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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:36 PM Original message |
Was I a witness to emotional abuse? |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
1. Seems like the mom plays mind games with the kid |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:50 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I'm trying to remain open-minded about this, but here is why I'm asking: |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
2. No. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:58 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. rofl, seems like the op is reading to much into this |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:59 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. That's not fair. I'm asking a question and leaving open the option that nothing is wrong. n/t |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:04 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. sorry i wasnt meaning that as an attack, just saying that i think every parent |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:06 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Thanks, I"m trying to get the perspective of parents. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:09 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. oh hes 4, and i am a cop, hes still not sure what that means |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:11 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. That is pretty funny. n/t |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:16 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. lol try explaining to teachers for the first time, when you look like a meth user |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:14 PM Response to Reply #5 |
15. Don't let it get to you |
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lillypaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:37 PM Response to Reply #4 |
143. yep. |
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lillypaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:06 PM Response to Reply #2 |
148. LOL |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
6. Did you check for bruises? |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
7. No, not abuse. |
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susanr516 (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
10. I don't think it's emotional abuse |
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RandomThoughts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:24 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. As an analogy... |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:09 PM Response to Original message |
11. You are not alone in your feelings, Writer. |
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Dystopian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
25. I agree with you.... |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:10 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Well thanks. |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 12:53 PM Response to Reply #11 |
63. You nailed it, Madrone. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
14. I'm with your friend's daughter on this one. |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 12:25 AM Response to Reply #14 |
167. I touched your sushi once |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 12:44 AM Response to Reply #167 |
170. Um |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 01:02 AM Response to Reply #170 |
172. He is rather fond of his "dragon roll" |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
16. did the kid eat all of the fries? |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 07:17 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. No, she turned around and hid her face in the cushion of the booth. n/t |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 08:05 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. So the mom didn't steal a fry, she just ate one of the fries |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
21. Not emotional abuse -- but the Mom should ask before taking food from her daughter. |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
22. Did she ask her daughter if she could have a fry or two? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
23. When all you have is a hammer, |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
24. please ..... no please ... |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
26. Some of the answers to this question are blowing my mind. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:09 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. Basic lack of understanding here at DU? |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:14 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Well, that ... Or... |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:17 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Or... |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:22 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Well, maybe this mother will remember this incident... |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 10:24 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. Haha! |
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Dystopian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 11:20 PM Response to Reply #26 |
33. Thank you, once again... |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:53 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. This bears repeating: |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-27-09 11:25 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. Oh, for pete's sake. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:30 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. I agree. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:00 AM Response to Reply #36 |
44. I think the mom did apologize. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:12 AM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Yeah, |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:54 AM Response to Reply #45 |
53. It's clear to us because we're not five-year-olds. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:24 PM Response to Reply #53 |
80. So the mother is responsible for the child's misinterpretation? |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:46 PM Response to Reply #80 |
84. Wow, you think CHILDREN are capable of inflicting "emotional abuse" on adults? |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:43 PM Response to Reply #84 |
97. Amen! |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #84 |
98. "You can't expect them to think as clearly and logically as you." |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #98 |
103. A couple of things.... |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:05 PM Response to Reply #103 |
107. Sorry, but |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:22 PM Response to Reply #107 |
111. Okay, now we're getting somewhere. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. I'll give you "less than ideal" |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. Ummm.... |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #113 |
116. Yeah! |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #116 |
118. I'm not sure if you're purposefully obtuse in order to inflame, |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. No, it's sad. nt |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #113 |
127. Not trying to call anyone out. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:01 PM Response to Reply #127 |
