's not the case for us, but still, it could be. :eyes:
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Mon Aug-03-09 08:07 AM
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5. I never understand why people feel the need |
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to interfere (or even make an unsolicited suggestion) on such a personal decision.
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Mon Aug-03-09 08:10 AM
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6. Just remember- misery loves company |
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Mon Aug-03-09 09:08 PM
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8. It's classier than simply asking if you want to fuck. |
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Mon Aug-03-09 10:54 PM
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I just turned 40. My eggs are creeping up on being past their sell-by date. This causes me no angst whatsoever.
It really seems to disturb some people. Almost always women. Women in my orbit who think they're closer friends than they really are, specifically. (REAL friends know how I feel and respect it.)
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Mutley
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Tue Aug-04-09 02:25 PM
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Having a family would be fine, but I'm not going to feel deprived if it doesn't happen. I don't know why some people don't understand that not every women feels like her sole purpose in life is to breed.
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Tue Aug-04-09 02:46 PM
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11. I'd much rather get stuck with another kid |
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than get stuck with a permanant partner of any sort. :scared: I have NO desire for a permanamt relationship, nor do I have the time for one. I'm debating going the popsicle route to have Dropkid.2, though, which I'm sure will set the neighborhood aflame with gossip.
I'm pretty much considered a total freak because I don't really date and am perfectly happy being a single parent. I'm not out there desperately trying to find a man or daddy for Dropkid :puke:. It would freak them out even more that I don't need another mommy for her either :evilgrin:
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Tue Aug-04-09 04:39 PM
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12. I'm married and not desperate for a baby |
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Never have been, never will be.
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Tue Aug-04-09 09:13 PM
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13. You'll change your mind |
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about kicking the next person who says that, I mean. FFS, I'm 44 and I never changed my mind about not having kids. Hell, I still have the urge to get sterilized again (in case tubal ligation, uterine ablation, ovarian cysts and middle-agedness isn't enough!).
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Tue Aug-04-09 09:57 PM
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Forget talking about kids, we can talk music, movies, and where to go for dinner and some brews together next Friday...
:beer: :toast: :beer:
(not so) *furtive wink* ;-)
(I live a little far from you for this to be entirely serious, but...)
:D
-app
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