How do you determine if there is chemistry with someone you've never met or spoken to?

[charlie and algernon]

I'm not really bothered by this at all, mainly because I've never seen this girl's profile and I've been communicating with another girl who I'm really interested in.

The disclaimer aside, I'm on eharmony.com and a match was closed because she felt there wasn't any chemistry there. I just thought that very odd. Is it possible to determine chemistry with someone whom you've never communicated with?

[TZ]

1. *cough* excuse *cough*

I suspect this person had someone else she was interested in...Although I have on occasion felt a bit of chemistry with people I only talked to on line...so its possible....

[charlie and algernon]

2. Oh I'm quite positive it's just an excuse

it was different from the usual "Other" reason I get for closing a match. You can definitely feel chemistry online, though I've found that that doesn't always translate when you meet face to face for the first time.

[MilesColtrane]

3. Did you send her a squirrelized pic of yourself?

That may have done it.

[PVnRT]

4. Try a generic qualitative inorganic analysis

They might complain about the nitric acid and heavy metals, but it's the best way to be sure about what you've got, unless you have some sophisticated equipment.

[TZ]

6. GAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

Now why'd you have to go and bring back those damn memories from chemistry class....I swear I have PTSD from them...:banghead:

[PVnRT]

8. The nitric acid can reveal the presence of silver nitrate

Look for a dark-colored precipitate. Nitric acid also makes cool tattoos when you dribble a little on your skin.

[Wapsie B]

5. What TZ said.

Most likely she's got her sights on another guy. Her loss.

[datasuspect]

7. it depends on if they will give to me

pipitouch

[rug]

9. My nipples quiver when I get email.