130. I was really kidding about the calling out thing. :) |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:07 PM Response to Reply #130 |
132. I'm certainly a busy person. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:36 PM Response to Reply #132 |
142. You're welcome. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:25 PM Response to Reply #130 |
139. I would be the last person |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:31 PM Response to Reply #139 |
140. I think we agree more than we disagree, but are getting hung up on semantics. |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:43 PM Response to Reply #80 |
96. Nobody suggested that the child sees herself as an abuse victim. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:55 PM Response to Reply #96 |
104. Neither am I. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:48 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. That was a long winded way to miss the point. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:58 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. project much? (eom) |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:00 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. ,,, |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:01 AM Response to Reply #42 |
47. +1 |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:00 AM Response to Reply #41 |
43. ,,, |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:22 AM Response to Reply #26 |
48. I wasn't sure if it was emotional abuse or not. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:31 PM Response to Reply #48 |
164. It's also a perfect situation to use teaching personal resposibility to the daughter. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 11:06 AM Response to Reply #26 |
179. Emotional invalidation is an important part of parenting. |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 01:33 PM Response to Reply #26 |
181. Links, please. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:07 AM Response to Original message |
35. Yes, they put chicken lips and pig anuses in hot dogs |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:45 AM Response to Original message |
37. I wonder what kind of person needs to "win" a battle of wills with a five year old |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:49 AM Response to Original message |
39. no |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:56 AM Response to Original message |
46. Lying to kids could eff 'em up. |
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soleiri (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
49. French fry hoarding became an epic battle of wills between me and my two sons. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
50. If your friend didn't ask her little girl first if she might have one of her fries, |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
51. I'm ready to get flamed for saying this, but... |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:43 AM Response to Reply #51 |
52. That 5 year old needed some good adult supervision |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:21 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. adults do lie. if a 5 year old lives with a particularly lying adult, they know this |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:29 AM Response to Reply #57 |
58. In this case the accusation was baseless |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 12:01 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. i disagree, most moms know what their kids love to eat. she was lying |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 12:13 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. First off I am pretty sure the child did not purchase that meal |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 12:49 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. i think teaching a kid honesty and standing up for themselves is far more important. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:01 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. The child has no problem standing up for herself |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 12:54 PM Response to Reply #51 |
64. i agree |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #51 |
120. And a budding drama queen to boot. This behavior should never EVER be rewarded. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #120 |
125. Excellent post. |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:15 PM Response to Reply #120 |
137. Thank you@! |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:55 PM Response to Reply #120 |
165. exactly.. this was a mini tantrum |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
54. I wouldn't go so far as to call it "abuse", but ... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
55. One incident doesnt really make for emotional abuse. I think your friend is a somewhat shitty mother |
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Beer on a stick (421 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
56. I feel that this entire thread is emotionally abusing me. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:13 PM Response to Reply #56 |
73. yes, i am scarred by this thread and need a grown up RIGHT FUCKING NOW! |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
61. are you kidding? |
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HERVEPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
66. Bad parenting: yes. Abuse: no. You're interjection: Not helpful ... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:25 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. You need to respect the child all the time, though you may (will) have to do things the child....etc |
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HERVEPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:29 PM Response to Reply #68 |
81. Thanks. It worked well with my kids. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:34 PM Response to Reply #68 |
82. You will make mistakes. Don't catastrophize them. |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
67. I don't know about that little girl |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
69. This thread is extremely revealing... |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 01:48 PM Response to Reply #69 |
70. You put it well. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #70 |
76. those are some very compelling points |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #70 |
77. dupe |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #70 |
78. dupe |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:24 PM Response to Reply #69 |
79. I would tend to agree |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:51 PM Response to Reply #69 |
85. Really? In my experiences, narcissists learned early on how to treat other people like shit |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:03 PM Response to Reply #85 |
87. You have it wrong |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #87 |
119. Good post. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:51 PM Response to Reply #119 |
129. Agreed |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #119 |
151. Treat them as fragile and that only their feelings matter. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #85 |
90. you have a shallow understanding of narcissism. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 04:35 AM Response to Reply #90 |
173. the "tyranny of the mediocre" I like that. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:41 PM Response to Reply #69 |
94. You're right, it certainly IS revealing. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:43 PM Response to Reply #94 |
95. french fry boundaries are an utterly crucial piece of the child development puzzle |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:45 PM Response to Reply #95 |
99. It's not ABOUT the french fry. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #99 |
100. it's not about any LIE, either |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #100 |
105. It appeared to be a lie to both people there to witness it. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #105 |
114. You might want to reconsider your own viewpoint, |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:09 PM Response to Reply #114 |
117. Why would I reconsider my viewpoint when I am confident in my position? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #117 |
121. Oh, what you've put here is enough |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:25 PM Response to Reply #121 |
123. Your attempts at insulting or being condescending to me might carry a little more bite - |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:49 PM Response to Reply #123 |
128. No, I have been insulting and condescending to the ridiculous screed you posted |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:09 PM Response to Reply #128 |
133. I don't know you... |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #133 |
136. I quoted what you posted. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:16 PM Response to Reply #136 |
138. ORLY? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #138 |
150. One point worth reiterating: |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 08:09 PM Response to Reply #150 |
157. Okay - |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:49 PM Response to Reply #105 |
144. I don't see any defensive people on this thread |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:56 PM Response to Reply #144 |
145. One problem, though, |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:01 PM Response to Reply #145 |
147. What type of thinking, exactly? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:25 PM Response to Reply #147 |
153. Here we go. |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:42 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. Yes, it must always be abuse, mustn't it? |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 09:38 PM Response to Reply #156 |
158. stop it |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:05 PM Response to Reply #158 |
162. WTF are you talking about? |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #99 |
102. what's the point? |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #95 |
108. I truly do not mean any offense to anyone posting on this subject, |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #108 |
110. everyone's shit is all emotional right now |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 09:46 PM Response to Reply #110 |
159. there ain't no sanity clause, either |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 12:40 AM Response to Reply #108 |
169. As I've mentioned 1,000 times or more |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
71. if that is abuse |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #71 |
92. me too! |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
72. some of you guys REALLY need some hobbies |
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VMI Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:19 PM Response to Reply #72 |
75. the wussification of our youth continues. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:42 PM Response to Reply #72 |
83. Wait a minute, it was a particularly long french fry. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #83 |
91. nice post, ghenghis khan |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #83 |
109. But was it crispy? |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:34 PM Response to Reply #72 |
93. WORD! |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 12:33 AM Response to Reply #72 |
168. Hell fucking yeah |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
74. It may not be the prime example of perfect parenting |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #74 |
155. Parents have bad days. Kids have bad days. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
86. Nah |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:09 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. or the way my mother would have handled me making a scene |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #89 |
101. I recall that one |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
88. I would've gotten in trouble for acting like a little shit about a french fry. |
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HERVEPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #88 |
115. I hope you have no kids. |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #115 |
126. Yeah, kids are perfect and never throw temper tantrums. They are always right. |
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HERVEPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:29 AM Response to Reply #126 |
174. My kids did not throw tantrums. |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:53 AM Response to Reply #174 |
175. I figured as much. LOL. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
106. This is a normal interaction. We are a selfish whiny society and our kids reflect that |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:16 AM Response to Reply #106 |
176. After reading DU sometimes, I feel like I should just get it over with |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
124. No. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:11 PM Response to Reply #124 |
134. exactly |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
131. After reading this thread, I would never leave my kid with some of the people here. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
135. It's not a perfect exchange |
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lillypaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
141. people who aren't parents |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 06:57 PM Response to Reply #141 |
146. Even Dr. Spock |
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TheCentepedeShoes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
149. We are obviously dealing |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
152. When your friend said that she didn't mean to take the fry, it was an implied apology. n/t |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:12 PM Response to Reply #152 |
163. An actual apology too, |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
154. dysfunctional interaction |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
160. I have no children, but |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-28-09 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
161. Giving children french fries is child abuse |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
166. No, but not great parenting, imo. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
171. No. I don't think it was emotional abuse. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 11:01 AM Response to Reply #171 |
177. I usually point in another direction to distract the child while I steal her fries. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 11:05 AM Response to Reply #177 |
178. You know... I told them that you do that. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 11:11 AM Response to Reply #178 |
180. I do it to friends and other relatives, too... |
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