Damn it! I wish you could control who you love

[Rising Phoenix]

Butterflies at their voice, your heart skips a beat when you hear their name.

The good news.... I don't need him.... I just want him.


Why does the heart over ride my brain? Should it?

[CaliforniaPeggy]

1. My dear Rising Phoenix!

You can forget controlling who you love!

The heart wants what it wants, and that's all there is to it...

Enjoy the ride!

:hug:

[rebel with a cause]

3. Unless he is abusive.......

then run for the hills.

The ride is not worth it in that case, at least it wasn't as far as I am concerned.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

4. Oh, of course!

Abusive is NEVER a good idea...

Sorry you had to go through that...

:hug:

[rebel with a cause]

5. Thanks..

It was not as bad as some women have it. Mostly psychological/verbal stuff.

Problem is the children had to suffer from the war that went on in our house during those years.

I'm a downer today. Always thinking the worse. Got to get my mind in a better place. :hug: ;)

[CaliforniaPeggy]

6. Consider this:

You did get out, and you did survive it.

Kids are often more resilient than you might think...

I hope this helps!

:hug:

[rebel with a cause]

7. It does. Thanks. nt

[Rising Phoenix]

8. I must follow my heart

and gut
I will enjoy the ride.....I think we just need to get ourselves situated on our own for a few months....but I know love when I feel it. And I'm in love.

I say that a lot.....wanting to love someone "practical"

but it always comes back.....

to you know who

[Lucian]

2. Heh.

I know where you're coming from. But the one I want, I can't have, at least not now. And it kills me. Every. Single. Day.

:(

[Rising Phoenix]

9. same here

I want him now, here, now, here

best of love luck to you!