I've decided facebook was invented so you could look up old exes

[HEyHEY]

See just their photo and have it all come back and then be glad you aren't with them anymore. It's a great service whenever you get nostalgic.

[MissHoneychurch]

1. I agree

:D

[kentauros]

2. I don't need FaceBook to do that.

I still have plenty of digital photos of us and just her. After I got divorced recently (uncontested) I moved them all into one folder and will remove them from the drives soon...

[AllenVanAllen]

3. That's rough man.

Was it a long time coming? I've been there myself. I was only married 5 years but I took it hard.

[kentauros]

4. Actually, I wasn't aware anything was really "wrong"

until she said one evening "I think we should separate." Then it hit me hard. She took her time packing over the next couple of months and moved out. I had mostly gotten over her leaving by then and we've remained friends during the three years we've been apart. I just finally had to take care of it as she's way out of state (WA to my TX) and all the responsibility was laid on me.

Even so, the process was relatively easy and "painless", and now I'm just finally shipping all of her small library back. It was just too hard (emotionally) packing it on my own, so I had some friends help out and we got it all done in a few hours. Taking a few hundred pounds of books to the post office is the hard part now ;)

We were married for 7 years 7 months, so we had a good run anyway. It took me at least a year to finally get over her and a little longer than that to notice that I felt nothing more for her and it was indeed over. So, I fully understand how it feels. Time really does heal those wounds :hug: